I want to be bolder I want to talk about this, do you think men are born or can be born, or both less? I'm not saying that I don't have self-confidence, that I don't have merits, etc. I have my qualities and my weaknesses, like all people. But I want to become a man, so to speak. I want to be somehow separated from ours and to be independent in my decisions. There is no need to explain myself to someone when I make a decision and seek their approval on the issue. Unfortunately, people close to me try to guide me and because of that I hardly communicate with them. The other thing I want is not to be afraid of anything. I hate to be afraid and I want to overcome my fears all the time, not let them guide my life. Finally to overcome this fear, to be stronger physically and mentally.
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Personally, in my opinion, this quality is cultivated over time. As a child, I was very shy, but over time that has changed and I have not kept quiet about anyone for a long time, especially if I face injustice. He learns to stand up for himself and fights for his own interest, despite the fear (sometimes it is just necessary). And do not do such in-depth psychoanalysis, but go with the flow and you will learn quickly. Do not be afraid of challenges, on the contrary, look for them, and over time it will become easier to defend yourself. Success! M21
It's a pity that you don't say more about yourself - age, do you live alone, etc ... To begin with: Freedom and responsibility go hand in hand. That is, if you want to separate from yours and be independent in your decisions, you will have to take responsibility for yourself and the consequences. To be able to live separately, to earn a living, etc. If you live with yours, if your mother washes your socks and your father gives you pocket money, there can be no question of independence. Or if yours bought you a house and you live in it, how would you repel the attacks of yours? When you prove to yourself and the world that you can handle yourself, then you will automatically be able to make decisions on your own without explaining yourself and people will have respect. In the cases I have seen so far, there is ALWAYS some dependence on the parents - whether housing, financial, or looking after the child, was to attribute something .... and accordingly people complain that their parents are poking their noses into their cases. Become independent of them and everything will be fine automatically ... but many people do not have this independence.