Some time ago I went out with a boy with whom we were together for about a year. I was very much in love with him, I admit my feelings were only based on his appearance. Very nice, with a good physique. He was training and had a slightly shaped body with muscles, and I really liked that. He was tall, somewhat coquettish, and always neat. We got to know each other, it turned out that he liked me a long time ago, and that's how things happened ... However, he didn't want to develop in any way, he wasn't looking for a serious job, he was making money from small deals and working only on himself. He made small gestures for me, sent me away, but not always, but on holidays he never gave me a present or brought me a flower. We saw each other once a week and mostly for sex. We have not made any common plans. After a while I got tired somehow, we often quarreled, he behaved like a child and never reacted masculine in disputes,
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It happens .. you're not the only one .. but don't waste your relationship
It happens because you, like most women, look at your appearance, and for a serious relationship you don't just want that. Apparently it just attracts you sexually. But do not miss your boyfriend, nowadays such men are rare.
Author: Thanks for the comments. Yes, in fact, attraction is only sexual, and that's because of something very temporary like appearance. As a person, I remember him forever drooling, behaving out of place, wasting his time all day with nonsense and womanizer, even if only in words ... I hope to shake off this memory of him soon, I do not intend to looking for or whatever. It just made me super dumb that it stuck in my mind.