Something about my husband has been making me think for a long time. At the beginning of the relationship we had sex very often. There was not a day that we were not intimate, sometimes several times a day, even at night when we woke up. The first time he undressed me, he said he had never seen such a beautiful female body and never believed he would have such a woman by his side. After a year it changed. We started having sex less often, and after another even less often.
There was really no reason. Fortunately, this did not change our feelings. To this day we continue to get closer and closer, we become a very good couple, but I want to have a little more sex or at least to be more desirable because every woman needs it. A few days ago I took erotic pictures at home, I put on sexy lingerie with garters, the picture became very nice. I have a naturally large bust with a D cup, which fits perfectly in my 50s. I decided to send him the photo via SMS.
I wrote a funny text below, sent it ... but he didn't answer me. After an hour he came home from work and behaved as usual. He sat down to eat, just saying, "Honey, what are these pictures you're sending me?" I was dumbfounded and went to get dressed, telling him I was going out. He said he would not let me go anywhere alone and came with me. I went shopping to calm down. When I ignored him, he decided to say something nice, "I liked the picture." And that's it. I was a little angry with him, but I continued to withdraw. Then I tried to delete it from his phone, but he wouldn't let me, he said he would keep it. To this day, there has been nothing to do with sex, only from time to time when the nipples are outlined through the blouse he says "Big breasts ..." and looks at them in love ... then he passes, hangs me on my ass and is happy, but it doesn't lead to sex and I don't really get that attention as in the beginning.
Nothing has changed for me, I like him even more than before, I constantly show him and he does not complain. I try all sorts of things, but I can't figure out how to like him. Like animals, it only works if I'm rude and ignore it cruelly. I'm sure he's not cheating on me. He loves me, I don't love him either. But I want to be the perfect mistress and like him, because lately he may have calmed down that I'm his. as in the beginning. Nothing has changed for me, I like him even more than before, I constantly show him and he does not complain. I try all sorts of things, but I can't figure out how to like him.
As animals, it only works if I'm rude and ignore it cruelly. I'm sure he's not cheating on me. He loves me, I don't love him either. But I want to be the perfect mistress and like him, because lately he may have calmed down that I'm his. as in the beginning. Nothing has changed for me, I like him even more than before, I constantly show him and he does not complain. I try all sorts of things, but I can't figure out how to like him.
As animals, it only works if I'm rude and ignore it cruelly. I'm sure he's not cheating on me. He loves me, I don't love him either. But I want to be the perfect mistress and like him, because lately he may have calmed down that I'm his.
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It sounds to me like he has a mistress ... I hope it's not like that ... if you don't have me, your sex life is very monotonous and he's not interested in you ... if he doesn't react to white, be more relaxed. .. share your fantasies with him, if you have to buy a vibrator and tell him how you want to use it ... attack him sometime, he won't, he'll be done!
in my opinion, there is no mistress. don't show him how much you care about him. maybe it calms him down and even makes you uninterested in his eyes. if you start behaving a little more withdrawn, not rude, not cold, just a little inaccessible, you will see how his feelings will be revived. I tell you from experience. Success!
Buy a vibrator and try to see it. There is no greater blow to a man than this.
* blow ...
Well, a normal reaction! This should not be a porn movie, so that when you send him a picture, he will immediately throw up and throw himself between your legs. Given that you are doing something like this for the first time, it is normal for him to feel confused and not know how to react. And if you don't initiate sex, how can you be sure he doesn't want to? He may think the exact same way about you - that you don't want to anymore. He slaps you on the ass, compliments your breasts, and you do nothing. And then you send him the picture. Well, tell me, is this logical behavior? And from the extreme of passivity - in the other. And a man doesn't need much. You grab him by the package, talk to him a little dirty, and get on your knees. You don't have to take photo shoots, stand in the front line, or recite Pushkin to him every time he has sex with you. And I don't know how old you are and what you are like,
For God's sake (I'm not a believer) woman, what the hell is stopping you from asking him personally about your torment and instead getting into dangerous movies for your relationship? !!
Oooh, darling. I long for a woman like you, with nice tender breasts. I can offer you all the tenderness and caresses you desire. Write to me at miri6ezle @ mail. bg
I think he liked one .... why don't you dig in his phone ???
