I tried to make you a man, but I didn't become a man. I tried to forget you, but I stayed in my heart again. I tried to fight for you, but the battle was won only by you. I almost tried to make a compromise, but to compromise how to live I don't know what else to try, and I don't dare to try anymore
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Why are you forcibly trying to change it? Why don't you accept it as it is first? And your love will change it. Think about whether you would like someone to tease you about who you are and want to change you without first getting to know you as you are.
Because I can't accept it as it is at the moment. I can't accept that his addictions ruin our relationship. Or should I accept it, this addiction? Encourage him on the downward path he has chosen?
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What are his addictions? You didn't say anywhere. Of course, if his addictions are bad, for example he is addicted to something narcotic, gambling or tnk vicious, it will be a bad addiction and then you will have every right to want to change. But if his addiction is not a vice, then what is the reason for doing anything to change it? Is it a vice or not, his addiction? Not to honor him, in case he is a vice, to help him, through understanding, care, support and last but not least patience. Do you expect a person to change suddenly in no time? It doesn't happen like that when you whine, they change paths. Perseverance and patience are required. Can you give them to him? Give him patience, understanding, love and dedication? If you can, then you love him and he will get on the right track. In case it is not a defect, he is not a doll to change clothes or a robot to program. Everyone has an individuality, change is something that takes time. And if you inspire someone for something, it will only make that someone stubbornly defend his own. The key is in your attitude towards it. Read what I wrote in response here: http://spodeli.net/story.php?ID=43187 Do you know love? Do you know what is? Everyone at the first problem cries and hurries to give up. Dear girl, life is not a bedtime story, but a long and spacious scheherazade. There is also joy and sorrow. Do you expect everything to be easy and just the way you want it to be in an instant? He who loves will have patience. The key is in your attitude towards it. Read what I wrote in response here: http://spodeli.net/story.php?ID=43187 Do you know love? Do you know what is? Everyone at the first problem cries and hurries to give up. Dear girl, life is not a bedtime story, but a long and spacious scheherazade. There is also joy and sorrow. Do you expect everything to be easy and just the way you want it to be in an instant? He who loves will have patience. The key is in your attitude towards it. Read what I wrote in response here: http://spodeli.net/story.php?ID=43187 Do you know love? Do you know what is? Everyone at the first problem cries and hurries to give up. Dear girl, life is not a bedtime story, but a long and spacious scheherazade. There is also joy and sorrow. Do you expect everything to be easy and just the way you want it to be in an instant? He who loves will have patience.
If it's an addiction, it's clearly not a good thing. If she loves him, then she knows him, if she wants to change something in him, then it is bad for him, but she loves the rest. As for the verse, it's cool, only this part should have been like this: I tried to fight for you, but the battle was won only by you. I tried to drive you away, and you left, but almost to keep the rhythm. :) Look chick, if this person doesn't agree to do something for himself, don't expect him to do it for you. You better find someone who will appreciate you!
3 - Thank you, as long as there was no such pain behind him ... 5 - His addictions are vices. And I don't understand why you ask me what, if I wanted to talk about it, I would pour my soul into a topic in the other sections, and not into a verse. If they did it that way, then I was not told about my personal problems. Thank you for your attention.