Hello!!! For four years my mother went abroad and my sister and I stayed with our father. He had never treated our mother like his wife, and we did not feel fatherly love. When my mother left, my sister and I promised to take us to Greece and that we would not have to endure this person's harassment. My sister came of age and left for Greece and I waited another 2 years until I turned 18. Not for anything else, but because she did not allow us to go and see my mother. He didn't give me a power of attorney. I had not seen my mother for 4 years and my sister for 2. I begged him to convince him that I would return, but he did not let me go. All the time he was trying to blackmail my mother and sister for money, and when he saw that it wouldn't happen, he started behaving in the most disgusting way ... He insulted me, he cursed me and sometimes even touched me ... I was 17 years old. She kept me a prisoner, and if she found out I was dating friends, another nightmare scandal ensued. My mother and sister tried to help me and talk to him, but it was better if they didn't because then it was a scandal that I complained. I turned 18 in June, and in July I was in Greece with my mother and sister. I ran away from that place without anyone knowing and said I would go to visit my grandfather. I lied to him, but there was no other way out. When I was here, I called him and told him where I was, but he didn't speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away Should I forget the evils and forgive him? She kept me a prisoner, and if she found out I was dating friends, another nightmare scandal ensued. My mother and sister tried to help me and talk to him, but it was better if they didn't because then it was a scandal that I complained. I turned 18 in June, and in July I was in Greece with my mother and sister. I ran away from that place without anyone knowing and said I would go to visit my grandfather. I lied to him, but there was no other way out. When I was here, I called him and told him where I was, but he didn't speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him? She kept me a prisoner, and if she found out I was dating friends, another nightmare scandal ensued. My mother and sister tried to help me and talk to him, but it was better if they didn't because then it was a scandal that I complained. I turned 18 in June, and in July I was in Greece with my mother and sister. I ran away from that place without anyone knowing and said I would go to visit my grandfather. I lied to him, but there was no other way out. When I was here, I called him and told him where I was, but he didn't speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him? but it was better if they didn't do it because then it was a scandal that I complained. I turned 18 in June, and in July I was in Greece with my mother and sister. I ran away from that place without anyone knowing and said I would go to visit my grandfather. I lied to him, but there was no other way out. When I was here, I called him and told him where I was, but he didn't speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him? but it was better if they didn't do it because then it was a scandal that I complained. I turned 18 in June, and in July I was in Greece with my mother and sister. I ran away from that place without anyone knowing and said I would go to visit my grandfather. I lied to him, but there was no other way out. When I was here, I called him and told him where I was, but he didn't speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him? and he did not speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him? and he did not speak and hung up. He has been calling every day for the last 2 weeks and asking me to come back. Please give me some advice! Did I do the right thing by running away? Should I forget the evils and forgive him?
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you did the right thing, you won't put up with it! :)) He does not deserve, but still talk to him try to be on good terms with him :))
Yes, you did the right thing, though I don't justify your mother. It was wrong to dump you, there was another solution. But anyway - the past, the past. I hope you find a job other than a cleaner in Greece and be able to live normally. Good luck PP DON'T CALL YOUR FATHER AND DON'T LOOK FOR HIM
Well done author, you acted very bravely and wisely. Don't call him at all, don't look for him. This one, your father, doesn't even deserve to be told. Keep going boldly, and don't look back. I wish you success!!! ^^^^ ЛуДкАрКаТа ^^^^
Do not come back!
Don't go back to him, because you can't even imagine what could happen to you! You did very well and listen to others - do not look for it at all.
You did the right thing :) Don't worry about him anymore. live your life
Well done, author. You are a brave creature. Of course you did the right thing. From now on I wish you all the best and many sunny moments with your mother and sister. It's great that you've put all three together! Sarah
And I share the opinion of all those who wrote before me: it is right. You can forgive him and not hide something bad in his soul, but do not listen to him and do not let him convince you, DO NOT RETURN!
In no case do not return. Just look ahead.
by the author: Thanks to everyone who took the time to advise me. And thousands of congratulations to the one who created the page! She is amazing! Thank you again!!!
Number 2 Thank you, but if you have heard the whole story, which is intolerable and cruel, you will not think that my mother is to blame. In fact, I wanted you and my sister to get rid of him because he always treated me better than he treated them. Draw your own conclusions about how you and my sister felt. As for the work, even if I become a cleaner I won't care ... for me the most important thing is to be calm and if I want to become a garbage man ... there is a God and he watches and one day I am sure he will turn the days into I suffered in one of the happiest for the future !!! Thank you all!!!
You did the right thing, don't look for him anymore