Hello, a 14-year-old boy from Plovdiv writes to you. I have had problems with ours for a long time and that is why I am writing here. I've been playing the guitar since I was 10, and I'm currently playing bass. At first my parents thought it would be great for their son to have some kind of music education, and when I told them I wanted to buy an electric guitar they looked at me at an angle. I felt very dumb, but they bought it for me. I don't think it's about the money - my father is a legal adviser and my mother is a doctor. I played when they were gone, otherwise someone would come to the room and start talking to me "as long as you play, blow my head off". I finally asked them why they were so dumb that I played the electric guitar. They told me that with this I would join a group, start drinking and taking drugs and all this nonsense. If they don't mind, I'm currently studying at the English High School. So I promised them no, and they relaxed. After entering high school, I decided that as a gift (my success was 5. 96) they could give me a bass guitar and learn to play it. They bought it for me (with a little fuss) and I started playing. And again the old song began in a new voice - I was going to ruin my life. What should I say? I don't want to give up playing, I like it, and what's wrong?
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The usual drug story ... First of all, playing something is really good and not everyone can do it. Honestly, I don't understand your parents either. Maybe they are not people who understand music and art, but you understand. Sometimes children are different from their parents. I'm not saying your parents are bad, you're just open to music, and they're not. Not everyone understands music as more than a palette of sounds or as something more than a means of unloading. On the other hand, your parents are worried about you, which is understandable, because the drug thing really has it. I guess if you play guitar, you listen to rock and metal at least a little bit. You know, the more seasoned fans are labeled evil beings and drug addicts, and so people get the wrong idea about them. That there are people who listen to rock and metal and shake, there are, but music is far from the cause. And the others who do it live or the cause is rooted in something else. I know these things because I myself listen to this music and I have met such individuals and I have heard all sorts of nonsense in my, and not only in my, address. Even some time ago on the site we argued with a girl because she made me a Satanist because I listen to such music. And she doesn't know me at all, because we're from different cities and we've never met, but anyway ... Try to explain this to your parents and promise them again that you won't touch drugs as much as you can. they stop bothering you because your job is not in the promise, because it can often be broken. It's your job to prove to them that you won't use drugs. If you join a group that uses drugs, one option is to get rid of it immediately when you find out. The other is to be very careful, because whether you try is up to you. For example, I don't drink or smoke, but most of my friends do. I have been in company with them many times, I have been talking for years, but I have never lit a fire or drunk. Both my mother and father know that most of my friends smoke and drink, but they trust me and know that I will not do it. At first they were worried too, but I was able to prove to them that they could trust me. So the counter, in this case, is in you, and you just have to prove to your mother and father that they can trust you. It is not easy and will take time, but it is not impossible. I hope I helped you with something. I have been in company with them many times, I have been talking for years, but I have never lit a fire or drunk. Both my mother and father know that most of my friends smoke and drink, but they trust me and know that I will not do it. At first they were worried too, but I was able to prove to them that they could trust me. So the counter, in this case, is in you, and you just have to prove to your mother and father that they can trust you. It is not easy and will take time, but it is not impossible. I hope I helped you with something. I have been in company with them many times, I have been talking for years, but I have never lit a fire or drunk. Both my mother and father know that most of my friends smoke and drink, but they trust me and know that I will not do it. At first they were worried too, but I was able to prove to them that they could trust me. So the counter, in this case, is in you, and you just have to prove to your mother and father that they can trust you. It is not easy and will take time, but it is not impossible. I hope I helped you with something. that the counter, in this case, is in you, and you just have to prove to your mother and father that they can trust you. It is not easy and will take time, but it is not impossible. I hope I helped you with something. that the counter, in this case, is in you, and you just have to prove to your mother and father that they can trust you. It is not easy and will take time, but it is not impossible. I hope I helped you with something.
Thanks for the wish. Keep playing, just do it while they're gone. That would calm things down a lot. And if you do not show any special enthusiasm in front of them - it would also help. ;)
Just tell them that music is your life, you like to do that, and you don't find anything wrong with that. Tell them to change their thinking about rock music in general. All these myths about drugs, and other movie scripts ... It's all up to you, and if you don't want to do it and at the same time love music, your development in a group, for example, shouldn't be a problem. If the others in this group are like you - they love music because of its very nature, and do not embark on anything more than just playing quality music, because of the music - there is no problem. Thank you for giving you the opportunity to have a guitar after all. This is a unique chance - to have a tool. You can take it at any time, play it, learn a solo, and have wonderful moments alone with your instrument. I also dream of one ... but, Unfortunately, it's different for my parents, the finances are not enough for anything, let alone for such an expensive tool. I can play, but it doesn't matter if I don't have anything. I slapped ... so ... just explain to them as a person, sit down, take your time, and I'm sure they'll understand you if you do it right. Success!
And grown-ups keep saying that children don't appreciate this, children don't appreciate that ...! Just the fact that your success in school is 5. 96, and you are 14 - a teenager, speaks of the fact that you are certainly not a crib .. What a wonderful child you are, I hope yours realize it faster - ..
Oh, I had the same problems. I even still have them. I'm a girl of 16, and when I was like you at 14, I decided I wanted to play the guitar. First I bought a bass, which is my main instrument, and after about two years an electric guitar. Ours were against, I was going to make a lot of noise, neighbors, eh. I see that you are an intelligent boy, at least from what you have read. I think you can handle the problem, just explain to them that this is what you like and what you want to do. Or just tell them that you want to play drums too, so they can see what a rumble is. So go boldly and always keep one thing in mind - if you start drinking, smoking and all sorts of things from now on, then you are not smart enough to understand what exactly you are doing! Good luck from me and BE ROCK!