Hello. It says a 19-year-old girl. I have a friend for about 2 years .... at the end of May we will finish them ... but recently there is something that worries me. In general, my friend (1 year older than me) likes freer relationships. He doesn't like to say "I love you", it sounds cinematic to him, he doesn't like frequent meetings ... not that he doesn't like them, he doesn't make much impression on him, but as I said he likes to be more relaxed and his boyfriend doesn't bother with "dramas." I want to add that his parents are wealthy people, whether they are his apartment and he lives alone, they gave him a car, he doesn't study, he doesn't work, they smoke weed in them with friends almost every night ... recently his father promised him a new car with the condition that he would give it to him if he went to university ... and his mother made him a plan of what to study, then what to specialize and work .... they try to lure him to the "right path", but he came up with a "plan for millions" by gambling. He's cute, he's great, he doesn't lack love when we're together, he hugs me, he kisses me, he tries to be a gentleman, he reads books separately (on personal development) he wants to do useful, productive things, but he's quite lazy . But I am personally worried about the fact that we see each other 2 or 3 times a week ... when I am at school and there is no way more, I justified it to him, that he has to work on his plan for success with the acquisition of millions .. even though he is free all day and lives only 25 minutes away from us .... so before we saw each other, had sex, we were together for a few hours and so on until the next weekend ... until at one point I muttered that I can't just sex .... so yes .. I just want more time together ... to tell me he loves me, to see that he wants to spend time with me ... I love the closeness of people's souls, not just sex. I told him that he was torturing me ... he reacted, but once he told me that he likes the fact that we are freer ... only that I need a boyfriend ... and not someone I see so rarely. .. as I said, I thought he was busy all day with some things, but soon when I questioned him, I realized that he actually sleeps late and then deals with nonsense, and in the evening they gather to smoke ... and I wondered .. God, I thought there was no time ... and he has such freedom and yet he does not spend time with me. Am I wrong that I want more time together ... to do some things together ... trips, trainings, games, to talk about deep topics, to have fun ... or what I want is normal? I cried a lot at times because I was lonely ... but I didn't want to bother him, although he says there is no problem. I have been training boxing for almost a year and there is a boy who wants to spend time with me .. he doesn't push me for sex and things like that .. of course I cut him off, I don't want to get dirty ... but I thought ... this a boy is busy all day and still finds some time for me and offers me ds we go on outings, discuss interesting topics ... and I thought ... why my own boyfriend does not have as much time for me as this boy .... maybe it's just that our points of view are different, maybe young people don't care about engaging relationships ... What do you say?
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I am a boy and I fully support you. You just want a boy who loves you and shows it to you, that's the connection. I understand you and you want the right things. Make him jealous and pretend you're not sure.
And what is such a pampering for you?
It's clear why you got caught up in the "popular hot guy." But to continue to torment yourself for years with such a "relationship" requires a special type of masochism. He just didn't tell you in his face that he only calls you when he gets knocked on, but you love him? Maybe because he's already fucked you enough times? If someone wants to be with you and work 20 hours a day, they will find a way. If you want to be with someone, won't you find it? And to justify an unemployed sloth with a lack of time is, to put it mildly, ridiculous. But it is even more tragic that there is someone to tie to him. It's a pity for his mother and father, who raised him like that and obviously tolerate him, instead of leaving him alone to learn how to make bread. But if you are stupid enough to tolerate such a situation, the problem is yours personally.
Hello! I am a boy of 20 years. I recently completed a relationship. I love intimacy, to see how the person looks for you and wants you. How she looks around for you and wants to, and my lady loved privacy. She didn't like to be kissed very often, she preferred to stay awake with the company instead of sleeping together. I am a student and I work all the time (I work, go to university and take extra courses), I am not from a rich family, but I have dreams and I want to fulfill them. Your boy looks to me like a typical mother's pamper, whose parents will wipe his ass for life, but some are born into rich others into poor families (but that's another topic of conversation). You can't spend all day idle in your joint and sleep all day. WOW EGATI LIFE (you have money and you just sleep in it WOW)! A girl has different types of people, it just didn't happen to us.
Go straight to great disappointment. All the signs you describe betray, on the one hand, a person who is neither committed nor committed to you, and on the other hand, you yourself, without realizing perhaps, emphasize how much your value system and criteria are differ from his. Under no circumstances should you sleep with him! Get away an hour sooner, no matter how hard it is for you. Suddenly and suddenly, without explanations, forgiveness, etc.! You're just with someone who's not on your wave, and that, I'm afraid, will never change. You are fine, but don't be naive and don't take what you want for granted. Be healthy!
I'm sorry, but you will not get closeness of souls with this spoiled drug addict and failure. This connection, if the word "connection" can be said, is unlikely to last very long, and when it is over, take the Lesson from it. Success! It strives for people who have a goal, ambition and desire for self-improvement and growth. This guy will probably stay immature for the rest of his life.
Round and beige at full throttle. The boxer finds time because he likes you. Your friend ... I'm even embarrassed to call him that - no. He deals with you out of boredom sometimes. Let him save the world, become a billionaire to conquer new planets or whatever missions there gave birth to his intoxicated head, and you solve your earthly problems with people from Earth 34
As a girl who also likes free relationships, 3 times a week is enough for me, even 4 is enough, but I can't understand it. So he can do absolutely nothing all day - he doesn't work, he doesn't study, he just puffs on the grass and mom and dad give him money. At least he would have written something to study, in the dormitory where I live, there are many such addicts like him, but at least they go to lectures and somehow take their exams, they have already passed the 3rd year, and they are just like your friend. My ex-boyfriend, with whom I was 3.5 years old, wanted his freedom, but at least once a day he wanted to see me live and talk, to go for a walk or every other day. This gentleman of yours fits in the "lazy" category quite well, and I would advise you to drop him in a minute. With people like him, you can always waste your time, but the good boy will use the little time he has to be with you. This one just uses you so he doesn't get bored and has something to fix (remember) and when you want him to act like a boyfriend and not like a sex friend, he gets nervous that you wanted him a lot because he he is too lazy to take care of a relationship that has hardly ever been a relationship for him. F20