Hello, a 14-year-old girl writes to you. I don't have many friends at school, I have high grades in principle, but this year the term ones were much lower than expected ... At home, my parents are not on good terms, I am a disappointment to them, no matter why. I don't have my own room, we live in a one-room apartment, we will always move and something always happens and for this reason, they start making me make the bed and so on. The mother of my closest friend went abroad and she receives expensive gifts, I do not react, but my mother is very annoyed and buys me what they buy from her, and when there is no opportunity - starts scandals with my father ... Thank you for your understanding
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Study, but don't get obsessed with your grades. For friends, don't look for them at school, this rarely happens. Try some extracurricular activities where you will have similar interests. For the fact that you do not have your own room, I do not see the point in giving you a reason, because I also did not have - wait a few years, you will realize. At 13-14, I thought so too. I guess your mother buys you anything for the other girl so that you don't get complicated and are overwhelmed by the fact that your girlfriend is better off financially. If you are not affected by this, you can talk to your mother and explain it to her, one idea the scandals between you can be reduced. - scorpion.
First tell your mother that you do not like these things that you buy and better without them, to reduce scandals. Second, ask them to buy you books, there are also books on self-esteem and how to deal with poisonous people. There is no normal life. All people always have obstacles and work to do. Some are weaker than others have to catch up with learning and training to cope. But no matter how strong a person is, if he stops studying, he lags behind and his problems start to weigh on him.