Hello! I recently got a puppy that I wanted so badly. I have always loved animals and I wanted a puppy. Our people kept telling me that it would be very difficult, that I was making life difficult for myself, but I was sure that I would manage. I was very excited, I bought him a bed, bowls, etc. and I was very happy. But the day we went to pick it up, I was worried. Doubts began to arise ... I thought that taking the puppy would pass everything, but it did not happen. Reality hit me. I wasn't as excited as I expected. The next day I had such a deplorable one and I felt hellishly guilty, because this is a reason for joy, not the other way around ... I read various things about canine depression (which is in humans) or puppy blues in English. It was common, but I hadn't heard of it before ... I'm worried and depressed ... I know, that I shouldn't feel that way, but it just happens ... Please, from the bottom of my heart, don't attack me. So my question is, have any of you gone through something like that? How long did it take you to overcome it and how did you do it? Any tips? Thank you very much.
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In time you will love it and everything will fall into place
You just dreamed so much about this puppy, you painted so many beautiful pictures in your mind that when your wish finally came true, you can't really rejoice. Even having a puppy is not exactly what you imagine. Puppies make white, sometimes get dirty, they need time to get used to hygiene habits, gnaw, etc. Well, there is nothing romantic about wiping another puddle or finding that someone has brushed their teeth in your new shoes. However, they are so sweet that you can't be angry with them for long. I also have a puppy, he is already 1 year old, but at the beginning I was angry when I came home from work and oops, someone prepared a surprise for me, right on the carpet in the living room. You get angry, you clean and that's it. But when you see how happy he is, just because you're home, you forget about the fragrant surprise and hug him. It's like a baby! And we, as babies, have made our mothers nervous, haven't we? But they all love us madly. Is the same! Give yourself some time, after the first clash with reality, you will fall in love with this puppy so much that you will not be able to imagine life without him. It's just that you're still a little stressed right now, especially if you're looking at a puppy for the first time. You wonder how to cope, how to teach him not to make puddles everywhere, but only in a certain place, and after 3 months and how you will teach him to wait for the walk, whether he will cope with everything, vaccines, passports, chipping and so-called, but this is perfectly normal. You will do it! Just relax and accept that this is your "baby" and just like human babies rely on you. when the first encounter with reality passes, you will fall in love with this puppy so much that you will not be able to imagine life without him. It's just that you're still a little stressed right now, especially if you're looking at a puppy for the first time. You wonder how to cope, how to teach him not to make puddles everywhere, but only in a certain place, and after 3 months and how you will teach him to wait for the walk, whether he will cope with everything, vaccines, passports, chipping and so on, but that's perfectly normal. You will do it! Just relax and accept that this is your "baby" and just like human babies rely on you. when the first encounter with reality passes, you will fall in love with this puppy so much that you will not be able to imagine life without him. It's just that you're still a little stressed right now, especially if you're looking at a puppy for the first time. You wonder how to cope, how to teach him not to make puddles everywhere, but only in a certain place, and after 3 months and how you will teach him to wait for the walk, whether he will cope with everything, vaccines, passports, chipping and so-called, but this is perfectly normal. You will do it! Just relax and accept that this is your "baby" and just like human babies rely on you. and only at the designated place, and after 3 months and how you will teach him to wait for the walk, whether he will cope with everything, vaccines, passports, chipping, etc., but this is quite normal. You will do it! Just relax and accept that this is your "baby" and just like human babies rely on you. and only at the designated place, and after 3 months and how you will teach him to wait for the walk, whether he will cope with everything, vaccines, passports, chipping, etc., but this is quite normal. You will do it! Just relax and accept that this is your "baby" and just like human babies rely on you.