Hello. My story is nothing special, but I want to hear an opinion from the male part. I have been writing to a man for several years, we have heard each other, we have talked until the middle of the night, we have shared, laughed, joked, etc. We have never seen each other live, but we feel close to each other. At the beginning of our acquaintance he wanted to come to the city where I live, but I refused. He was free then and obviously had some hopes. On the other hand, I was in an extremely depressing period of my life and I didn't want to. We behave completely freely with each other. But we never made sexual overtones. We recently decided it was time to meet live. We don't have a specific date because we are both very busy and have a hard time finding free time. Well, we haven't seen each other yet. In two of our conversations recently, however, we relaxed in chat and on the phone and had something like phone sex lol. It was strange but nice, interesting. The first time we did it, the next day we continued the communication, as usual, as if nothing had happened. After the second time, however, I feel as if I have withdrawn.
We wrote two, three words and that's it. At the moment he is busy, he has a girlfriend he rarely sees and most days he is alone or with friends. They have been in a relationship for 2-3 years, but as far as I know, there are things he misses with her. I have no hopes or plans with him, I'm just bitten by the ambiguity. I relaxed with him because I feel close to him and I know that it is the same with him, otherwise our communication would not have lasted so long. So, I turn to the male part with a question, what do you think? How do I react? What should I do? What should I think? Do I look light in his eyes, provided that he knows about all my relationships and that I am not, because we share everything constantly? I had no plans to mess with him, I just relaxed. It bothers me that I don't know what to think, this person is really important to me. I will be glad to hear your opinion.
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How do I react? What should I do? What should I think? Do I look light in his eyes? There are questions that none of us can answer. How to react? And what do you want? If you want to continue as before, do nothing different. There's no way we can tell you if you look "light" in his eyes without knowing him. There are men for whom you will look "light" if you show up without a veil on the street. Here we can only offer you individual points of view. Mine is that you fantasized, you enjoyed it and that's it. That doesn't mean you have to grab yourself when you see each other. Fairy tales are one thing, actions are quite another. The best solution is to understand what you want. Then hear / chat and clarify your relationship. Grandpa Torbalan
How far are you that he could not spend so much time visiting you or inviting you to his city? Sounds to me like a player who deals with a dozen others besides you. And in order not to want to see you, your girlfriend is obviously stretching, plus a few more for sports, and she accepts you as a reserve for dry periods, but there are obviously no such people yet. And he doesn't take you for granted, but rather uninteresting. If I like a chick, if she wants to live in Poland, I would immediately go there on time
Messi is worth DASI wasting time, men on the road and over the road look at your life, my thinking as soon as I love you immediately take you and sign in citizenship. The other is a lie.
As a man, and with experience (I'm 33), I learned that if you hold on to SOMEONE, there should be NO OTHER! You write that you wrote to each other for years and did not see each other during that time. Do you believe that this man was standing dry? Open your eyes and do not live in your pink world
Phone sex is not like the real thing, sometimes one word can ruin the whole experience and relationship.
He is important to you, but you are not important to him. You know about his girlfriend that they rarely see each other, but that's what he said. Drop those chats and find a real M37 man
Strange situation. You haven't seen each other, you've had wire sex. I don't think you'll get there if you see each other. You kept him away for too long. But I may not be right;))
Maybe his boyfriend just found out about you and withdrew.
In my opinion, nothing can be said without seeing and feeling live. My personal opinion is that no matter how good it is online, the chemistry is obtained or not only live. Of course, it takes a little time, hours, days, it can't be from the first look and everything is perfect. What is it called - to get used to the broadcast, gestures, facial expressions, etc. He has a girlfriend, but are you free? Will he leave his girlfriend for you, or will he have a parallel relationship? Questions that are good to answer both of you ...
I am a man, but this is a female issue rather than a male one, in my opinion he has no other occupation and has focused on you, I apologize if I have offended you, but the truth is this or at least the statistics give these criteria, and they are very .