Hello, I am writing to you because I want to ask you for your opinion and advice. I am 16 years old, but I dare say that I have outgrown my age because of the blows that life has given me since I was very young. I'm not a conflicted girl, I try to be friends with everyone, but after an event (if I may call it that) it turns out to be almost impossible. The event in question happened 2 years ago when I won a beauty contest and then another during my summer vacation. Then I became famous at least among the people from my city, people wrote about me in the newspapers, magazines, the attention of the boys to be increased, etc.
Then I was 7 for 8th grade and in the new school year, I continued my education in high school (before that I studied in elementary school). But the people in my new school didn't turn out to be what I thought they were, or at least the girls. Evil glances, pushing in the corridors and similar hints started from the first day, until one day one of my classmates, whom I didn't even know, unjustifiably accused me of calling her behind my back and with different names or names that I won't mention now. and accordingly jumped on my paints.
After a few months, the same thing happened with another classmate, after a few more. I wanted to get along with all of them in words like big and mature people, but it just turned out to be impossible. I just want to emphasize that before I won these two competitions and realized myself in the world of fashion, I did not have such problems.
So I think all these attacks are the result of envy and female malice or something.
What do you think? And please some if he had or has my problem to share how he overcomes it, please give me advice, because I'm tired of all this and I do not think that this should be the relationship between today's teenagers! Thank you in advance :)!
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Your statement is quite correct - in today's material world, universal values have lost their shape and meaning, people have become further embittered by their unjust social situation and alienated from the normal perception of the individual called man and human attitude! Our society is on the verge of psychological collapse - perceptions are distorted by the fact that the image of the enemy is instilled - different, successful, enterprising, and in your case the visually beautiful woman - these are indicators that are difficult to perceive normally by people who by nature they are envious and striving at all costs to show their low upbringing, and by trying to trample on their set goals they want to gain the recognition of the table. I am a man of 39 years.
Dear child, I read and smile at the happiness you have and do not realize. you are beautiful, poke your nose and they will look for your friends because you have the potential to be a leader. A normal human reaction is when you are above them to pull you down. Don't give in to them, maintain a level of fashion and intelligence and you will see the result. Success!
Thank you for your advice, I will listen to them and try to implement them. I think both commentators are right in assessing what today's high-tech world has become. I can write a lot on this topic, but I prefer to refrain. :)
Know one thing: regardless of the 21st century, relations between men remain at the level of primitive, and unfortunately women generally react without thinking, ie. at the first signal
This society is getting worse, we have all experienced it, if you want to get better it will hardly be easy for you, because female malice is unique, for example I give you I had a girl who liked me but she was very vicious poor, I do not like evil people and when she tried to press me I pushed her away, then she started doing dirt to me, etc. My advice is not to walk with your head proudly raised (you just stumbled), but to act according to their methods, find not so envious girls there, unite and act like them, there is no other way!
Don't inflate! You will pass a lot of decent people - I know it from personal experience! And then you will be very sorry! Be kind and you will have good people by your side! And no matter how old you are, you are still a teenager! Now you may not understand my words, but at 20-23 you will begin to see that you are wrong if you now pretend to be more than others! That is why this is the behavior they demonstrate to you - as if they are more than you! Rather, they feel that you are more than them! However, if you turn up your nose, that's why they can treat you like that! Think about it too!
Darling, I have the same problem. Believe me it will always be so - this is the price of beauty. But don't bother because others just envy that you have something they don't have. I know it's hard. If you ever need to talk to someone, write me your Skype, I'll find you.
You know ... the only thing I can say is be tougher ... not so soft ... that's the only thing that helps me in situations like this ... if you're tired already ... forget it's okay and don't pay attention to him
Hi, I'm a man. Well, dear girls, it will be difficult, there will be few with whom you can be friends and not envy each other, but find yourself and connect. Everything has a price - you are beautiful, you are endowed with envy. The other option is to make yourself ugly - you will not be envied. Choose :) I'm not kidding. But I also tell you, do not inflate because when the bubble bursts, the higher you fall, the more it hurts.
The fool is always defeated by the mind. So make them ashamed of their stupid actions. There is no stronger weapon than to use the natural weaknesses of the enemy;).