I have had a new colleague for 1 month. She is very beautiful and radiant, she is always smiling. Seeing her really makes me in a much better mood. Lately, though, I've been thinking about her all the time and I want to invite her for coffee, but I'm not sure if she likes me. Lately, he writes to me quite often on Facebook, but he's still supposed to be at work, but it's not about such important things and he doesn't hint at anything different. Otherwise we have fun and joke when we see each other, but she is a little more reserved. I can't tell if he likes me, and I don't want to be embarrassed if he cuts me off, because we work together a little or a lot and then we're unlikely to be in the same collegial relationship again. There is another problem, I work at a hotel reception and in fact, even if something happens, we will hardly have time to see each other, because almost always when one is at work, the other rests and vice versa. In general, a very confusing job. I do not know what to do..
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I'm a girl and basically a boy if he talks to me and I answer him, I laugh at his jokes, but that doesn't mean I want to be more than friends. She can simply communicate with you out of kindness and a desire for a good relationship, but if she doesn't do anything, she doesn't want you to be anything more.
From the author. Thanks for the top. An interesting answer from a woman's point of view. I rather think it's something like that, but it's really very sweet and I want to have something more. We will see how things will develop if I find a convenient moment and I can invite her for coffee.
You're great people ... I think you should invite her over for coffee. It's unlikely to cut you, after all, it's just coffee. There are women who are more shy and reserved, that doesn't mean they can't fall in love. Good luck! Girl
Hey, author! Life is one, and it expires very quickly. Invite the girl to do whatever she wants. If he cuts you for 2 days, you will be uncomfortable and he will pass and leave. You will not understand if you do not try. I think this story will help. "I don't regret the things I did wrong, but the things I didn't try!" Good luck and act!
To the author: I am a girl and I am in a similar situation. I like a colleague, but I am more reserved with him precisely because I like him and I am afraid. From what? From the fact that he can like me and it becomes complicated ... I write it to make it clear that some more reserved girls do it for fear of being hurt. If she is really smiling and well-meaning, even if you invite her for coffee and she refuses - it will not affect your work together. The "coffee invitation" is on the border and allows both the questioner and the refusal to keep their relationship. An invitation for coffee is not equal to an invitation for a relationship ... But it is a good start if you both want to upgrade things ... First of all, clarify for yourself if you want something serious with it. If you have a number of doubts, if you change your girlfriends often or you are just easily impressed by "
From the author: Thanks for the answers. Basically, because I care a lot about everything and I think about everything a thousand times, I missed a lot of good things and pleasant moments. I hope that soon I will have the courage to invite her for coffee. Regarding comment number 4, I certainly don't change my girlfriends often, on the contrary. The problem is that for 1 month I have been constantly thinking about my colleague and I don't like it, because it bothers me and everything else starts to become indifferent to me. I watch when he enters Facebook and other similar nonsense. Generally crazy work ..
Author, you sound like a very decent boy. Invite her for coffee. If you do not have the courage to ask the question directly, write to her on Facebook. Among other things, insert that you love coffee and if it is on the same wave, direct the conversation in the direction of a coffee invitation. As if by the way. If it's not a secret - how old are you? And she?
From the author to number 7: She is 22, I am 26. A good suggestion, there must be some reason not to betray myself completely. thank you for the comment