Hello! Thanks in advance to anyone who will read this and help me solve the problem! I am a 12 year old girl for 7th grade. I'm a good student at school, so far I've only finished 6th grade, and sixth grade with 5. 92. But mom and dad are happy with how I'm doing at school. I don't go to parties (except on birthdays, but up to 8-9 hours and twice a year), I don't deal with boyfriends, firstly I haven't met the man and secondly, I think I'm still young. Before I was 9-10-11 I served, but I always confessed, and they forgave me. I sit alone at home, but up to 5th grade incl. a woman was taking me to school, and it is 5 minutes away from us !!! But anyway, past-gone. Now I go alone and come back. Five minutes from school there is a fast food restaurant, where they let me go with friends. But when I want to go to the mall with friends, of cinema-firm-No! Once I went to the 6th grade and not alone, but my father took us all. After the movie we wanted to watch, but Daddy made me leave and I was terribly uncomfortable. And other children my age and younger go there alone. True, I was not born in Sofia, I do not know the city well. In 8 years I have traveled twice by public transport with mom or dad. But there will always be a way, I want them to let me go alone, I tell them I'll get used to it, but-No! I don't know what we will do when we move to a house 5 km away soon. from Sofia. In short - how to make them trust me, to allow me to go out sometimes with friends, to travel alone ... And other children my age and younger go there alone. True, I was not born in Sofia, I do not know the city well. In 8 years I have traveled twice by public transport with mom or dad. But there will always be a way, I want them to let me go alone, I tell them I'll get used to it, but-No! I don't know what we will do when we move to a house 5 km away soon. from Sofia. In short - how to make them trust me, to allow me to go out sometimes with friends, to travel alone ... And other children my age and younger go there alone. True, I was not born in Sofia, I do not know the city well. In 8 years I have traveled twice by public transport with mom or dad. But there will always be a way, I want them to let me go alone, I tell them I'll get used to it, but-No! I don't know what we will do when we move to a house 5 km away soon. from Sofia. In short - how to make them trust me, to allow me to go out sometimes with friends, to travel alone ...
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Unfortunately, I don't think you will influence your parents alone. If you have an older brother or sister or an aunt or uncle you trust more, get them to talk to your parents. They are more likely to be heard in an older person.
Prove to them that you are independent. Do various things at home - tidy up, WITHOUT being told, dusting, WITHOUT being told, if you ask them for money every day, ask them once every few days. :)!
I'm 12 too (I got up this year) but I'm in 6th grade. They let me go to school alone from the 4th grade. And to go to the mall alone is not scary if you have tickets and you know the buses. Every parent is worried but you are 7th grade .. I think you are old enough to walk alone (with friends). I don't know what exactly to tell you so that they trust you, I guess you have a phone they can call you to hear you when they are so worried ..
Yes, I have a phone, it's even blackberry. I don't want their money at all. I have a piggy bank, they put small ones in it every day. I don't have a brother or sister, and I don't trust others. And yes, I do do things without them telling me, but I often argue about it. I made a salad once, cutting fruits, vegetables and other things before, and they scolded me for doing something without anyone telling me. Although then they ate it most calmly. My mother complained that she was tired from work, and instead of thanking me for helping, she scolded me. There have been other similar incidents, I just don't remember. I don't know, I'm desperate already !!!
When one day you have children of your own, you will understand what it is;) and I used to be annoyed with them, but now when I turn the tape back I say to myself, "it's good that they called me to fight, I could have done something stupid" so no that now I am very old - 15 years. but I put myself in their shoes and see things as I would. Well, now they don't call me to pick. I get into 1-2 and three, but I have the mind not to do nonsense, because it's for me, and I've won the trust - by being serious, I don't think like a child, but there is something else, I'm bigger now . Talk to them, explain to them, gain their trust, and things will be OK !!!! Carol ******
Number 5, you tell me to gain their trust. Well actually I ask- How? to win it.
In order to be trusted, it is important to be exemplary. I'm not telling you to be a perfect child, because there are none :). I'm 13 - for seventh grade. They still trust me because they know me very well. It's actually my mother, because I call my father [when he's not home] only if I go somewhere far away - for example to the Mall or the center. And when he is at home, if he asks me where I go out, I tell him - for example, to the park with friends or to go around somewhere :). So I wanted to tell you that from the second grade I go to school alone - I have to cross a busy street, so in the first grade I came home with a classmate. In third grade, I had to travel alone on a bus twice a week. My mother was naturally worried because I am from Plovdiv and I had to travel to the center, which is far from me. We got along like this - when I left and called and when I arrived - again. Suggest that you do the same thing once or twice to see what happens. Now, when I go to school, I send an arrow to my mother again for nothing but to be calm, because the school is quite far from home. I don't have an evening class. I'm told to go home as it gets dark. And I rarely go home later, because in the end I'm a girl .. only .. in the evening .. on the streets if you remember there are all kinds of people; x. And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone with them - they called me to watch him and he never came home from school alone, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) Now, when I go to school, I send an arrow to my mother again for nothing but to be calm, because the school is quite far from home. I don't have an evening class. I'm told to go home as it gets dark. And I rarely go home later, because in the end I'm a girl .. only .. in the evening .. on the streets if you remember there are all kinds of people; x. And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone - they called me to watch him and he never came home alone from school, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) Now, when I go to school, I send an arrow to my mother again for nothing but to be calm, because the school is quite far from home. I don't have an evening class. I'm told to go home as it gets dark. And I rarely go home later, because in the end I'm a girl .. only .. in the evening .. on the streets if you remember there are all kinds of people; x. And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone - they called me to watch him and he never came home alone from school, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) because the school is quite far from home. I don't have an evening class. I'm told to go home as it gets dark. And I rarely go home later, because in the end I'm a girl .. only .. in the evening .. on the streets if you remember there are all kinds of people; x. And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone with them - they called me to watch him and he never came home from school alone, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) because the school is quite far from home. I don't have an evening class. I'm told to go home as it gets dark. And I rarely go home later, because in the end I'm a girl .. only .. in the evening .. on the streets if you remember there are all kinds of people; x. And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone - they called me to watch him and he never came home alone from school, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone with them - they called me to watch him and he never came home from school alone, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :) And by the way, I have a cousin 3 years younger than me - now he is in 4th grade. His parents never left him alone with them - they called me to watch him and he never came home from school alone, and he is close to him. He will probably never be able to handle himself. This is a minus and tell your parents that at least from time to time to leave you alone will be useful to you. :)
Моите не ми дават да се отпиша от тренировките по футбол можели някои да ми помогне с това че вече неможе да се издържа!!!
Hello! I am 14 years old and now I will be in 8th grade. Ours also don't let me go anywhere and tell me to sit only in front of us -, -. I'm honestly fed up ..and I'm wondering how to get them to let me in the neighborhood at all (because my neighborhood is a bit crappy: dd) or in the mall..I have no idea why they behave like that..I know that they are parents and they are afraid, but still I need at least one outing with friends..whether in the mall or in the park, as they both go..my friends are already making fun of me because I was like a prisoner; ( And I'm ashamed of it I have a friend I like I told my mom, but she obviously doesn't understand me and wants us to break up because she thinks nonsense; // .. and he also wants us to go out, but he won't how, because our people constantly say NO; @ .. I'm asking for some advice, because I'm completely out of my mind and I'm tired :(