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I Want Advice!

By rachelparcell September 06, 2020 13 answers Last updated September 06, 2020

I decided to write here on the advice of my friend, as she could not give me advice. Let's start with the fact that when I was 18 I went to my uncle in America or more precisely in New York. I worked there, studied 7 years later and returned to Bulgaria. I come from a small village, I am now 25 years old, I already have money, a secure job and an apartment in New York. I had several girlfriends there, but I did not expect to meet love right in my village. She is 23, smart and beautiful. I don't even want to think about her, but I can't. Only she is in my head. Tell me what to do? !! To tell her that I love her and to go together or to try to forget about her.

Answers 13

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littlefleur answered · September 06, 2020

   They will easily give your girlfriend a tourist visa, let her come, stay 3 months and check if she is with you just to escape from the small village. In Bulgaria, this is the dream of every girl from the village - for the Prince to come on a white horse and yes? solve the problems, they are told from an early age that the greatest achievement is to find the Prince in question, to take them to his wonderful, magical country and to have a wonderful wedding and so on until death do them part. Essence, are you sure it's not just an attraction and are you ready to take responsibility for a woman you will have to endure for life? Once you take the girl with you, you have to get married (for a visa). Good luck

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bethertv answered · September 06, 2020

   If you really love her, take her with you! Don't even think about it! You haven't lived here and you have no idea what a swamp it is !? Run both! Even if she doesn't love you, she will hardly miss this opportunity! If she is smart, then she has seen what a miserable existence awaits her in Bulgaria!

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sreevidya7773 answered · September 06, 2020

   If you really love her and think you might have a future together, ask her to come with you. If she experiences the same, you will leave together. But if this is another short-term hobby, it is not good to take this big step. Listen to your heart, I wish you luck!

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misterr_jo answered · September 06, 2020

   If you think this is your true love or your so-called soulmate, act sooner. You're not a teenager, and neither is she, so tell her whatever happens. And since you're in New York, I don't think you're inexperienced. There is nothing to lose, you can only win, so go ahead. Good luck

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asianmystery answered · September 06, 2020

   Can you tell me how to get a visa for America that it is my big dream to live and work there

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cps_niconico answered · September 06, 2020

   Number 5 - either you have an uncle there, or you find a fool like the author.

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36btanslut answered · September 07, 2020

   You all assume she will like him and want to go with him. Why do you think so? Aren't there any girls in Bulgaria who want to fall in love?

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mrlouiss answered · September 07, 2020

   Wait a while for the euphoria of falling in love and blurred consciousness to pass, and then you will decide whether she is your man and whether to take her to you.

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mornall answered · September 07, 2020

   To question number 5: a visa is earned by taking an exam and it is very important what education you have.

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speakershinjini answered · September 08, 2020

   I left for New York at 13 and lived there for 7 years! I finally returned to BG a few years ago, and before you all explain to me how crazy and crazy I am, etc. - save me! I decide! Essentially! Go back to the US, wait a while and if you are still in a relationship and you see that the interest in you continues, discuss the topic of a possible walk to the US. So see you ... if he accepts and goes the way of going to an interview and collecting all the documents without apologies, etc. and buy the ticket. For a person living there, 700-800 dollars is not much money - or at least not as much as here! However, this detail must be announced before purchasing the ticket! And if you do it in question before because there is no opportunity and hint, but do not say it in plain text! It has been tested and works :)

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136th answered · September 08, 2020

   rather I think you need to go back to America .. to maintain a little relationship from afar and see if she will wait for you and if she will endure .. so early to offer to take her somewhere forget .. of course everyone will agree to came with you .. even to see America and tell you that you are not something for each other

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valery_adams18 answered · September 08, 2020

   Is it possible to have in the same topic: "I met love" and "Should I forget it?". Non-serious work. Nowadays you have such petty, tiny feelings that you even ask if you can? The next day you probably even forget your question.

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frankpallone answered · September 09, 2020

   At 25 you have an apartment in New York, hmmmm.