At 30 married a second time. I love my husband very much, but I have never been in love with him. I always thought that falling in love is a fleeting thing that passes and then nothing remains. And the love I feel for him is stronger than all love. I have two children, one from my first and one from my second marriage, until recently I was on maternity leave. I went back to work a few months ago and realized that after that I didn't feel like going home, I didn't want to see my beloved man and even talk to him. I've had a slight flirtation with another man for two weeks and I just don't know what to do, I think I even fall in love with "HORROR".
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Yours is a horror. Don't you have brakes?
What do you mean, don't you have brakes? The woman says she is in love and the love is blind. When you are in love, you cannot think soberly. You do things that you later wonder why you did. Do to the author what your heart tells you and try to be happy no matter who you are with. Don't blame yourself for being in love. The heart cannot be commanded. It is most wonderful to feel the butterflies in your stomach. Good luck.
What butterflies ... Don't fill the head of an otherwise naive woman with nonsense. "Follow your heart" was what you had to do before you got married.
And in this race with yourself, where will you go? Falling in love again, are you expecting marriage for the third time. Love may be blind, but reason is not. As is responsibility to children.
You put them on the assembly line. You want to give birth again so you don't have to, huh?
Milaaa realize !!!!! Stop now - this is a second marriage !!! What do you give your children ????? If you have flirtations, why didn't you stop until your first marriage and look after only one child, but create a new home and family ??? Very irresponsible and frivolous! 30-year-old did not come out of puberty! You haven't made a living! It's a horror, yes !!!
I love my husband very much, but I have never been in love with him !!! ????
Honey, it's best to talk to him and part for a while! Why do you sit with a man as if you are not in love? Why should there be infidelity and nasty scenes and lies? Be mature people as you are according to your age :)
Well, since you're not in love with a big leek, you're not 15 to make these whims, you already have children! What's wrong with your husband? Does he beat you, doesn't give you money, insults you, harasses you? Think about how many bad men there are in Bulgaria and they treat their wives badly! Sit on your ass in time and get down to Earth because you can find your master! Good luck, I hope I helped you !!!
It's funny! A Mother with two children's leagues went to go after other men instead of looking at them! Think about where you ran with two kids? What kind of home do you provide for them? - Insecure !!! Poor children, I don't want to be in their place with a crazy mother who lives in her student years. You are not a mature person, you are 30! You are irresponsible and ankle !!!
How many more years do you need to make a living? And at 60 will you think about love? If you didn't have money and who could support you, do you know how you would think about love? Balachs have been found to give her money and support her, and the Chick naturally has nothing to think about but love like a little girl at school! Ok divorced this one too, ruined your families and let's see what happens? If you have decided to break your head, go ahead! Risk wins, risk loses! : P
Maybe family life just isn't for you!
Most of the comments are offensive and ugly, to clarify I want to say that in my family I am the person who takes care of everything. From making money, babysitting, cooking, cleaning and laundry. I didn't tell the story in detail but I didn't think it was necessary. Love is blind, things just happen and I wish everyone who judges me to happen to them.
Well done. It turns out that you support the family. Tell the details then. It's better that you feel terrible than what you read because you write "HORROR" in the title yourself. What did you expect to read here? Congratulations and a pat on the shoulder?
Ok we understand you, you fall in love again. I want to ask you, how many more marriages do you want to have ???