I will start with the fact that when I finished school a few years ago, I was not accepted to university immediately, I tried, but it didn't work out. I gave up and worked for 2 years ... that's how I met my friend. Now I am 23 and he is 30. Things between us are complicated, we fight a lot, but I love him very much, he loves me too. His parents and relatives have long repeated that it is long overdue and there is no time to squeezing ..... And he always says that there was still a lot of time "up to 40" ... I have never been one of the women who want freedom, I am no longer interested in parties, discos ..... from several months I feel that the only thing I want and think about is ... baby. I want him more than anything. I am one of the women, ready for anything for the family, so they raised me as a child. I am ready to endure everything .. ...... I want to put all these feelings into something real.
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You better wait!
A complicated case, although one can never predict what will happen to him in the future. Even if you are with someone you do not quarrel with, there is no guarantee that you will create a happy family. I think if you live with your boyfriend, it's good to talk about a baby. Are you ready financially and emotionally. Somehow, in your words, it seems that you have already suggested to him about this. In the end, though, you love each other, you have to say things like that. Miss the fact that you are not sure that you will be with him for life ... No one is sure. Bambi
This is very nice, and when you're ready and want it, tell him if he doesn't look elsewhere
My advice from personal experience is this: you better think about your relationship, because the fact that you are fighting from now on, your feelings and worries about him are "nonsense" and the obvious lack of desire on his part to be real family means that nothing good awaits you together in the future. Believe me I understand very well when a woman wants a baby. It seems to you that this is the most important thing, and against this background, the relationship and cohabitation with the father somehow remain in the background and will sort themselves out. In my opinion, a child or children grow up normal and happy only if the parents love each other and keep each other together. Which means it's not you, he's going to want you - constantly by his side and a baby because he loves you. Otherwise, in the future you will regret endlessly, because children are the most important of all, but it is a nightmare to raise them with a man,
First, talk to him calmly and tell him I want a baby anyway ... if he refuses, then he doesn't care about you, time will tell.
Well, Koko Dinev can do the job for you. Before you pulled me one just to justify. "Complete nonsense" is the exact word your friend uses. At 20, what future can you provide for this child? Have you two realized in life. Are your paths clear? Has your friend and he made a living? Or you want him to make you a baby and after a year to pull your hair out and start dating others. I'm sure you didn't think of these things, so he told you it was complete nonsense. Ralph