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I Want To Be More Active In Bed ....

By tulio.rochaa October 06, 2020 10 answers Last updated October 06, 2020

Hello, I'm a 19-year-old girl and I'm very shy when it comes to sex. In principle, I am a very open person, but when I go to bed with my friend, I am very ashamed to do anything, I become like a tree. We do poses 69, I'm often on top and he likes that, but I feel like I can do more than what I show. Please tell me how to relax and really enjoy intercourse! We do all sorts of poses, but I'm missing something, meaning on my part .......

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helgapeppa answered · October 06, 2020

   Drink 2 glasses of red wine before sex

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adelegrisoni answered · October 06, 2020

   Well, what can I tell you, I don't have much experience, but I think it should come from inside you. What exactly are you ashamed of? You have to relax and experiment. At least once you have to overcome your shyness :) and take the initiative. Once you do it, you will relax and you will have no restraints :) If you want to keep the man to yourself, you have to give him first-class sex :)

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CallitMAGIC answered · October 06, 2020

   If you want, we can try it, you and I can relax

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OneSquirtPussy answered · October 06, 2020

   Hello !! I think it will help to blindfold your friend if you are ashamed of looking at you, but I think it will help. And then do whatever comes to you, but close your eyes and from time to time open them and see his dressing and calm down. I hope it helps. Good luck from me !!!!

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AnneandEddy answered · October 06, 2020

   Try to experiment - provoke your boyfriend to offer you not so much new poses as more diverse forms of foreplay and indulge in it actively - either you are fine with it or sooner or later things will run out. But my last words do not mean a fatalistic end. And one more thing - you are too young to blame yourself - the experience comes with the years :)))

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dozabawy18cm answered · October 06, 2020

   Ooooo, I was ashamed too, but when I remembered how cool my friend would be ... I removed all restraints just because of him !!!!! Believe me..he was very pleased ... !!!!

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geysha777 answered · October 06, 2020

   I think you are very well. I really hate for someone to spin and bend like crazy and not be able to empty.

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6mala9 answered · October 06, 2020

   I had a similar problem with my boyfriend (I even have one). he really wanted me to be on top, but I was ashamed and worried that he would not like it .. and after a while when we broke up he told me that another fulfilled his wish .. honestly I was not very pleased to know that and I could do it. So act!

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alise_curvy answered · October 06, 2020

   № 2 is right, sex is very important, and you watch a movie, read something on the net, get an idea that you can implement at first, ie get scared, and in time it will even start to give you pleasure to to experiment, to surprise, and to enjoy it yourself. And I am convinced that your friend will join in with imagination ..

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isa_glamourt answered · October 06, 2020

   I have a similar problem .. So I really want to have sex with 1 boy and it is curled but still I do not have the body of Angelina Jolie or some supermodel and I am very ashamed .. this idea with the blindfold is really good but still for the first time, of course, he will want to see me naked and it will be somehow illogical to ask him not to take off his bra .. please give me advice.