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I Want Anal Sex

By dikos_cams July 23, 2020 50 answers Last updated July 23, 2020

I love my friend very much and I want to give him everything he needs. He wants us to have anal sex, but it hurts a lot. Every time we start and get to the half because I can't stand the pain. I always see the disappointment in his eyes. What can I do to deal with the pain? Please give me some advice!

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somefucker123 answered · July 23, 2020

   Smear it with Vaseline!

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loveeetara answered · July 23, 2020

   First think about whether your friend is the person you would do such a thing with. If you don't love him, just don't give him that much. And if he is a person who gives you everything you need and loves you. Maybe you should try to give him what he needs. This is your personal judgment. And how exactly to do it, you can always learn. First you have to mentally prepare for it yourself. And be lunch that you want it. Otherwise, no matter how many times you try, it will still not work. And if your boyfriend has a really great desire for anal sex, he will get it someday. And it probably won't be from you. The first thing I advise you to do is talk. And from there you both decide exactly how to do it. For more information, just dig online. There is everything. Success!

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your_slut2 answered · July 23, 2020

   Well, start with a foreplay first and tell him to arouse you well, then first start inserting his finger and smearing it with some cream - water-based lubricant and start massaging your anus with light and gentle finger movements while relax and only then gently slide it into your ass - first half of your penis until you get used to its size and then the whole, at first it will hurt a little again, but then you will like it and you will want only the back ..... Good luck darling !!!!

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staranisia answered · July 24, 2020

   Go to my sex shop and get an anal gel. Then you have to know that you can't score it at once, because your muscles have to adapt, which happens gradually and slowly. So you have to start with something thinner. And don't squeeze your ass!

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jasmine_feetnsole answered · July 24, 2020

   Have anal sex before you reach orgasm. The other option is for him to understand that you are in pain too.

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rastas25 answered · July 24, 2020

   Do what you like, not to please your friend, but to give you pain.

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sophia_666 answered · July 25, 2020

   Not only do you have this problem, we usually chase around the bed until I give it to him, but then it gets nice :))))))

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scott_ryan_ answered · July 25, 2020

   soon the anal muscle will not hold you and when you drop out without understanding you will see how it feels.

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tastybevvv answered · July 26, 2020

   Mine also wants in the ass, but I do not give it to him, because it hurts me a lot, and he likes it and wants to empty there.

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nicollesexxdoll answered · July 26, 2020

   Your friend is a big idiot. Doesn't he know that not all women and not always like anal sex. What will blackmail you when he sees that it hurts? From my experience with women, which I have very well, I know that not everyone, let alone 80%, is not happy and does not want it. / at least with those who were me / What will make you if it doesn't happen. Want to make trouble? Consult a doctor, psychiatrist, because he is not well!

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doriangray989 answered · July 27, 2020

   Number 15, I don't think he's been with many women at all. Or if he was, he obviously didn't know how to predispose a woman. This is a very, very nasty dude. It is better to start paying more attention to yourself than to give any advice. I can only tell you that you can enjoy everything. As long as you know how to do it. And from what I've read so far, I conclude that you are not good at all.

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justin_ficker answered · July 27, 2020

   This site is not for insults but to give advice as far as you number 16 not to be perverted you men a little more where you find a hole you will put it and do not ask the woman how is it on you if they put it behind you how will it be try on you first and then write not every woman can take it from behind and by nature is given where to fuck

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balieykelly answered · July 27, 2020

   I think that number 15 is very good, rather number 16 is experienced as a great specialist ... and I am against anal sex, what mastery and skill we are talking about here, what pleasure ... first try it on yourself , then tell me how nice it was ... Chick, if a person really cares about you, he won't make you do things that hurt you. Why don't you try it too, have you tried it? In my opinion, anal sex is for the complexes, in front they are obviously wide, so in the back ...

