Hello. I am a 16-year-old girl and for 1-2 weeks we have been writing on impulse with a boy with whom we are from the same city, but we do not know each other personally. I think I fall in love with him ... When I see him and he smiles at me, I have the feeling that my stomach is shrinking and something inside is tickling me. He is so charming and I think we will like him because we have common interests. How is it possible for me to have very strong feelings for him in such a short time But I don't know if he feels anything for me either. How to act, please help me! Thanks in advance! :)
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How, both you just write to each other and don't know each other personally, and you see him smiling at you? You may be in love with your idea of him. Didn't he offer you a live meeting? If not, you suggest.
From the author: Well, we don't know each other personally, but we know each other by impulse and when he sees me he smiles at me sometimes. Yes, I may be in love with the idea itself, but I really want to meet a lot, and more precisely to go out. I can't offer it to him because I will look very insistent. PP-I see that many people have read my story, but how did only one person write to me? This is funny. On this site we have to help each other ... :(
Well, the first sentence is really probably the right one. You won't look insistent, and you'll find out if he has any feelings. And you won't ask him to come out directly. You can invite him to the movies or something like that depending on what interests you have. PP: And here is a piece of advice not only to the author, but to all the girls - disregard the cliché that the boy should invite.
Number 1, don't ask how, because when it comes to your head, you'll see what it is. As for the story, I was too. You have to do something not to wait, because then it may be too late. Take your first step.
Look, I don't want to sound rude, but I think it's a hobby. I think you need to meet in person and find out if it's a hobby. Maybe not, because I've experienced this with my stomach until I understood that I just admire this person. If you don't see each other, you can't understand ...
I don't know at the moment and I have the same problem, but it's different for me that we live opposite each other in different blocks and that I see it almost every day. What should I do?