My girlfriend and I have been together for half a year, but I am already convinced that this is the woman for me and everything is somehow magical with her. I think we understand each other completely and read our thoughts. She is perfect for me, even more perfect than in my dreams. And in general, I'm not some psychic who limits her, she doesn't give me reasons (nor do I give her), but I'm annoyed by her stupid arrogant ex-boyfriend. I'm set 98, they're both 97. When we left (we used to be just friends for a long time), I asked her to take it out of her life, to take it off social media for me, and she did it without thinking. They were with him for a year and a half, they were their first and I admit, I was jealous. This unfortunate man was already only cheating on her, hurting her, constantly killing his complexes on her, and I treat her like a princess because she doesn't deserve less! But he tries in every way to provoke me, he interferes in our lives, follows us, associates with our friends and creates intrigues. He sees her as a reward I stole. And he is constantly compared to me. Otherwise, we live in a big district city, he too.
No matter how much we don't notice, garbage continues to stick in our affairs. My friend's request is that we ignore him until he gets tired of it, but such brats understand only one thing. Several times we exchanged insults with him in the nets, we were on the verge of pulling ourselves outlive. And I'm seriously considering inviting him to talk in private. My patience ran out. Initially, it all started when I found out about the intrigues he was knitting, found him, and told him to stay away, to be human and to put an end to it. He began to pretend that she still had feelings for him, I was a substitute and such. In principle, I would not pay attention, but I was very angry, I do not know why. Maybe because he disrespected her and I adore her. Since then, it deliberately irritates even more. I'm seriously considering crushing him. And I'm not that type, don't think of me like an idiot or a country defender. I study political science, I don't drink or take drugs, I look at my life, I read books, I travel. I am a modest boy.
She is also quiet, silent, and kind, not some bloated muffin. But rich sons like him annoy me. And they literally wake up my evil side (I'm a Scorpio after all). If he had behaved maturely, I would not have bothered at all, but he provoked ME constantly. Should I not teach him a lesson? I love my girlfriend very much and I don't want her to be hurt in any way. The gentleman may calm down after a few fists. What to do? And how to restrain,
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Throw him a fight and he'll sit on his ass. What are you wondering ?! Sometimes you have to, dude. You may be meek and cool, but sometimes you just have to be a man. Unscrew 2-3 fists in his face and you will solve the problem - guarantee;) Good luck.
I'll tell you first, dude, I completely understand you, but you can't shut people's mouths in any way, if you're angry that 98 or someone else of your age said something about you, then you have a big problem with yourself. . You know? There are some bigger and more serious problems in life that, believe me, cannot be solved with a fight, I have personally tried but it doesn't work. And personally, I want to give you some advice about these meek girls and that is to beware of them because they don't always mean what they say. Just in two words live your life, look at your interest and put them where they talk about you on x ya, I'm m24
You may not be a country defender, but obviously you have no experience in interpersonal relationships ... You don't specifically mention how he provoked you, just general talk. What are these intrigues ...? Typically, you both fight in a rustic way ... And have you thought about what? That is, he gets annoyed because you are attached to him. If the argument is that she still had feelings for him, why didn't she tell him it wasn't. Then his interest will die out. Wise people do not interfere in the past relationships of the partner, she can safely say that she has no interest in the former ...
Dude, I'm 93 set and I have a boyfriend who's 95th but a girl from 2002 set wanted us to be together, the same story is only that the girl was jealous - the 2002 set. I explained to her that I had a boyfriend, but she did not accept it and it lasted 7 months, there was a cutting of the veins on her part and my first love told me to leave her and I did. But that teenager wrote again, I got angry and told her to leave us alone, but she didn't understand a word. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, we are even expecting a baby
Don't bother beating him, he'll find his own master,
Are you studying "political science" seriously ?! Your child's mind is still evident, if he was mature, if he trusted his girlfriend and was sure of your love, believe me, you would not write it on an anonymous site. :) With a fight and insults you will not change anything, you will make him even more angry. Watch your life and don't care, isn't she with you ?! And even if you go back to him, what are you losing ?! You are small, you will have many more love troubles, but such is life.
I think it's best to ignore it. From what you say, this person is just looking for ways to provoke you because he sees that it irritates you. Do not pay attention to him. He has already lost the girl, she is with you and you are happy. Don't let this guy's envy ruin your relationship. Realizing that his actions do not lead to anything, he will leave you alone. Just don't fall to his level. It doesn't make sense and the other thing is that violence doesn't lead to anything good. He is the past, you are the present. Success! J. 32
Just as it is the future, so it can become the past
In my opinion, in order for a fight to take place, things have to be really critical. You do not mention quite important details: how he provoked you, what measures you have taken so far, etc. In general (as a girl) I think that this is not your job, and the task of your girlfriend to tell him that she does not want it has already continued. go ahead, she's happy and let him do the same. If after that the rude behavior continues or whatever he does, because he didn't mention it exactly, try to approach it tactfully and categorically one or two more times ... And if it doesn't happen, take it a little so that it falls to the ground.
Don't deal with idiots, don't become like them ...