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boniesmith_ answered · July 28, 2020

   number 16 ..... you were a great dude was ........- do men like you really not realize ... that when there is love and feelings they must be shared by both .... or you are completely selfish not to understand that the pleasure for you..would be humiliation and pain for the man next to you ... And number 15 ... - you are very right ... and you are the man - the dream of thousands of women ... thank you I do ... a woman of 35 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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europeannaughtycouple answered · July 28, 2020

   I am a mature woman and I tell you that I like anal sex. My husband and I first wanted to try it many years ago, and now we do it whenever I want. It is different and very nice. When there is tact and attention on the other side, everything is easily achieved. But you know best you want it or not? There is nothing shameful or perverted about sex if they both want it, and the other is violence.

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_hasan_muscle_ answered · July 28, 2020

   I can recommend you to work in Turkey as a prostitute for 1 month and when you go crazy you will not feel any pain anymore.

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verafl answered · July 28, 2020

   The problem is not in you, I tried with my ex-boyfriend and that's exactly what happened every time, it was a tree and that's it - he couldn't handle it ... With my husband the consequence was very easy, but the man knew how to predispose me .. there is a movie on this topic in the trackers, search and I hope you are useful .. I will add that this kind of sex is worth it .....

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laura_amy answered · July 28, 2020

   Drop your boyfriend and find a normal man. A normal man is one who will respect your desire not to do something because you do not like it, especially when it is associated with pain. And honestly - sooner or later your current boyfriend will leave - with someone who lets him back.

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bella_snowwhite answered · July 29, 2020

   lol I support number 16 and what can I do for you DO IT from behind

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hugezobxxl answered · July 29, 2020

   I really liked the answer to number 22! hahaha, it's true :))

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fraboys answered · July 29, 2020

   Darling, you're crazy to talk about "the disappointment in his eyes"! Doesn't he see the pain in yours as he struggles behind you? In my opinion, he is only looking for his own pleasure and shouts to himself: "Ha! What hurts her so much, it will pass!". I can bet that he exhorts you before and during sex how this time it will be different, just a little try and other nonsense. Sex is for two and pleasure is for two. If he loves you, he won't press you for anal sex at all once it hurts. But he doesn't love you, and you behave like a teenager (you must be) - "how to overcome the pain" .... tighten it and get rid of it!

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_angel_sweety_ answered · July 29, 2020

   It says a man. If he loves you, will he want to hurt you? Well, ask him to tie it in a triple sailor's knot to see if he agrees. If a woman wants to hurt herself, that's another matter.

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littlebbg answered · July 29, 2020

   An experienced fan of anal sex writes to you! Baby, your problem is with this cart driver who rips you apart brutally, not because his dick is big but because he doesn't know what he's doing! Tell him to learn how to do these things and then put the piss where he wants or fuck him! Or hire a prostitute to teach him if he can't do it alone! are a success!

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kath_belly answered · July 30, 2020

   The problem is with your friend, he probably doesn't know how to do it. Use lubricant or simple Vaseline. To try first with a finger, and when you are furious with arousal, and not after you have an orgasm, and then very slowly and carefully, you do not squeeze and when he enters you to caress you in front or you caress yourself, as you are comfortable. You will faint from pleasure, the pleasure is completely different and stronger. I am a woman. Oh, and read more about this job on the Internet, even though they write nonsense.

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hotpinkcockk answered · July 30, 2020

   I have nothing to say except that the one you're with now is some sick lunatic who doesn't know what real sex is ...

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twizzy28 answered · July 30, 2020

   Sex in the ass is very strong and you feel great pleasure but not every woman wants and can tolerate the pain so whatever you find you will fuck: D

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cataleya1 answered · July 30, 2020

   Look what ... Go to a sex shop, buy a vibrator and when you get home, offer the following scheme - he stops you, you stop him. That's the way it should be ... Ah, if he takes it for granted ... RUN away from him!

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_laura_09 answered · July 30, 2020

   Don't blame yourself. Your friend has absolute guilt because he can't prepare you. There is simply no experience dude, tell him to relax you a little before he puts it in and the pain will disappear almost immediately :)

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lailypink answered · July 31, 2020

   Anal sex is something that few women like because some have come across idiots who have no idea how to do it, and others just don't like it. The anus has three types of muscles that I do not remember the names relax very easily, just the person with you should know how and a lubricant becomes an incredible pleasure. PP For men who do not know how it is time to learn to get

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belle_camile answered · July 31, 2020

   If a person is wondering whether to have anal sex, you are just confusing him, some claim that it is good, others have no one to trust ??

