After the first time (God forbid I live to see it), I mean right after the act, what do we do? Wasn't there blood, what if I kicked him out of bed to throw the sheets in the washing machine (yes, until then I guess I'll learn)? Thanks to everyone who struggled to read my "problem" (:
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I would laugh if I didn't have children your age. That is, I know what excites them and how many naive questions they ask, which is solely due to the fact that they have no experience. First, what are these limits? To everyone when the time comes. When you meet the right person, when you feel ready. Believe that you will understand it yourself if you have a friend (presumably someone you care about, and he cares about you). It's stupid to turn it into a fixed idea, to plan it and almost compare where your girlfriends are and where you are. As for this famous for the first time - individual. It is better for the boy to have experience, but as it happened. At first, not so much blood flows, and sometimes it doesn't flow at all. Sometimes it doesn't even happen the first time. In the sense of widening the opening and leaving the hymen or part of it. In short, don't think about it in advance. The smallest problem will be the sheet or what you have laid. It is important to do it with whom and when you really want.
Parjo learned to protect himself from disease and pregnancy, and to run the washing machine. From there, when you feel like it, that's the moment.
When I was 15, I thought so too. Well, they didn't turn 16 when my boyfriend showed up and got up. You can't plan this, it's coming. And then wash after the 1st time and cuddle
the boy has not yet appeared. Even according to the legislator, after the age of 14 you can have sex, even with a man, and he is not a defendant if you do not accuse him of "seducing and raping" you. So - usually the laws reflect some such limits and it is in the EU 14. You are 15 and your limit should be only the appearance of the right boy or man. Don't worry! By the way, not everyone has blood and even if there is not so much that now I do not know what panic to do. Every woman has experienced it, most of them have given birth - so you don't die from it ... but childbirth is something else. Use condoms and you will not have a problem! Insist on this and take a package for yourself and carry it with you ... who knows when and where
It is good, after all, to set boundaries. It is not true that when you were about to feel it, you were ready. Every child can think so. And I think it's best to be after 18, but I realized that when I was 20, so congratulations on your mature thinking now. Sex is not so safe and there are things that the younger ones do not think about. Don't listen 4 that your limit should be only the boy.
There is no normal limit. It all comes with the time when you judge that you have a desire. It is normal to have a desire for sex, but you better not hurry to grow up. All in good time. You will know when. And as for what to do after the first time - the blood is usually small. I was not there during the act. I saw her after I went home in my underwear, but everyone is different. It's not a scary thing to be afraid of. Meg *
Sex with boys is pedophilia. Sex with men is another matter :) On the topic: author, people are right here, this is not going according to plan, you really have to feel the moment. Don't make the mistake of sleeping with someone because it's "already time". When you have the right person next to you, you feel ready, beautiful, free and with a box of condoms in your pocket ... go :) Take more time for the first time, don't tune in to anything - neither to hellish pain, nor to perfect romance . I had read before that it almost didn't hurt, etc. I thought it would pass quickly and easily ... it wasn't like that, the pain was terrible and ... well, I gave up. So 3 more times. It didn't happen until the fourth :) I hope it's easier for the others! For the sheets do not cut :) I had prepared a big red towel especially for the occasion (now that I remember dying of laughter, it was bought specifically for this purpose, thick, to absorb well so that there is no damage to the sheets). Emmy ... the only thing we stained her with was a few drops of lubricant. In other words, no big blood, stay calm. And what you will do next is up to you :) Judge the situation :) However, it seems to me that for this purpose it is not good to choose a back seat, meadow or toilet for the terrain. Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia
People, you're great, thanks for the comments (: