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I Want It Back So Much

By oficialdombosco August 31, 2020 20 answers Last updated August 31, 2020

Hello. I'm just starting to write because it's been a long time. I will try to shorten it as much as I can. About 5-6 months ago I met a boy. He wrote to me every day and was very kind. We could write to each other for hours and there was always something to do. I met him and he was very nice to me, darling. It was all I needed. He had a nice smile, a nice voice, nice hair, a nice body ... he was tall and had a very nice character. There was nothing he didn't like. One day he wrote me that he liked me and asked me if I wanted to be together. I told him I didn't want to because I didn't think I was ready, but inside I wanted him so much. However, we continued to write to each other and everything was as before. A few weeks passed and he asked me again if I wanted to be with him. I accepted because I wanted to. We saw each other very rarely. Finally, the thrill just disappeared. We broke up. And I still love him. I can't breathe when I think of him ... I want him back, but I'm sure he doesn't want him. What to do? by the way I'm 15

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myabbgrl answered · August 31, 2020

   The problem is that you have not experienced your love, and he already took you for granted .. At 15, how many even greater thrills will you meet ..

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excellentstroker answered · August 31, 2020

   The old love is forgotten with a new one!

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coralinebates answered · August 31, 2020

   And how are you sure he doesn't want it, m? And you, miss, just go to him and SPEAK ... G18

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feliciam1991 answered · August 31, 2020

   I'm sure he doesn't want it because I told him. And I don't think I'll forget him, because he's the first boy I like so much. Author.

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wessywes23 answered · August 31, 2020

   Look, you may have experienced it too, but do you know how much I like it. I miss him so much. It's as if part of my heart is gone ... Author.

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sportscenter answered · August 31, 2020

   Don't stop chasing him, flirt with him, tell him how much you love him, that you can't do without him. If he is still in love with you, he will return to you.

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didi_mei answered · September 01, 2020

   I'm in exactly the same situation, only he already has another .... and it's super hard for me, but ...; xxxxx

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itziarituno answered · September 01, 2020

   Number 6 - Thanks, but I don't think he's still in love with me. I know him well, if I liked him he wouldn't give up, and he gave up :) And maybe we'll just remain friends ... Number 7 - It's awful, isn't it ..

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kallen_7 answered · September 01, 2020

   There is nothing left for you to forget and look for someone who deserves you, I sincerely wish you. from # 6

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_onedayonething_ answered · September 02, 2020

   There is obviously no choice here but to give up, although you always have to fight for what you want, but instead of humiliating yourself, find a new one and forget the old one. :)

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cheerny14 answered · September 02, 2020

   Dear girl, you are in love with him, but he is not in love with you. You like him and you attract him, but boys at this age usually look for sex, not so much to prove themselves, but to have a topic of conversation with their friends. They do not fall in love, despite sweet talk, promises and vows of love. They are looking for the most direct path to the goal. Maybe he decided that he would not have the dream of quick success with you and left you on hold. If you are persistent and reveal your feelings to him, and of course if you decide to let him go, which is the decisive factor, he will gladly accept you. He hopes so, but know that you will be the next number. It's like fishing, throwing a few fishing rods and where it bites. It is impossible for love and words. The choice is yours. I sympathize with you and I know it's hard for you, but this is life.

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camilasquirt870 answered · September 03, 2020

   Numbers 9 and 10. I know I have to forget it, but it's harder than it looks. And he writes to me almost every day. He is interested in how I am, etc. If he didn't write to me, it would be easier for me to forget him. Number 11 - Thank you very much for the comment :) I don't think he's looking for sex, I know him. He fought for me when I didn't like him so much. If he wants to have sex, he can do it with anyone. If I was with him, I wouldn't forbid him to do it, but it's still necessary. Sex is one thing, love is another. Sex is fun. And yes, it's really hard ... by the way, I'm a virgin; e Author.

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jadetunchy answered · September 03, 2020

   Tell him you still love him, fight for him!

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xboynextdoor69x answered · September 03, 2020

   Hello Sweetie! I am 14 and I have the same problem. We have known each other for 7 months. He confessed to me exactly on New Year's Eve, but I was with another boy and told him that I did not intend to end my relationship with him. It so happened that after 1/2 week we broke up. I was very sad and angry, and the nasty thing was that I made fun of him and constantly pushed him away. Nevertheless, we continued to write, see each other, share. We became close and we were both very attached to each other. At one point I realized I was falling in love with him. I knew it was wrong, after hurting him so many times, to tell him that I actually had some feelings for him. I tried to stop thinking about him, but it didn't work. I revealed my feelings to him. We didn't get together because I didn't want to (I just didn't want to hurt him when we broke up). He was terribly jealous! It limited me. He controlled my life. I didn't have a life of my own. We were arguing all the time because of a boy. It was very stupid, but I couldn't stop the love. One day we had a very serious fight over my best friend. He was very angry. For the first time I saw him get so angry. He suddenly told me that he hated me in a moment of anger. I knew that was not the case, but as time went on we quarreled more and more often and I heard the words "I hate you! There is nothing between us anymore! You killed all my feelings!". I accepted it. We kept writing, but we both already knew that "we have no feelings for each other," even though I was still in love. He was terribly jealous of me again and fought with all the boys who touched or talked to me. I thought he was doing it simply because we were friends. It turned out that there were still feelings but he wants to be alone because it is good for him. I didn't want him to be alone. I wanted to be with him. I couldn't accept that I had lost him. Yesterday I shared my feelings with him and told him that although we do not see each other (because I am moving from this school where he is), I will not forget him and he will remain a thrill for life. I told him that he was still very dear to me and that I was still in love. He told me that he cried while reading it and was very angry that we would not see each other again. He went out and stopped writing to me. I'm afraid he will do something stupid, because he is such that it is not known what he can do. Now I'm just waiting for him to write to me ... in which he is), I will not forget him and he will remain a thrill for a lifetime. I told him that he was still very dear to me and that I was still in love. He told me that he cried while reading it and was very angry that we would not see each other again. He went out and stopped writing to me. I'm afraid he will do something stupid, because he is such that it is not known what he can do. Now I'm just waiting for him to write to me ... in which he is), I will not forget him and he will remain a thrill for a lifetime. I told him that he was still very dear to me and that I was still in love. He told me that he cried while reading it and was very angry that we would not see each other again. He went out and stopped writing to me. I'm afraid he will do something stupid, because he is such that it is not known what he can do. Now I'm just waiting for him to write to me ...

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bunnywilliamshome answered · September 04, 2020

   Number 15 :) I hope he didn't do anything. The feeling is awful: / Author

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olga_naug answered · September 04, 2020

   You say that he doesn't love you, you have separated, and he keeps writing to you, very strange, but he still loves you when he is interested in you. Ask him to reunite, try again, tell him you haven't forgotten him. I wish you success.

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lottieblix answered · September 04, 2020

   Number 17: Thank you very much! Maybe I'll ask him, but it's hard .. If he refuses I will be ruined :( I like him so much .... Author.

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can_be_your_toy answered · September 04, 2020

   Sex is fun !!! ??? The fact that you look at sex as fun is a very big problem. Let's say it's fun if you like it that way, but it's fun for adults, not children, who, if they have other children, can't take care of them. At your age, I lived with your tremors and pains. When my mother told me I was little, I just hated her. Now, as I read what you have written, I understand my mother. You are SMALL for these things and the fact that you call sex "Fun" proves it in full force. I respect your feelings, I understand them, it's hard to be in love and not shared, but on the topic of sex we can not agree. Fall in love at this age as much as you want. Kiss as much as you want. Lie, swear, promise ... but be careful with the "fun". Sex is the perfect addition to a real relationship. I'm sorry I'm going to moralize (I know you hate that a lot and I hated it), but that's the way things are in life. You will understand me only when you find the real one. At your age, everyone is "real." Only now do you enter life, get to know yourself, your feelings, etc. Everything really is yet to come. Everything - in every way, including love. You yourself are not shaped as a character. From now on you will build. Remember that all these obstacles and pains you encounter along the way build you up as a person. Children, children! Why are you in such a hurry to grow up! Tomorrow you will hate yourself for giving away your body for someone's "fun". Show me a 100 percent safe way to get pregnant! There is no such thing, dear child, there is none! What fun is this, which can ruin your life in an instant! Why do you look at things so superficially! Will an abortion fix your situation later? What about your conscience? And the remorse? And the fears that when you grow up you will not have children? At this age, the sea is knee-deep, but please listen a little more to the advice of others. It's wonderful to be a virgin. Try not to change this in the near future. You haven't lost anything just because you haven't shown your naked body to anyone. Don't be so willing to give in, because the humiliation you will experience if you do it with a person you later realize was just a number is huge, unbearable and nightmarish. Should your mothers bear the brunt of your sin by signing for an abortion? Dear girls, think what you are doing !!! Life is yours, it stands before you. Where are you in such a hurry! ? When you turn 25 (for example) and find the person who meets and fits exactly your already built worldview and character, but he tells you that he really wants to be a virgin, and you "having fun" gave yourself this "nothing" to an adventurer, then how will you feel? All men love light women, but do not take light wives for themselves! I really hope you always remember that! If at 18 you meet the man of your dreams, how will you explain to him that at 16 you had already developed (don't get me wrong, I don't want to offend you). Appreciate your virginity, girls. This is not just a burden, but a gift! Don't give presents to everyone you meet just because it's fashionable to have sex. This is a dangerous game that leaves incurable scars in the soul. Each "piece" is a wound in the soul. Don't let anyone leave a wound on your body either!

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caroline_cossei answered · September 05, 2020

   19, they and the drugs find them for fun, chalga and soaps - too, and sometimes even the street fight they consider it as such ... It's good that at least you came to your senses crookedly left.

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thebigcockcam1994 answered · September 05, 2020

   I want to thank you for the comments! We have been together with the boy in question for a year and a month. I'm glad I didn't give up and realized that good things take time :)