Hello, Today I presented myself to the boss and other colleagues. And at a very inappropriate moment, when I am about to be certified for my work after 5 years of experience in my company. An important person who usually comes to my office is lost and I direct him where to go. Did not come. I went looking for him like crazy, I panicked, I sought the help of others, everyone in the office went to look for him, of course my director, in the end it turned out that the man is where he should be, and he is still waiting for me. I have read the received internal information about the place from which I must take it today. The man appeared alone, visibly disturbed. Everyone found out about the blunder. I feel very, very unhappy to be what I don't want to be. And for everyone's comments later, not to mention ... If anyone decides to respond, I will be grateful.
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Honey, life is too short to embitter you with things like that. You may be naughty now, but it will pass. Everything passes.
There is no reason to worry. :) We are human and we are wrong. Colleagues will understand you. He's not a dead man, is he? No one is sinless. That is exactly what we are learning from. What happened happened - you can't change it. Look ahead with a smile. There is no point in getting angry about past things. And I sometimes make stupid mistakes and my bosses want to argue with me. However, I am ahead of them - I go to them directly and in a calm tone explain to them that I am sorry, without justifying why it happened. I tell them that there is no point in being angry about the past, but rather looking to the future. Let's focus our efforts on correcting mistakes, instead of harassing ourselves, with what has already happened and cannot be changed. Usually when they hear this, their whole militant appearance evaporates and together we find a solution.
Come on. Gaffes happen all the time. Yes, you are guilty. Yes, you weren't careful. Just try to prove yourself next time. In time, your colleagues, even you, will forget about it. Good luck :))
You just apologize to the man and your boss and that's it. I think you pay too much attention to unnecessary things. Such a thing can happen to anyone. And in general, you need to look at things more calmly, not your smallest step under a magnifying glass. Take a deep breath and take it easy. Your colleagues are unlikely to be impressed by such a thing, unless you have unnecessarily directed their attention to this "blunder".
I think most people incl. something similar has happened to me. It's just that sometimes a person is distracted by anxiety. Your colleagues know this, so I don't think it's such a problem. Just apologize and say it was out of concern, but do it with confidence, not as if you're justifying yourself as a child in trouble. Success!
Yes, I have your problems! A big job happened, in a week no one will remember it.
Things like that happen, so what. You just apologize for the misunderstanding, and that's it. And the mistake is not irreparable. If I were your boss or colleague, I wouldn't pay much attention to what happened at all. The best management philosophy is that the good results of subordinates should be encouraged and mistakes should not be punished. This largely avoids the fear of mistakes that interferes with work. I hope one day you are lucky enough to be your boss. :) M 22
If you get so worried about these normal human mistakes and write on forums, what are we talking about? Do you expect any development, rise, or do you plan to continue like this for another 5 years? What are you exposing yourself to? To work for so long, to make a mistake once? Emmy left.
Thank you very much, and my best friend from Bulgaria encouraged me in the same way. I live abroad and the tension and competition here is incredible. Your stranger. You have to be very careful. We Bulgarians are a tolerant people, but the thinking of most people here is like a mold and these mistakes are not easily forgiven. That's why I'm so worried.
Ha ha ha! Is this a big blunder? Do not be silly!
As stupid as it is, it's over. Don't think about it, not because, as they write, "it's not a big deal," "it happens once, and so on," but because what happened happened. The truth is, once you worry, it's a big deal. However, if you continue to hate this mistake, you will make a mistake again due to lack of concentration. For this, take a deep breath, learn a lesson, and next time in a vague situation before you rush headlong into action, think about all the possible developments in history. Come on now, whatever happens is no longer up to you. Think ahead and only about the things that depend on you, so that you do not fall into a chain of mistakes. Just think about the next engagement in the service soberly. Whatever happens (because we can't reassure you that everything will be ok), you know that you are a good professional. What others think about a stupid fact doesn't matter! Success!
He who does not work is not wrong! Boldly forward and that's it!
No offense, but something is not connected - both "my office", which in turn says that the author is up in the hierarchy, and what is written from a stylistic and spelling point of view, should be evaluated with Weak 2, and in the initial classes. And this may be the level of employees in the company in question. Does anyone know ...
Don't worry! Everyone has made mistakes! Let me not tell you what I had done once and how, because of a confused list on my part, I had made many people quit their jobs and run to a meeting. Wait, I'll tell you, to see that there are worse. So, years ago I worked in Kremikovtzi and was responsible for organizing various meetings of various commissions. Most of the meetings were attended only by the directors of the administration - the Director of Marketing, Human Resources, Finance, etc., and only one meeting was to be attended by the directors of the plants. So I had to personally call the people who will be present and remind them of the meeting of the relevant committee, but in a hurry I took the wrong list and finally gathered absolutely everyone, including factory directors! Imagine people abandoning production, coming to the main building and it turned out that I made a mistake and in fact there is no need to attend! The boss was furious, I almost burst into tears, and finally one of the directors called by mistake tried to calm me down, joking that a walk during working hours always works well. Horror! I had decided that I would be fired after this blunder! And everything was fine and I worked there for a long time after that. For this calm down! To make a mistake is human! It can happen to anyone. that they will fire me after this blunder! And everything was fine and I worked there for a long time after that. For this calm down! To make a mistake is human! It can happen to anyone. that they will fire me after this blunder! And everything was fine and I worked there for a long time after that. For this calm down! To make a mistake is human! It can happen to anyone.
Don't worry, it's not professional that such a mistake affects you so much. Your boss should understand, however, if you are a diligent employee, such an event should not spoil the assessment for you. As for colleagues, it depends. They may be decent people, but they may be some kind of villains who can only take the opportunity to discredit you.
From the author Thank you all for your support. That's how I realized that I wasn't the only one in an awkward situation. As for spelling, yes, there are mistakes. In the presence of a preposition, the word is articulated with a short article even more so that the same. name "cabinet" in this case does not play the role of a forgery. I also admit missed punctuation marks. Thanks again for the kind words. Easy and fruitful week for the participants in the forum.
Kill him for fun, tell a joke or something ... and you will all laugh and in the end everything will be forgotten. And so no one will think anything bad of you. :)