I Want A Baby, But My Boyfriend Doesn't Want '' I Was Little ''

   It should not be a toy.

   I would not hurry. Children are a pleasure, but also a burden. If you and your boyfriend are happy now and find time for each other, then you will become alienated and you may start arguing. In the end, the child will make you angry and nothing will happen;

   Don't you think that he might just not want a child, at least for now? !!

   Thanks to your friend! Okay, okay, you want a baby, but how are you going to look at this baby? You have to study to find a job, for the baby to have something to eat, to have nice clothes, to have a good life.

   Learn to spell "from speech" ...

   Abe, how can you not be small? .... what can you give this child when you are 19? The very fact that you have such thoughts at this age shows how immature you really are.

   Apparently he doesn't want to have a child right now. He probably just wants to live out his young years.

   Take one of your girlfriends' children, one less than about a year or two, watch it around the clock as a gift for your girlfriend and her husband. Then write here again and tell us if it's too early for your children.

   You're not well ... It's good that your friend is responsible.

   Are you really a SPEAKER? :) This is a new word for me, does it mean something like - I talk a lot, but I think a little? Darling, it is written responsibly, and with what money will you feed your child if it is not a secret? I am of the opinion that when a man and a woman want a child, they must be able to raise it without help (which I doubt will happen in your case), to be financially independent and mature. Yes, it is normal that you feel your maternal instinct, and it happens to me sometimes / I am 21 /. The fact is that biologically a woman is best suited to produce offspring at this age 19-22, BUT there are other factors - social, etc., factors that are based on the time in which we live. Think about what age you live in, it's important to develop as a person to have the means one day and lead a normal life, you don't live in the past, for example, when people produced everything themselves, lived in the countryside and generally led a radically different way of life! Think a little! And what, don't you want to study when you're 19? Is that how you're going to drive it? / lack of funds is not an excuse, if you come from a poor family, you can work and study /. It's not that hard to combine. Success!

   And I'll tell you - you're small. Leave the years for a moment ... now your life begins. Man goes through various difficulties and events in his life. They will be the first to look for themselves and get to know each other. Most of your age study, work, develop, and you want to have a child. If the love between you is real and lasting and in 10 years you will be able to give birth to a child, but now is not the time. I want to tell you that in 10 years you will be together, but hardly. Maybe you want to have a child with him because you're afraid you might break up soon ... Don't rush into such plans, because your boyfriend will get bored soon. And as soon as he dissuades you by telling you "you're small", be sure he doesn't want to! You are in a hurry to entangle it in your nets ... I hope you do not regret it after at least 1-2 years.

   Wow, mother ... no, you just want a doll or a pet! Trust me! F 25g.

   Motherhood is not about "coping", but what you can give this child, what you will teach him, how you will make him a real and worthy person. At the age of 19 you have to work these things on yourself, life has not polished you properly yet. Your friend is right - you are small. I am 22 years old and I also think I am small for a child. There is still a world to go around, things to learn, higher education and so on.

   Come on, as long as he deals with nonsense, the very way of writing suggests that you are from a small town / village and these kisses are very idiotic in the end. Instead of dreaming of nonsense, lie down over the lessons, isn't this baby a toy for you? What will you feed him? With the income of a saleswoman?

   If you have a home that is renovated and furnished and is just for you and your friend. If your boyfriend has a secure job with a salary of not less than BGN 800 and If you have had a job for not less than BGN 450 in the last 2 years - to get a good motherhood ... then there is nothing wrong with a woman 19 to give birth. Our mothers, our grandmothers became mothers at 17, 18. So your body is completely ready. Success!

   I can't say that at 19 you are small, but a child is a very serious step in life that cannot be done just like that. One "I want a baby" is not enough to be sure that you will be a good mother, but in the end, the desire is important. I support you, there is nothing wrong with wanting to create a generation, but your friend must want it too. No one can tell you how to convince him, it's your job, but while he doesn't want a baby, push that desire into the background. You must both want it.

   Abe people, what's wrong with you? So you all, as you wanted a child, were the most responsible people in the world? This is done with experience! If he wants to make a child, find a job, and look after it with health and love, I am 14 years old and I understand some things better than the great people like you, everyone learns with experience, THANK YOU! I wish all people good health, success and love!

   Pff, 19 years old, wait, girl! You still have so much to live and enjoy, then you will have children. I don't understand where you're in a hurry?

   Number 18 - Let me tell you how it used to be: My grandmother gave birth to one of my uncles at 19, and at 22 my mother had already conceived and at 37 my other uncle, what's wrong with being a mother at 19?

   One time is for one time, and once you're ready, I can't dissuade you, but I don't think it's as simple as it seems. It's one thing to conceive and give birth, that's the easy part, it's hard to raise a child. At least if you want kids, why don't you marry your boyfriend? If you want it to grow in a normal environment. And my grandmother got married and gave birth at 19, but for God's sake, we live in a new time, everything is different, what guarantee is there that you will manage? It's just kind of unnatural for a woman to have children before 20, I know there are many such cases, but for me personally it's weird. Now you want children, you think of yourself as mature and responsible, but think about it, is that really the case? I don't know you, I don't know what you are, but I don't think you should hurry with that! for starters, you've put your topic in the "Teen" category, and you want to give birth, how does this sound to you They used to get married early just to have children, but now there are many more things to settle if you want your life to be full and to have happy children! There's nothing wrong with wanting it, but take your time! Wait at least another 2-3 years! Because creating a new life is not like getting a piercing or buying a car and when you get tired of getting rid of old things and buying new ones! After a while, you may regret not enjoying your free life as a big man (because I'm not saying you're a child), and you don't want your children to suffer one day, do you? it's not like getting a piercing or buying a car and when you get tired of getting rid of old things and buying new ones! After a while, you may regret not enjoying your free life as a big man (because I'm not saying you're a child), and you don't want your children to suffer one day, do you? it's not like getting a piercing or buying a car and when you get tired of getting rid of old things and buying new ones! After a while, you may regret not enjoying your free life as a big man (because I'm not saying you're a child), and you don't want your children to suffer one day, do you?

