I'm a 19-year-old girl from the title, you must have thought, let's have another blood, but it's not like that. I know the boy for a long time and he is really very attractive, curly hair green eyes abe straight dream, and one night as we drank with the company something happened (this was my first time) in the morning I wanted to explode anyway, we talked and he suggested we go out together. I flatly refused, and we agreed to be together from time to time, sometimes we go out together but everyone around me accepts him only as an acquaintance of mine, and I have not told anyone about what happened a few months ago. He drools sometimes when we're alone (he loved me, sometimes we sleep together, but I don't take him seriously. It wasn't a problem until a pretty close friend met him. It started (male is very beautiful, she wanted me to invite him out more often, and so on. ) I didn't pay much attention to her until one day she burst into tears that he couldn't notice her, etc. I tried to bury him to stop our circus, but he didn't want to (although I was attached too I won't lie to him a bit) he told me that he would tell her that he is with me if I do something ... And so the dumb blonde (I) pushed myself into a series again -_- I ask for advice and without insults, thank you :) Ps. I ask the site administrators to publish my story I really need advice. Thanks :) And so the dumb blonde (me) pushed myself into a series again -_- Please for advice and no insults, thank you :) Ps. I ask the site administrators to publish my story I really need advice. Thanks :) And so the dumb blonde (me) pushed myself into a series again -_- Please for advice and no insults, thank you :) Ps. I ask the site administrators to publish my story I really need advice. Thanks :)
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Виж, проблемът ти е просто от едно недоразумение. Трябва възможно най-скоро да кажеш на приятелката си за своите отношения с това момче, точно както го разказа ти. Твоя работа си е ти колко сериозни или несериозни връзки ще поддържат, но първо ти си била с момчето, после тя го е харесала. Освен това тя ми се струва доста незряла и повърхностна - не може една сериозна жена да се влюби в някого, само защото той бил сладък или хубав, а и без вашата работа тя просто няма шанс с него - мъжете не харесват такова преследване.... Така че си помисли и еално дали има смисъл да се мъкнеш с такива приятелки и да се занимаваш с глупости - толкова ли няма смислени занимания в живота ти, та да си губиш времето с такива „жени“ и техните „драми“? И хвани си изясни отношенията с момчето, че може би е лапнало. Изобщо стегни се и виж какво искаш в живота, вместо да се разтакаваш безцелно и да се размотаваш с грешните хора, защото с какъвно се събереш, такъв ставаш - утре ти ще квичиш по разни момчета и никой няма да те взима на сериозно
As difficult as it is, it's up to you to make things right. Just tell your girlfriend the truth. The earlier the better! She would feel betrayed if she found out from someone other than you. She will experience it for sure, she can't be so in love. He'll probably be jealous, but he won't hate you. I was in a similar situation 3-4 years ago. I fell in love with a boy and my best friend told me 2 weeks later that she liked him. Then I fell silent and backed away, because there was nothing like that between us anyway. But with you the situation is different. He has feelings for you and obviously there are some on your part. When you say he's perfect ... there's nothing to think about! Don't turn him around unnecessarily, but tell him if you want to be together or not! And tell your girlfriend everything as it is!
Your girlfriend is not a factor in my opinion. She liked your lover in practice, and if you want to be fair, tell her to stop hoping. On the other hand, this boy likes you, and as much as she likes him, he won't be with her. Or tell her that you don't think he likes her and don't tell her you're sleeping together. However, these are your personal things, you do not have to share them. It is your decision.
Girl, I want you to be with this boy! He offered you a relationship after sleeping with you, and he could have left without saying goodbye, he told you he didn't like it - it wasn't a joke! Be with him !!!
He loves you, you are not indifferent and you started with him before she saw him as she told you, you just had to tell her to be like that, but that she is with you, not to hang him on the base like you are laughing. but you missed the chance she wouldn't be angry with you at all .. now call her and tell her, for example, that you started then and you couldn't tell her because she told you he was cute, etc. not to be angry with you and and nothing was certain but that you want to go out and you wanted to know and so she will understand you and will not be angry at all she saw him long after that means therefore you did not take it and she tried it can only be shame act while it's early and say no wonder take it down and then find out from someone else then you will be angry that you didn't tell herand then you will have mixed up a great movie otherwise now there is no reason for them to be angry and this is one thing there is nothing to say boldly and you have done nothing .. :)
From the author Thank you very much for your time and advice. Until number 1, I don't deal with people's dramas, but I can't just send her to fuck her. Today I decided to talk to her and make it official, that we are with him. Thanks again :)
But wait, you've been with him before (it doesn't matter if it's love or just sexual intercourse and suddenly he likes her. I don't think you're guilty of anything. But tell her the truth so she knows the reality and obviously has no hope .
If you like it, you will not give it to this or that, but if you can't find the answer yourself, then you are very bad.
From the author Thanks again for the support, we are now officially together, he even wants to move in with them, but I think he's in a hurry haha. My friend didn't take things very well, although I don't care anymore, that's her problem. Thank you, I was really much more confident in my decision after your advice. To number 4 it's so thank you :) even breakfast had taken me very nice hahaha ... The reason I do not want a serious commitment was my fear of dumping me just like that and so I avoided feelings, but after 11 months of our "relationship" he was very attentive and caring, although he has been as I have known him for 4 years, we have been in the same company and he has always taken care of me. (I couldn't help but share it) and when I'm withdrawn myself and I like to deal with the difficulties of not waiting or asking for help,
Standard story - have fun, we know that YOU are not like that ..