Hello, I found something I did not want that made me sad, angry and made me feel guilty and helpless. My husband watches porn. Almost every day. It started when I found out I was pregnant. I can't explain it in any way. He didn't want the baby at first, but then he thought about it and we left him. I never refused him, not even during pregnancy. I even begged him towards the end to have sex so that I could give birth faster. Has sex with me become indifferent to him? Boring? Does he prefer his hand instead of working for my pleasure? Doesn't he love me after he doesn't want to satisfy me? In fact, I have never been dissatisfied, even if I did not finish the pleasure of sex was enough for me. I consider sex part of love, not just something that makes you feel good. I don't know if anyone will understand me, but sex is for me. And if I want to finish, I'll do it myself. He seems to think so too. I watched the movies he watched and did some of the things he obviously liked, but no change happened, he kept watching porn. I feel like he's addicted. And I feel guilty that it's because of me. But I can't figure out where I went wrong and what can I do to make him interested in me again?
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It's not your fault, many men are worried about having sex during pregnancy. The important thing is that his attitude towards you does not change
You wanted to have sex to give birth faster .... good luck to the child I wish.
Yes, because I was carrying and I was afraid of a section. Your comment didn't help at all
How many times will you play this topic? We don't believe you anymore!
Yes, I think the same, you repeat the themes. From number 10 Your husband does not want to have sex because he is in total stress and you live in a studio with the baby, what do you expect? You really want the blame not to be yours, but once you have written here and are looking for other people's advice and opinions, then stop making excuses and think about what I wrote to you.