   I support the others, you are small. Apparently you have a man next to you and I hope he doesn't make you a baby, because you will suffer and ruin the child's life. By the way, I have a maternal instinct since I was 16, but this is normal. We are not dairy cows to be slaves to our bodies and instincts, but humans. In the 21st century, expectations of women are much higher than having children. Today we are responsible for 50% of the family budget, for feeding the family along with the man, and if you give birth at 19 you will never have a job or a quality education and you will be a burden to your loved ones. You can have children later, but once born, you can't throw them in the corner like a doll or take them back to the store if you don't like them. At the age of 19 you cannot be an educator because you have not seen anything in life, you have achieved nothing and you cannot be an example for your children. I am a 28-year-old woman with a very strong maternal instinct, but at the moment I am content to cuddle plush toys and cats. I graduated and am currently making a career. Literally a few days ago my husband and I bought a house that needs major repairs and until we are ready to offer a normal home to our children, we will not have one. My best friend gave birth at the age of 19 and currently works for BGN 350 and will struggle for life, because she has no education, if we exclude the naked part-time diploma at our local university with dubious accreditation, she has no qualification, no more strength and desire to develop. The child? is in third grade, and she can't afford a second. The first is no longer interested in his mother, teachers and friends are more interesting than the young and inexperienced mother. At 30-32 I plan to have two children, great motherhood (because I worked and have great insurance and salary), a big house with a yard ... and today we have 2 cars and a high standard of living, we both have very good education and careers, and you? Where will you be in your 30s and 40s? We have all been at the same level at the age of 19, the question is where we will be in 10-20 years.

   There are women who set higher goals in career, business, education ... There are women whose goal is breeding. I have friends who gave birth at 18, 19, now their only happiness and pride is the child / children and that is enough for them. We are all different, with different value systems and ambitions. So to let the girl pursue her goals, obviously she is of the second type of women, there is nothing wrong and there should be such, because if we are all of the first type and give birth to 35 sick sick children, due to the long delay what will happen ?

   After 30 years it is so, but number 22 you yourself said that the only joy of these friends of yours are the children, and this girl can do so to have many good things in her life plus children

   I think it's a little early for you as a child, because you first have to have a good education to start a good job and provide him with a good life, because if you don't have a job you can't earn money and you can't feed him, you have shelter ... Besides, your friend has to agree. Plus, you both need to be ready for a baby. You need to seriously consider whether you are ready for such a responsibility to become a mother, because a child is not a toy that you can play with today and throw away tomorrow! It is easy to give birth, it is difficult to raise the child !!!

   buy a doll first and then think about babies. These are the years (some of the best)

   You are not normal, what insult the girl that she was small. That it's better to be a mother at 20 and something and more ... haha ​​you will be more like grandmothers .. You are 19 years old 20 is the perfect age, if you are ready of course. But if they have the opportunity and desire, why not. Don't do that, I know women who were pregnant at the age of 18 and raised their children well and survived a lot ... Then the child will be proud that his mother is still young and beautiful, unlike others who give birth at the age of 30 even ... Grandma's stories ... enough

   You're not well! And so young and the future ahead of you. From such an age to be attached to raising a child. So that it is not a toy! Why don't you think about learning something. Do you want to have a family so early? No life experience, there is time for that, do not rush. Is that how you see your life as soon as you graduate as a teacher to get married or divorce children. Good thing your friend has a little brain. He hardly wants to be permanently attached to you and make you children. And no matter how serious your relationship is, it's a very serious step. If you have decided to marry your first boyfriend from high school, the most troubled think about it, and your work is not done yet and this is the stupidest choice you can make in your life.

   Well, you're really small. You are only 19 now. You have to study, to pursue your dreams, not to have a baby in your arms. Get up at least 23, 24 and then. Until then, he settled down, found a job, his own home, albeit for rent. Your job must be well paid so that you can raise a child. But I think you're still young. Now is your youth. Go out to parties, have fun. When you become a mother you will be more limited and you will want to be 19 again without a child, but this cannot happen. Live your life. Live your youth. don't get carried away with a child from now on. You yourself are still a child!

   What instincts, what responsibility? You want to be like everyone else, like a kid watching other kids lick ice cream, that's exactly how things are explained. This is not an instinct.

   Mila, I know that the topic is old and 2 years have already passed, but the boy is right about it. You can't take care of yourself yet, but what's left for the child. Tell me what future you will give him now working unskilled work. It's a big responsibility, it's not a doll you can play with and then throw away. Things are not like now, when our great-grandmothers married at the age of 15-16 and had children. Now one looks first to learn to start a career and only when he has the means to ensure a good future for generations then to have children. With such a decision you will ruin not only your future, but also that of your child you will complain that she has made a living for us, he will be sad that you cannot afford to take something good from him for Christmas and for his birthday day and so on. My classmate and she wanted to have a child when she finished, she would go to their lectures to watch it and later she realized and said that she would have a child there when she finished and found a good job. I hope you have already realized and made the right decision!