I'm tired ..... nobody understands me, everyone thinks they know how I should live, they don't even look at themselves, that they are many times worse than me .... And what's wrong with me The main problem is that I again chose a person who is extremely unsuitable for me, it always happens. So I did not learn how to choose the people around me and I did not learn how to choose my love relationships ... I lose everything in them , I lose everything with people who don't even deserve my attention. I'm very sorry, I feel like the last fool on earth, I have the feeling that everyone around me is happy, and I always get caught up in some gamens who will either insult me, or humiliate me, or use me for money. ... I never met a person who truly loved me, even though everyone said so ... Everyone "loved" me a lot and would be with me for the rest of their lives ..... Yes, only that they couldn't spend even half of their lives with me. I keep trying to get in my head that the problem is not in me - I know, it's not in me, it's in them. But how to dump everything, never It was not easy for me to end my relationship with someone, I always stood until the last possible moment, with the stupid hope that something will change. Yes, but it never changes, in the end I am fucked again .. And why, because I give my best, obviously that's my mistake. Is this bad? My current friend is a very bad person, with a very difficult character. I tried to break him, I tried to explain to him that words affect, that words hurt, but he just doesn't care. So he shows me how little he means to him. , and I stand in this hell like the last fool ... And I will stand until he kicks me himself, because I can't, because there is always a question in my mind .....
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With the confidence you have, I wonder if I should give you advice ... that who I am ...
You contradict yourself: "everyone thinks they know how I should live, they don't even look at themselves that they are many times worse than me ..." and "I feel like the last fool on earth, I have the feeling that everyone around me is happy "???? If you have the same problem with different people, then this: "I'm always trying to get it into my head that it's not my problem" is not true. And do you know what your problem is? Here it is: "My current friend is a very bad person, with a very difficult character. I tried to break him, I tried to explain to him that words affect, that words hurt, but he just doesn't care." - you are trying to change men, to put them in your matrix. Error !!! If people don't want to change on their own, you can't. If you want to keep a man by your side and be happy with him, let him be like that, as it is. So choose it as you will like it. And not to start a relationship with the presumption that then you will trim his pins with Tesla. And you better get to know the man, look at his picks, and then go with him, if they won't stab you.
Well, choose more carefully the people around you. Stop looking only at the appearance and do not rush to the conclusion about a person. * Syndrome
To number 2 I will add something else - "A woman living a life tries to change a man, and then asks herself: Where is the man I loved?"
Apparently this is the type of men they attract. Some women just don't like normal men, not that there aren't any ... but let's just say they're not interesting enough, maybe, or something like that. Am I not right? Ralph
Sooner or later you will find the person you deserve, but you have to learn to say no to the end, because when you are low self-esteem and hurt and you can't say no to the end, it is pure suicide.
Hi, I want to give you advice. Be tougher with the people around you and especially with yourself when you look in the mirror. Why don't you tell yourself I can? I have had such problems too, find the person who really loves you. Such users and lubricators and there are still various mother's sons with a shovel to shovel them;) open your eyes !!!