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luella95 answered · July 31, 2020

   "Anal sex is something few women like" How, sorry, did you come to this conclusion? Did you read any statistics? I don't want to sound like a reproach. It just got interesting because I think the opposite. But apparently this is due to the fact that it gives me great pleasure personally. But in the beginning I also had the girl's problem. Really dear, it's your friend's fault. You just have to be more patient and careful. I also did it with a little inexperienced boy for the first time. And because most people try to get it cut, you get the nasty pain you're talking about. It can't be that way. You have to have a lot of patience. They have already written to you in the comments above what you should do. However, just because a friend wants you in the back doesn't mean he doesn't love you. And if he manages to predispose you and eventually do it, you will not regret it. You will see that the experience is different and unique. I advise you to really use a lubricant, because otherwise it will be very difficult, and something even more serious may happen. Patience, ... desire, ... that's it. Good luck!

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littlejbird answered · July 31, 2020

   But did the girls hurt during sex: e

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_shestifold answered · July 31, 2020

   Grease: P Vaseline or if you can't buy lemon juice I don't know why but most of the time it works.

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lucyhorny_1 answered · July 31, 2020

   Come to me, I will open you from behind, and it will be more pleasant for you to be fucked only from behind, but my requirements are strict, I look at you from the outside, then I tell you the price is

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eva_sweets1 answered · August 01, 2020

   Number 40 is a fucking blower in my opinion, the fact that your friend wants from behind is not bad, but it's bad that he can't put it to you as they say, it seems to be his first time, I think it would be good for you to guide him because apparently he doesn't know!

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hardcockdh answered · August 01, 2020

   Anal sex is great. I've been doing it recently but I like it. I even want it to end there but I don't know if there will be any consequences. If anyone knows - please let me know!

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luckytoky answered · August 01, 2020

   Please tell me anal sex doesn't take away your virginity, does it ?? and I think you should buy Vaseline and it is sold in the pharmacy ... if you are ashamed, make someone else;) a .. I think it is right to tell your friend that it hurts .. if he says ok, fix the other side and if he says don't tell him either that with Vaseline he can or with a vibrator but then he will not be able to be satisfied and empty himself in you;) nz .. here is your judgment

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nigelbigcock answered · August 01, 2020

   Number 43, how can I not take it away from you ?! Of course it takes it away from you. Just the thought of anal sex and your virgin skin breaks. Upon penetration into the anus, the hymen tightens and tears. You are even very likely to get pregnant, because your clitoris is very sensitive and with rougher penetration, this is reflected and the so-called "sexual confusion" can occur. the semen from your ass to make its way to your vagina, and from there it is clear to you what is happening - baby! For this the safest is oral love, but necessarily with a condom, because otherwise, the result will be the same again-baby!

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biggerthan010 answered · August 01, 2020

   43, do you understand now ???

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stanx35 answered · August 02, 2020

   I have been married for 11 years, my husband has wanted anal sex for some time, it penetrates a little, and my pain is hellish ,,,,,,, 3 days ago it penetrated all over with the help of a lubricant, my pain was horrible, I have blood do again I will file for divorce.

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aria_space answered · August 02, 2020

   45. I'm sorry, but I don't know exactly what you're talking about, maybe you're not making any connection to the brain. How can a woman get pregnant during anal sex, as if she got pregnant from oral sex. And as for virginity, the same dementia. I don't know why you are so ignorant why you write at all

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oh__sempai answered · August 02, 2020

   Ha ha ha. I burst out laughing! Hey women, (I'm a man of 29), it all depends on mental and physical preparation. A woman should want to do it, and a man should know how! That, in my opinion. And not someone who has a hard time with a dick and thinks that, like in a prono movie, he pushes himself in like yogurt - ha ha ha ha ha!

