I'm very sick of these stupid human gossips. How can people who don't even know me personally speak in a very colorful way about what I am and what my life is like Why should they constantly be angry, look at me with ridicule and tell nonsense from left to right? They make me a lowly prostitute, giving herself to everyone she meets, a fool, ugly and what not, and I know I'm not like that, but ... I think only I know it. I'm young, beautiful, healthy, and I feel like I'm dying. Gossip is ruining my life. I don't have many friends, many people look at me with ridicule and whisper as I pass, I have no self-confidence, although they have offered me to take a picture for a magazine and to participate in some fictional miss. Well, how to participate as a non-stop, I hear mockery of how ugly I was, how I looked like a dog. It's awful, I lost my love because of these nonsense. Yes, he gave up on me and how could he not, as my "well-wishers" just brainwashed him how lowly I was bloody, so he would be ashamed to go out with me. What's bothering them so much? I wanted to enjoy my 1st true love, and they ruined everything. Now he doesn't want to see me either, and I cry every night I don't know how many years.
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If you stop "tying" to gossip, it will cease to be a factor in your life. Gossip is dealt with by people who kill cruel complexes - they know (or rather do not know, but subconsciously feel) that they themselves are nothing and angry with others to reassure themselves that others are actually much more bad of them ... and that helps them feel kind of normal. As long as you get attached to the gossip - it will still be. You better start doing something (relatively) creative, something you are passionate about and feel full of: some hobby, tourism, sports, participation in a club, society from their own kind. Let the gossips talk to each other - when they see that you are not attached to them, they will stop on their own and find another "object" to talk about.
You let them knock you down! There is hardly a person who is not talked about in this way. Why, however, are some not influenced by this ?! It's up to you how people will treat you. Do not give in to their malice and everything will be fine, do not let them crush you! What do you care what people you don't even know say and think about you? Look after your interests and continue your life DESPITE THEM, and do not ruin it BECAUSE OF THEM! Meg *
Chick, you think a lot about him. Since when has human opinion become so important? :) I know what it is and the most important thing is that you don't care. Envy makes people hate each other .. * Syndrome
If those things that talk about you are not true, they are so scary. Yes, it is very unpleasant, but if you do not pay such attention to them, maybe in time they will get tired. They must be jealous of you (perhaps for your beauty), and because they are ugly and complex, they want to humiliate you for their own miserable self-esteem. Ignore this rubbish, let it be through that work for them! Whoever needs it will appreciate you with dignity and will not listen to various gossips :). If your friend left you for that, then he wasn't a commodity.
Well, I think there's something wrong with you ... ??????? Look for the reason in yourself - the guarantee is there ... Good luck
Don't pay public opinion tax, I can only tell you. Envy can ruin anyone!
Live your life. Others will not make it better.
Back to front ... you know, I didn't want to comment at all, but I wanted to tell you what others have written. As soon as your friend was influenced by rumors and not by his own opinion and observations about you, he drew his own conclusions about how valuable a person he was. And why are you also influenced by nonsense? You sit and cry ... is the world over or what? Tighten up a bit. By the way, I have a lot of time lately, but if you want to talk to someone you can leave me some contacts. in all cases, think about whether your depression makes sense. Ralph
You know, it's easy to say look at your life and not be influenced by people's stories and you're basically right. But we all want to be liked, appreciated and accepted in the social environment. I studied psychology and I know that we build our personal self-esteem on 3 things - the opinion of the parents, the assessment of the people around us and, of course, our personal judgment. No matter how big you are if someone constantly spits at you and insults you, you will be killed at least, and what is left for more people. it hinders my life, my love, my integration, my self-confidence ... At least they had reason to say so, but as I know that I am an ordinary girl, with a very vulnerable soul, not the nasty blood, a liar, an intriguer and what I don't know yet. I just don't know how to fight human evil. author
I completely agree with number 4. Every miracle in 3 days! for a long time you will be the center of attention, but at some point they will get tired. Most people, unfortunately, are like that - they are looking for someone to joke with, it gives them pleasure. As for your friend, he obviously wasn't really a commodity when he dumped you because of people's opinion and didn't care so much about you.