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I Started To Like Him

By festivalpark August 23, 2020 8 answers Last updated August 23, 2020

About 8-9 months ago I met a boy, he is not from my city, he is a little older than me, but I will not go into details. I have been waiting for him for half a year to come and see me, I can't come, our people don't let me in, they are strict and there is no way. I am 19, I am still studying, he is 24, my mother and grandmother know what I am talking about and are aware of the details, they have nothing against him (I live only with them, my grandfather died, my father is divorced from my mother and lives abroad, I haven't heard from him for 5-6 years now) anyway. In the beginning we talked every day, we wrote to each other quite often, but in the last 2-3 months we haven't heard from each other at all, I only called him once to ask him what he was doing and instead of being happy he asked me "What's up, why are you calling?", I'm definitely not indifferent to him, we write to each other every day, but I have the feeling that he is withdrawing from me. He keeps telling me that there is no other, he only wants me, etc. and he needs money to come, but I don't think that's it.

I suspect that she is either dealing with someone or still has something to do with her ex, as she continues to react to the photos with her heart. Some will say that this is not a reason to be with her, but sometimes you can catch a person lying from the slightest thing. He told me they were friends, but nothing more and they were over, but I still don't think so. I often write to him if he wants to talk and he agrees, but he always forgets, then he apologizes to me, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me at all. What to do? And just to add - it's not a fake profile, we saw each other on camera, as I said before, we are an absolutely real boy. I suspect that she is either dealing with someone or still has something to do with her ex, as she continues to react to the photos with her heart. Some will say that this is not a reason to be with her, but sometimes you can catch a person lying from the slightest thing. He told me they were friends, but nothing more and they were over, but I still don't think so. I write to him quite often if he wants to talk and he agrees, but he always forgets, then he apologizes to me, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me at all. What to do? And just to add - it's not a fake profile, we saw each other on camera, as I said before, we are an absolutely real boy. I suspect that she is either dealing with someone or still has something to do with her ex, as she continues to react to the photos with her heart. Some will say that this is not a reason to be with her, but sometimes you can catch a person lying from the slightest thing. He told me they were friends, but nothing more and they were over, but I still don't think so. I write to him quite often if he wants to talk and he agrees, but he always forgets, then he apologizes to me, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me at all. What to do?

And just to add - it's not a fake profile, we saw each other on camera, as I said before, we are an absolutely real boy. but sometimes you can catch a man lying from the slightest thing. He told me they were friends, but nothing more and they were over, but I still don't think so. I write to him quite often if he wants to talk and he agrees, but he always forgets, then he apologizes to me, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me at all. What to do? And just to add - it's not a fake profile, we saw each other on camera, as I said before, we are an absolutely real boy. but sometimes you can catch a man lying from the slightest thing. He told me they were friends, but nothing more and they were over, but I still don't think so. I write to him quite often if he wants to talk and he agrees, but he always forgets, then he apologizes to me, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me at all.

What to do? And just to add - it's not a fake profile, we saw each other on camera, as I said before, we are an absolutely real boy.

Answers 8

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rdesax answered · August 23, 2020

   Reacts with "<3" on her photos and you wonder if he cares for her? That he turns your thumb and lies is clear, you have nothing more to put up with. I wonder why you haven't dropped it yet.

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punuxxx answered · August 23, 2020

   I don't know what it is but there is definitely something wrong ... he may be ashamed to talk .. But he should get used to it for so long .. I know maybe there is something else as you say .. I hope they line up things but in my opinion you have no future .. And yet success M24

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peppermint247 answered · August 23, 2020

   You are 19 and you ask yours, will they let you go? At 19 you call them on the phone, to let them know in how many days you will be home, not to worry. If I understood correctly, you have a virtual connection with this hero. This can mean practically anything. He may be serious, he may just be spending time with you when he's bored, but not having the time and money to see each other for so long is not good. Grandpa Torbalan

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elon answered · August 23, 2020

   And I'm of the opinion of comment number 1. He lies to you and turns you on his finger like a complete fool. At the age of 24 there can be no money for a ticket for the flight or the train, he has been working for these years. He makes it up and he just isn't given the money to see you. He just wants to write to someone from time to time. And you, in principle, at 19 should also work and have money to go to him, not to listen to your mother and grandmother, but you are a girl and it is more correct for him to come. In general, the connections from the Internet and from a distance they are not something I support. He must be sleeping with his ex while you wait for him. In your place I will show him that it means nothing. I will make a friend of mine kiss me on the cheek and we will take a picture like that, then a second photo I will put heels and a dress all over height I will be photographed with this same boy how he hugged me. Some of them. Then when he writes I will not answer at all, I will not lift him. I will remove it from friends, but I will leave the photos public to see them. I will celebrate every night at a disco. I did this number to my ex-boyfriend and he said that I have another in my life where we take pictures and go to discos and started calling me, wanting me, looking for me. Before that he just wanted us to know each other, and finally we ended up with sex and a relationship for a year. If you don't dial the boys' numbers, you won't be interesting to them.

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fiveforkfarms answered · August 24, 2020

   From the author: Yesterday I asked him if he wanted to talk, he told me that he was not talked to, etc. I do not understand how you can not talk to the girl you claim to love, does not want to hear how I am , how was my day, just to hear my voice ... It's been 3 months already.

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ohanna_ answered · August 24, 2020

   can be complex on the topic of money! You women often do not appreciate this fact. Some would come with BGN 20 for a whole weekend without caring at all, others would not.

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smilewithjeryl answered · August 24, 2020

   Number 5, if it is mold, can work, but the opposite effect is very possible. It's as if there aren't a few billion women, that's exactly what makes her interesting.

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jguilhermefox answered · August 25, 2020

   Well, I went through that, I had a 3 and a half year relationship, like 1 year and something we were together and then he moved to Sofia and he came back in 2-3 weeks. He became a completely different person there and I just don't think what he did there. Otherwise, I had such a period of 2 weeks, even if not more, in which he did not want to hear my voice. He wrote from here and there and when I called he didn't pick up, and then he wrote to me You called. In the end, I started to do the same to him, but I'm crazy and it passes quickly. I would just tell you not to get on your nerves with such a person. Believe me, if he wants to hear you, he will still find 5 minutes to hear your voice, because I am on the principle that if he writes to me, I can say that I am fine, and at the same time something should worry me. And if we don't talk, he may not understand anything. And vice versa. I personally need to hear the voice of my loved one. 1-2-3 times a day ..