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quietlife616 answered · August 03, 2020

   to №45 are you crazy hahahahahaha so follow the logic please ... I've been fucking my ass for 3 years, they put it in rougher because I like it so much they end up in my ass (I'm open, ie I don't have a virgin zipper or so-called hymen) and you want to tell me that I will get pregnant hahahaha I can tell you that my cycle is correct or accurate Also you want to convince me that I have to blow a condom ... when putting the condom on the member the head loses part of this is your sensitivity (it's like putting gloves on your hands) with this loss of sensitivity the boy / man loses some of the pleasure he would otherwise experience from the movements you perform with your tongue ...that is, you swallow in vain, he does not feel anything and when he ends up in your mouth 1 / you can not swallow 2 / if you swallow you will not get pregnant because in your intestines you have no uterus in your mouth or esophagus so ..... you are just a deluded chick who looks after her own pleasure and does not care about the partner she is with and as a rule since 2010 sex should give pleasure to both partners;) thank you for reading me!

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hecilior answered · August 03, 2020

   Take a cucumber vibrator from the sex shop and surprise him! Let's see what pain is! and He will understand you ^^^

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sonia_marmeladova answered · August 03, 2020

   Hello! Dear girl, I am a man with 20 or more years of sexual experience and not with one woman, because there are some. About the girl's desire to please her boyfriend, about anal sex-BRAVO! My opinion is that you (darling) really love him. The fact is that if he does not receive it from you, he will find it with another, and you will not be satisfied with that. Such are the men and I am one of them. TIP - if it is many. impatient, there is a real danger of harming you healthily. So you take matters into your own hands. Prepare mentally (especially you) use a lubricant and icecaine paste for pain. For the first time, darling, you put it in yourself, because he will probably still be impatient and hurt you. There is no way! That way, you won't be looking for where the condom is at the last minute, and most of all, there will be no unwanted pregnancies, because there is no danger of getting pregnant. And when I read that he can't predispose you, then he's not very good at it. As a man, I have had relationships with women who liked them, but there were also those who did not want to hear about such anal games. But I want to point out that there were some who had a lot of fun. The one she liked the most told me that one of her sexual fantasies was to do it with two men at the same time. Unfortunately it did not happen. I wish you good luck ! that one of her sexual fantasies is to do it with two men at the same time. Unfortunately it did not happen. I wish you good luck ! that one of her sexual fantasies is to do it with two men at the same time. Unfortunately it did not happen. I wish you good luck !

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sexyvilleboy1 answered · August 03, 2020

   I am a woman. All in to a personal feeling, as well as to the threshold of pain. There are people with lower and higher thresholds. As well as women who love and those who do not like anal sex. In some women, the pain is in the beginning but over time - for example, after giving birth or after a certain age, they like anal sex even more than vaginal sex. For five years, my friend has been torturing me with this anal sex. We have tried all kinds of lubricants, tingling, analgesic gels, as well as gradual penetration. He played long before he performed the act, but every time he hurts me terribly, my skin splits and my blood flows. I would say it's awful. So if you're a self-respecting woman, don't do things that hurt you. If you are a man who loves his partner, do not look the tears in his eyes while you are trembling with excitement and you finish, and then you apologize and ask her how she is.

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goddesschanel2 answered · August 03, 2020

   Try it yourself, with an anal vibrator. If you can't get it yourself in peace, then you may have anatomical problems. Usually the pain after the expansion of the anal ring lasts for thirty seconds and then disappears altogether. But in no case should it be inserted sharply and roughly!

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nostress__ answered · August 04, 2020

   I don't even know how you can shove it in your ass. Personally, I don't want to, just from the thought that feces come out of there.

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ebony_laurens answered · August 04, 2020

   Hey, this 5 centuries of slavery is 5 centuries of slavery or as they call it now - Turkish presence! Your presence is true - from behind! There is a lot of practice in Turkey and obviously there are no fixes in our country, we have even started to like that it is encouraged. If it hurts - it would pass, you would even start to like it more than vaginal sex. Greater brainwashing is not a bag. :( For me, even if a finger is resting there while I cum vaginally and my orgasm is 2 times weaker, because I do not feel so strongly the muscle in the vagina, which actually contracts during the female orgasm! And the anus does not have so many pleasure receptors. Moreover, what exactly will the woman feel after various analgesic lubricants, as everything there is numb by them ... Every pleasure is above all in the head and obviously in the Bulgarian the slavish psyche prevails there,

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wowyoulooksosexy answered · August 04, 2020

   dump it, that anal! !! !!