Hello, I am married, have a nice family and live normally. In the sense that I am not different from ordinary people - I am sociable, nice, etc. Until a few years ago, many guests came to our home, we had many friends to whom we helped as much as we could. Some of them to us too. But there came a time when we had serious financial difficulties, and everyone who had the opportunity to help withdrew and even rejoiced. Thank God, things have improved and even our standard of living has improved significantly. However, I have a grudge against people. I don't want to have friends. I call myself - why are they for me when I can't rely on them when needed. I don't feel the need to hang out with people. We are fine at home alone. Sometimes, though, I think about what I'm becoming. Sometimes someone wants to get closer to us, and my husband and I are afraid to let him into our lives. Maybe we unwittingly miss a good person. Or not
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You are wrong in your judgment, you may have been wrong about people before, but there are many people whose friendship is wealth.
Hello. I understand very well what you are talking about, I have had a similar problem, but the advice I can give you is not to go on like this. In this way you become a woman angry with people. Not all people are like your ex-friends. There are also many valuable people. once you are disappointed in your friends, it does not mean that you should not give a chance to others. just be more careful. over time you will understand what kind of people they are. give them a chance. Don't shut yourself up at home. remember how nice it is to share happy moments with someone. and as for your former "friends" - forget them. they do not deserve to have friends like you and will realize it sooner or later. I wish you and your family good health and good luck. Do not close the door of your home and heart.
Hi, I've been through it! But there are also decent people ready to lend you a hand, maybe you haven't met them yet! Don't look at everyone with suspicion, but those who have left you in trouble just forget them!
I'm in the same situation as you. I don't want anyone in my house for the same reason. Humans have become more than beasts, not predators but just like beasts. Unfortunately. I even hate to write it, but this is the modern reality. It sucks, doesn't it.
I understand you because I know what it's like to be abandoned by friends and I still can't find real ones. That doesn't mean I'm not looking. But after people I considered so close left me for no reason, I no longer believe in true friendship. I just see and go out with certain people, but I can't call anyone a real friend ... My advice is to meet different people and not isolate yourself, because that's not good either, but just be more careful and try not to blindly trust people. Good luck :)
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Hello, I decided to leave my comment, because reading the lines it was as if someone had written about my family. I thought I had many friends I could count on, I always helped financially and with what I could and for work they could count on me for everything, but with the financial crisis my husband and I got into trouble and at one point we lost our jobs and we both had a problem, we had a loan that we could not service, things started and from that moment no one was around us to anyone I called and I knew that he could help me, he closed and no longer talked to us. I felt like a leper to anyone who came and begged me for help and sat at our table pretending not to know us. Now my husband and I both work, we try to cope with the situation, but it is very difficult with two children and with wage arrears, but we are still fighting somehow. We know how we are but one thing I realized the friends I had were nothing but hypocrites. It is very difficult for me, but I no longer share it with anyone, because he will not sympathize with me but will laugh at me. At least here I wrote what weighs on me. But is it possible to live like that, like lone wolves but I no longer have faith in anyone. Is that how I should raise my children, that friendship does not exist, it is only when you are well and they can use you. because he will not sympathize with me, but will laugh at me. At least here I wrote what weighs on me. But is it possible to live like that, like lone wolves but I no longer have faith in anyone. Is that how I should raise my children, that friendship does not exist, it is only when you are well and they can use you. because he will not sympathize with me, but will laugh at me. At least here I wrote what weighs on me. But is it possible to live like that, like lone wolves but I no longer have faith in anyone. Is that how I should raise my children, that friendship does not exist, it is only when you are well and they can use you.
I am in the same situation, as if I wrote what you said. Some time ago I had friends for whom I gave everything, but it so happened that I went through some things in my life, after which my dear friends turned against me. Gossip and all sorts of crap started that I wasn't prepared for. I decided to withdraw from people, but I continued to help others as much as I could. Doing someone a favor doesn't necessarily make you a friend. But things have not changed. Even now, as I write this, this bitterness and malice towards people - because for every good I have received several times great bitterness and filth. They told me "you are a good person and you can't harm anyone" with an irony, as if I were a fool. Now I'm in such a state - I despise people, but it's like mostly myself and I can't forgive myself, that I did not react properly when I should have. But one thing I know - I will not allow anyone to be friends with me, I do not believe that there is such a thing. I will learn to deal with life on my own, trusting only my family and no one else. I find it a wonderful saying "good warriors are always lonely, only the bad ones gather in herds. The good ones always fall in battle, the bad ones scream behind them". go ahead!