Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl from a small town. In short, I have been in a relationship for 2 years, in the beginning everything was fine, but for about 7 months it has been harassing me constantly, both mentally and physically. I tried everything. I broke up with him a million times, but the next day he found me and broke me in a fight and I was forced to return. I have also filed complaints with the police, but his parents have connections with the police and all the complaints go to hell, I am not helped, on the contrary - he understands and beats me again, swears, insults, etc. 1 hour a day he behaves well, the rest of the time he abuses me both on Facebook and live. When I tell him that I'm tired and we're going to break up, he threatens me and doesn't take anything seriously. I tried to make a face-off, the policeman went to his house, but he rolled over even more and you remember what happened. I dare not tell friends and relatives so as not to start harassing them as well. I'm in a cage, he doesn't let me go anywhere, he controls my way of dressing, he constantly makes me do s..x, which hurts me and I don't like it. I was wondering if I should talk to his parents, but I'm afraid it will get worse. Please help, I don't know how I can escape this horror since even the police don't help me.
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Write everything on several of the news sites in detail. If there is noise the machine turns and connections do not help, talk to your parents his are clearly rubbish
Find a good lawyer, and the lawyer to notify the Prosecutor's Office, and to be denied access 50 meters away from you, and 50 meters from your home. But find a good lawyer. There is a lawyer Svetozar Arnaudov, answers questions for free online. Look for him. But don't let this garbage crush you and play with you ... I'm telling you this as friendly advice. I wish you good luck.
Hello, I'm sorry it's very unpleasant, there are many options as a citizen of the country you have rights with whom you can protect your rights are regulated in the Constitution of Bulgaria and according to it all citizens are equal in rights and competent authorities are obliged to protect you court of residence and the National Police. The police can issue a police order under the law on the Ministry of Interior to order the perpetrator not to engage in physical violence, etc., the safest option is to submit a request to the district court of residence under the law on protection from domestic violence with which the court may prohibit the person from approaching you at a certain distance and remove him from cohabitation, etc. . And if you have claims to the activities of the police, you can write a complaint to the Ministry of Interior,
Complaint to the police
Why don't you beat him and as soon as he reaches for you, reach out to him and don't let him beat you - and you start beating him
Take it and tell your parents. The next step is not to tell the police but to write a complaint. Write complaints to the third and if there is no change, ask for a meeting with the head of the district. Your parents will help you a lot. Eventually, you will also consult with a lawyer, which a court may take. You can't do it alone. Grandpa Tosho
Horror! At least you don't live together, I hope. As sick as it is for me to tell you, there seems to be only one salvation. Escape! You take all your money, documents and some clothes, catch the bus and disappear! And the farther away, the better! If you have relatives he doesn't know about, great. If you don't, you go to a big city, preferably not the one closest to yours, because it will look for you there first and call the hotline for protection of people victims of violence. They should help you, find you shelter and then help you find a job so that you can start a new life in the new place. And of course, no matter how hard it is for you, DO NOT tell anyone what city you are in. You can call your family to tell them you're fine so they don't go crazy with anxiety, but you DON'T TELL THEM where you are! Because if you tell them this one will harass them and eventually betray you. So let them just know that you are fine and that you have run away from X. It takes a lot of courage to do that, but there is simply no other way. The bad thing is that you can't rely much on relatives and friends he knows about, because he will find you quickly. That's why you hide in a big city and look for an organization to help you. And of course, buy a new SIM card so that he can't find you on your phone, because if there are connections in the police, they can find you on the phone signal. And if you call yours, it's best to do it from a public phone. The idea is not to leave too many traces online that the police have ways to find you on them. Save yourself, darling! Until it got a lot scarier. It takes a lot of courage to do it, but there is simply no other way. The bad thing is that you can't rely much on relatives and friends he knows about, because he will find you quickly. That's why you hide in a big city and look for an organization to help you. And of course, buy a new SIM card so that he can't find you on your phone, because if there are connections in the police, they can find you on the phone signal. And if you call yours, it's best to do it from a public phone. The idea is not to leave too many traces online that the police have ways to find you on them. Save yourself, darling! Until it got a lot scarier. It takes a lot of courage to do it, but there is simply no other way. The bad thing is that you can't rely much on relatives and friends he knows about, because he will find you quickly. That's why you hide in a big city and look for an organization to help you. And of course, buy a new SIM card so that he can't find you on your phone, because if there are connections in the police, they can find you on the phone signal. And if you call yours, it's best to do it from a public phone. The idea is not to leave too many traces online that the police have ways to find you on them. Save yourself, darling! Until it got a lot scarier. That's why you hide in a big city and look for an organization to help you. And of course, buy a new SIM card so that he can't find you on your phone, because if there are connections in the police, they can find you on the phone signal. And if you call yours, it's best to do it from a public phone. The idea is not to leave too many traces online that the police have ways to find you on them. Save yourself, darling! Until it got a lot scarier. That's why you hide in a big city and look for an organization to help you. And of course, buy a new SIM card so that he can't find you on your phone, because if there are connections in the police, they can find you on the phone signal. And if you call yours, it's best to do it from a public phone. The idea is not to leave too many traces online that the police have ways to find you on them. Save yourself, darling! Until it got a lot scarier.
Your family is for this. Share and get rid of the abuser. Find such organizations call and ask them for advice. Akoeetre you get pregnant and because under the pressure of the small town, you will marry him. There is a way out, as long as you want it. Call an organization. And how your do not know when you are in a small town and everything is known. Something is your sober judgment. There are sheltered housing, there are so many options. There is no way he can beat you and yours see you.
He doesn't hit me in the face and that's in order not to be seen, there are only slaps. Thanks to everyone, I don't want to tell my family I won't let them harass them. I filed a complaint with the regional directorate of the Ministry of Interior, where they said they would consider the case, I submitted medical, chats and receipts. I hope it happens!
Look girl find out, only to the District Police, nothing will happen. Write a Complaint to the District Prosecutor's Office in the fastest way.
I'm telling you again! Talk to your parents. Apart from them, no one will help you. I know it's hard and impossible for you, but they will get you out. Not only are they your parents, but they do their best for their children. Your problem is serious and you need a life-poisoned person who doesn't stop at anything. That's them. Your parents. These state institutions read two out of three complaints and, seeing your age, put it on the cell of a "teenager with a vague consciousness." We have rights. When we pay or raise a scandal where we should. Don't wait to be in the emergency room, talk to your parents. They will not abandon you while they are alive. Grandpa Tosho