Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. So far, my relationship has not been going well, and my last one was with a boy of 24, whom I really loved. But unfortunately he did not me and more than a year ago we broke up. I have a new relationship for about 3 months now, but I started thinking about my ex-boyfriend again. I don't know what happened to me, as if I fell in love with him out of nowhere. And it's as if I've stopped liking my friend, who treats me incredibly well, such people are rare, I don't want to hurt him, and that's why I feel terrible. For so long I have dreamed of finding a person who will truly love and care for me, and now that I have the opportunity to spend time with one, I have lost my feelings for him. I was really in love in the beginning, and now I am constantly thinking about my ex and I do not feel any happiness and excitement when I am with my current friend. Love is an irreplaceable and wonderful feeling that gives you incredible emotions and I don't want to have the chance to experience them with the person I'm with right now. I do not know what to do if you have been in a similar situation, please advise me something.
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An unwritten rule, always the first one you're on after a long relationship, I don't know why I don't know how, but it just doesn't work. So calmly with the second you will succeed, this one accept it as a consolation. And remember no matter what we dream about, at some point when we get it we start dreaming about something else.
Second unwritten rule - a large% of women are monstrously simple and do not appreciate what you have while you have it.
That's right, Number 1, or in other words: the author's story is a clear example of being told "You don't know what you want!"
It's like changing a job that you've worked for 2-3 years, you're used to everything and everyone and the new job is not as comfortable as the old one. Give the boy a chance you will get used to it and you need TIME with him
You used to love and he didn't. Now he loves you and you don't. So how is it on the other side? ;) That women do not feel sorry for themselves. While you are young and beautiful - you do not know what you want. As you peel, you already know, but there are none of the previous fans to meet. Emmy .... that's it;)
You go back to the first one, you see what a cattle it is ... and then you start dreaming about the second one ..
You never stopped falling in love with the first one. Leave the present and be alone for a while to purify yourself emotionally.
And so on until the age of 35, when you are left alone and get a cat.
So far, 7 out of 8 people have attacked the girl for the way she feels - something that is out of control.
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