Hi, I'm 25 years old and I've only loved one girl. I went out with her for 1 year and we broke up about a year ago. More precisely, she broke up with me. Money was the main factor, although she claimed otherwise. I was a student and I was stuck then. It was a protracted and difficult separation (several months with many quarrels), we gathered and separated a number of times, until finally she finally managed to swallow my position. I did not blame her, I am a realist, I know that some will say that money is not an obstacle for true love, but let's not talk about it in the 21st century ... Now, however, things have changed radically. I found a perfect job, I think I already live better than her. But I still love her. I've had several relationships since then - but I couldn't forget her, even though two girls fell in love with me (or so they say). When she realized that I was fine now, she completely hid, he does not go out in our midst, he avoids me in every way; I have a feeling she loves me too, but I guess she's ugly too. But I hate it when I think she's naughty. I want to call her and talk to her, but I just can't forgive her. I don't want revenge, I think she has suffered enough, but I don't want her to break my heart again. Dumb situation, I don't know what to do, to continue without it or to look for it I don't know how to forgive ... to continue without her or to look for her? I don't know how to forgive ... to continue without her or to look for her? I don't know how to forgive ...
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I don't think you need a girl like that. Think a little! Is it right for a jester to beat you because I don't have the financial means? That's why two people get together to help each other in difficult times, not to separate when someone is in trouble. My ex-boyfriend and I had a period of a month where we went to cheaper places to have coffee because he had financial problems, but I didn't leave him. It's my ex because we broke up, because of his lies, his not so harmless flirtations, anyway. Upstairs he found a not so material chick!
Friend, don't bother ... She will look for you when she gets smarter, and then you will probably have already forgotten her;)
Well, forgive her, man, just forgive her. HOW can you forgive her in another way? ;)
Hello! I don't usually mess with other people's heads, because one has the right to make mistakes on one's own. And you don't want to make a mistake, but unfortunately nothing can protect you. The first thing you need to do - answer yourself do you really love? I think then you will know what to do. Your hesitation speaks for itself. I can quote you smart about love, but I think you're an intelligent boy. In any case, conversations help people to clarify things. Material things are important, no matter what age we go back to. But with the person next to us we have to look in the same direction. In all other cases there is a discrepancy. "If you truly love, then nothing is lost. Love is a state of mind, not property. There is no law in the world that can destroy this relationship." Although I quote, I share it with you from experience. Success!
Hello. After a 5 month relationship we started preparing for the wedding. In April I had an operation for appendicitis, he came to see me only once. My wound was very hard to heal, but you will continue in the name of our future. He really wanted me to be pregnant at the wedding (in September), but there was no way - the pain in the wound was great. In mid-July we returned from the sea. The next day I called him - he did not pick up. And so for a whole week, until the day I received a few text messages from which I only remember "Tell the guests that there will be no wedding, I do not want to do something that I will regret after that." I started looking for him, but alas, he hid in a mouse hole. A few days later, my relatives started calling me and spotted him with a younger and taller woman than him. I haven't seen or heard from him since. He didn't tell me the reason - I'm just guessing - whether it's because I couldn't get pregnant, whether it's because I drive an expensive car and he's a cheap car, whether it's because we didn't give the BGN 5,000 requested by his father, whether it's because of the younger woman , whether for the simple reason that he wants to be forever with different women, by deceiving them he will marry them (so far he has abandoned 5 women just a few weeks before the wedding). Why am I writing all this to you - we are sets with you, you loved one and I loved two; I went this way - if a person wants to be with you he just stays. If a person has nothing to tell you, he sinks into a mouse hole. It's hard for you at the moment, but it was 5 times harder for me. You are just boyfriends, not newlyweds. You don't give an answer to anyone - or you want to you get to my level - to have lunch and ask you what you want for a wedding gift, and you say through tears there will be no wedding. Don't - just forget it. If she wanted you to know the reason, believe me she would have told you. But she's not hiding because she doesn't know how to lie to you.
Are you crazy to fall on her level and call her. If she really loved you, she wouldn't dump you for the money, if you called her you'd be a big fool to run after her ass
Drop this one, what's it for? It's full of cool girls, look around!
If you have 2 you don't need 1