So I recently found out what I want ... or more precisely who I want .. Many of you will laugh at me, I know that I am in puberty, etc. and that I am a bitch who does not know what he wants, but I do not interested! I'm here to share my confession, right ..;) Well, I think I'm in love with one of our family's best friends, and he's married, but I just like him so much that I would do anything for him. ... I know it's probably just from puberty, but I really want it, I'm not a whore ... But I really like it and I think I love it! PS I know how many people will react, but still I realized how much he means to me and how I do not want to hurt his wife ... Who is also a very good friend of mine and would do anything for me !!! But feelings are feelings .. I can't change them ... I love it !! A 16-year-old girl !!!
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Thanks darling, go for it. Each of us has been through this moment. I also really liked my German teacher, but after a while that passed.
You're only a sixteen-year-old girl! It is normal not to know what you want, you are just discovering new and new things about you and all this confuses you and shatters your previous ideas about the world. I personally don't think you're in love. Rather, you are attached to this person and you like the way he treats you. Given that this person has a family / I guess children /, he will NEVER be with you and it's time to understand this thing. This person will be old enough to know what he wants, I strongly doubt that it is you. It sounds pretty rough, but I think that's the truth - at least mine. The other thing I wanted to point out is that you write that this man's wife is your friend. Girlfriend?!? - I don't think so - rather this woman perceives you as maybe her child, even if it is not like hers, she certainly perceives you as a child. My advice is to focus on other things in order not to think about this person and accordingly everything will pass. It is not easy, especially at this age, and especially at the time we live in. Study, have fun with friends - do something for yourself. All this will pass and everything will be in order. I wish you success!
Darling has an old saying where a woman and a child shed tears then worms crawl. Don't break their life, you're hardly in love - it's likely to be just an attraction that can be extinguished with a kiss or sex. And from me to know this man you love him as a friend. Don't break his family. Now your hormones are boiling, with age. You will cause a lot of pain to your parents as well. And if you do something normal it is for people to think of you as a whore / as rude as it sounds / Good luck and success and please don't be angry if I have offended you with something but this is my opinion that you will cause problems and secondly - it is depreciable / used /
Oh, I have a similar problem. There is a man from a movie who I like very much and I want to be his daughter and his wife, so I will tell you that it is quite normal.