It's like reading for myself. Write at least how long you have been together exactly. You see, it must first be clear to you that things in a relationship cannot be the same in a year or two. Do you have children? Your husband certainly loves you and appreciates you. If you haven't been so naughty before, it's probably hard for him to accept you in that light. He is likely to be jealous - why are you "suddenly" doing these things. Obviously it's time to refresh your relationship and you obviously need a relaxed conversation. Do not strain things, do not press him, flirt, be good and kind, do not press him with sex and desire for it constantly. Could there be any problems? It may feel "insufficient" for you, I've heard this from mine, for example. We have been together for 13 years and things are with us as with you. We love each other, we look for each other, we have sex without restraint. But sometimes the hormone hits me and I want more, and he is tired or sick or something and can't do it more than once a day. You don't have to make a drama out of it. ABSOLUTELY DON'T LISTEN TO THE NONSENSE that he had a mistress, because most people who write here are 20-25, have no marriage or a long relationship and do not have the appropriate experience and experience with one partner for many years to understand things. After a story very similar to yours, after a while, it turned out that my husband was jealous and instead of rejoicing and arousing my playfulness, he decided then that I had a relationship or was about to have one, and from there they came to me. "new ideas for nonsense," I quote. It's just that I'm the most unrestrained and depraved of the two. So touch lightly, calmly, but insistently :) and don't worry. If you're still very heavy and start to get jealous for no apparent reason, just admit it to him. Tell him that you love him more than ever, that you are currently in the mood for sex, and that you are secretly worried about his interest in another woman. Maybe that's how you'll feel about him and make him honest. Usually such men really consider it very lucky to have a nice and sexy woman next to them and sometimes they feel out of place, even when the relationship is very long. May your love continue well and blossom with time, as well as the sex between you! when the relationship is very long. May your love continue well and blossom with time, as well as the sex between you! when the relationship is very long. May your love continue well and blossom with time, as well as the sex between you!
The advice of №3 is dangerous! Her husband will really get hit because he will decide that he is no longer good! My answer is no, he is not cheating, on the contrary, he is jealous of you. Talk.
Well №2, what kind of experience are you talking about? People are married, not teenagers! In adults, problems are solved with conversations and only with conversations !!
An hour before you go home, light candles, play slow music, wear something ultra sexy or just silicone socks or just garters .. sprinkle a few rose petals on the floor .. so for the atmosphere, and in the middle of you erotic - sensual view. When he comes home with a cat's gait, meet him, kiss him quickly on the lips, wrap your arms around his neck and pull him to you, rub him, start undressing him right there in the hallway .. take off his shirt .. pull him slowly and don't stop kissing him, take him slowly to the bathroom if you prefer to freshen up in the shower or just put him in the bedroom and knock him down on the bed. Take the initiative completely, seduce him. With the impatience and dexterity of a child opening a Christmas present, he took off his pants and gave him a nice whistle like a hors d'oeuvre .. then ride him ..
I remembered something else. :) You can do a striptease for him or just erotically take off some clothes from both of you with a slight shaking of the ass and bends in the waist. And in order for the text messages to have the impact you want ... when you write to him, insert something that will burn him, it will remind him of a hot experience. It will create a deja vu and sweet thrills low below the navel. Just chick, get out of your own frames! Your husband must have already entered the rut. Get him out there. Be different, provocative and always sexy! By the way, I'm a woman that doesn't matter.
He may have been tired, otherwise I agree with number 5, as well as the fact that someone else may have caught his eye. Time will tell.
№12, here is not the question of her seducing him, on the contrary, she must let him breathe a little. This man definitely wants his wife and sleeps with her, as I understand not the problem that he does not want her. He just can't do it all the time like in the beginning - he can't, and he can't. There is nothing to seduce him, to sit down and talk. Even if they experience a good evening and sex, the problem will still remain, it is necessary to understand where and what the problem is. otherwise it is like deceiving a hungry child with a cake or a cookie.
Apparently you're not that sexy: D: D: D: D
Number 12, this is a woman's fantasy, why do you think a man will rejoice but rose petals on the floor? Sensual, slow ... your grandmother's thorn! If you want to do something to please your husband, order him a pizza and blow him while he watches the match (or whatever he's doing there to unload). These scenarios from Harlequin's novels are a burden on the male psyche and physiology. Grandpa Torbalan
Send me your photos by speachless77 at abv. opensubtitles2 en and i will tell you what could be the reason. In all likelihood, the cause is not in you, but it would be good to check.
great people have asked the question without nonsense and childish work
To ABSOLUTELY all the women I've undressed, I said they have the best body I've ever seen ... the tactic was .. and they're tying up hahahaha