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I Want A Baby, But I Can't Get Pregnant!

By athletic_jay September 07, 2020 17 answers Last updated September 07, 2020

Hello, I have terrible worries and they are that my future husband and I have been trying for 3 months for a baby, I am constantly thinking about a baby. So my problem is I went to the gynecologist and he told me that I have two uteruses with one cervix and he doesn't know which of the two is fertilized and I was very worried. Meaning such that my friend and I have sex ends in me and I do not wait until it comes to me. There are times when I feel nauseous while waiting for it to come to me, but after 2 days it comes to me and makes me dumb not only to me but also to my husband. Please give me advice from the bottom of my heart on what to do, what should I do, but I don't want anything, but I want a baby so much for the beginning of our life. Thanks in advance :)

Answers 17

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itauuruguay answered · September 07, 2020

   Maybe it's best for you and your friend to go for a consultation at a large obstetric hospital.

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3xm0mat20 answered · September 07, 2020

   How did you decide that by trying for 2-3 months, it must happen?!? I think calm down and don't think such things, especially since you don't have a diagnosed problem! Both uteruses are not a problem, neither for wear nor for conception. Your husband is dumb not because you are not pregnant this month either, but because he loves you and you feel dumb and he can't do anything to make you happy. Stop with this fixed idea baby and it will come at the most unexpected moment.

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wantorimu answered · September 07, 2020

   Keep trying and be more positive.

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arina420 answered · September 07, 2020

   Unless the gynecologist has told you that there is a problem, obviously not, you're just nervous, and sometimes that bothers you ... it may take longer to get pregnant. Especially if you are stressed and constantly worried about getting pregnant or not, this may not happen soon. Rest, calm down and eat well, eat more fruits and vegetables, eggs, fish, nuts and have sex, by no means on schedule. In short, live normally.

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wildeamelia answered · September 07, 2020

   IVF

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steefany answered · September 07, 2020

   How come 2 uteri, girl? !! Inverted uterus - yes (although this has nothing to do with the case especially), sterility - yes, but 2 uteruses !? !! Change your gynecologist, have your husband get tested, reduce stress to a minimum if possible and have faith. And don't think about it, if you have to, it will happen. If not - there are many children without parents who would be happy for their family :)

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cadus_org answered · September 08, 2020

   If you really have two uteruses, then your problem is big, but you are hardly the only case in the world, so study the issue carefully first on the Internet just to get information and then start going to the doctors. However, I think that there have been cases of births by such women.

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iceberg answered · September 08, 2020

   Don't worry, there are people who are waiting a lot longer than you, it doesn't happen quickly, wait a little longer and go to the doctor if it doesn't work out in 3 4 months :)

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daisyjane100 answered · September 08, 2020

   With regular sex and good health, the probability of getting pregnant within 1 month is only 20%. So 3 months. are too short a period to draw conclusions or worry. It is quite possible that you did not get pregnant in a year, but this is within the normal range. My advice is, just relax, because stress also has a serious effect on this. Have sex regularly, stay calm, and the rest is a matter of time. There is no reason to worry.

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mrslilien answered · September 09, 2020

   How did you even hear that about both uteri? You said a folded uterus or something. You haven't tried anything yet. And tell yours not to bother, but to go and examine his sperm, so who knows if they are legible. It will become a baby if you really don't have a problem. She may have hit us on the days on the calendar where this is most likely to happen.

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chen_rcj answered · September 09, 2020

   Three months is nothing time. And who said getting pregnant is an easy job. The exact moment during ovulation is difficult to guess, and sometimes not in the middle of those 28 days. You should have sex at least 2-3 times a week, be calm, stress is very disturbing. Do not smoke, do not drink alcohol or coffee. You need vitamins and herbs. If it does not happen for at least 2 years then it is switched to in vitro.

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annecherrybomb answered · September 09, 2020

   My sister and son-in-law tried for 1 year and during one of their vacations abroad it happened. Now I am very happy for a beautiful niece :) I wish you the same happiness!

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_dulce_caramelo_ answered · September 10, 2020

   Two uteruses seem to me to be a wrong diagnosis. Go to a few more doctors. Let them give you another opinion. Do your research. For example, one of the common problems in pregnancy is elevated levels of the hormone prolactin. In principle, it rises in the presence of pregnancy and prevents re-fertilization. But if it is high without being pregnant, you will not be able to get pregnant at all. The test costs about 20 leva if you do it without a referral and if there is a problem it is treated with medication for some time. It's not scary at all. Don't think the worst things. 3 months is a short time. Try again. Try to monitor your ovulation. Avoid stress, eat healthy and take folic acid. If after another 5-6 months there is no baby you can do tests, go to the doctor, get treatment if necessary. But it is important not to panic. I can give my cousin as an example. They tried for years, went to doctors, did tests. They were fine, but there was no baby. They were both very annoyed that it was not happening, they were worried. Eventually they had given up and decided to adopt a child. Apparently, when they accepted, things calmed down and she became pregnant. :) The princess is 2 and is the most smiling kid. Drive it a little calmer! And good luck! When you get pregnant, brag :) F27 ) The princess is 2 and is the most smiling kid. Drive it a little calmer! And good luck! When you get pregnant, brag :) F27 ) The princess is 2 and is the most smiling kid. Drive it a little calmer! And good luck! When you get pregnant, brag :) F27

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badboyscol answered · September 10, 2020

   my wife and I have been trying for about 6 months now she is pregnant I hope everything is fine don't worry you will have children just things are so it's clean and just God's work is not like going to the bread shop

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gingersnapx3 answered · September 10, 2020

   The experiments normally last about a year. If two years have passed, if there is no result yet, then there is already cause for concern.

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starley_44 answered · September 11, 2020

   I got pregnant with my eldest son from the first time, I was 18. We worked for the second time for 1 year. We have a friendly family - 9 years of waiting and nerves. When they gave up the idea of ​​having a baby, she became pregnant. Don't worry, you will have a baby! But I fully support everyone here who forgives for a second medical opinion.

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allinit690 answered · September 11, 2020

   Hello! You are in a hurry :) I know what it is, I waited for my two children to "appear" - conceived, about a year. For me, the problem the first time was a fungal infection, and the second - there was no problem, it just did not work. Try to use ovulation tests, so you will not always be "on thorns" and have sex almost out of obligation. Success!