I am very sensitive. I'm terribly shy, I have a hard time communicating with people, that's why there are almost no people around me, I'm full of complexes about my appearance, about not saying something stupid and what not. When I'm in a big company, I blush and die of anxiety. I just can't relax no matter what I do, I miss every chance for fear of failing. I try very hard not to be kind to people, because that's how everyone takes advantage of me. I am very critical (I criticize a lot of people and things around me). I get angry easily. And please don't tell me "to go out more often", because it's no use, only where I walk alone, and I'm bored alone. I know you're going to tell me to sign up for some sport or dance, but I don't know ... I don't have enough money.
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Well, if you don't have enough money, go to a state psychologist. There are many. I know it may sound strange, but a visit will change you a lot. And to know that things don't happen with one walk. You must walk for at least 1 month. Good luck and be kind!
Meet new people. This way you will not be the only one who is worried during the first conversations. :) You will get to know each other and who knows - it may be the beginning of a good friendship. :) You can write to people from Facebook or Skype, there are many ways. Relax when you talk to someone. Believe me - I speak from experience. Nothing will happen if you panic all the time about what you say or how you sound. Success;) Gwen
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I'm the same boy as you, 17, and I've added such a story. This is very stupid, and I try not to be very kind to people, because they start to get on my head and my communication is lame and I just don't know how to behave with people and they take me for a jerk and a stranger. . I also have phobias, for example when I am in a place where there are a lot of people around me, for example in Sofia Vitoshka Street. I went there once, and there are generally a lot of people, especially at my age, and I immediately had panic attacks and I didn't feel well and comfortable, I even fainted and I was worried inside for no reason. I have the feeling that I am totally crazy and this is all due to the fact that I have developed a very common disease in the world social anxiety. I hope you don't have it and try not to close too much in you, because you, like me, will get it, that's how I developed this insidious disease. Another thing is that we are obviously more sensitive and good-natured and more easily sick of such phobias, but it is not our fault, but the people around us, who are more or less to blame for our current state and so I make sense of them. And I hate going out alone unless it's evening, because then there are almost no people outside and even if there are, they can't see me and I feel calmer when I say invisible to them. I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so here you are very right, everyone will tell you that (or do more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ Another thing is that we are obviously more sensitive and good-natured and more easily sick of such phobias, but it is not our fault, but the people around us, who are more or less to blame for our current state and so I make sense of them. And I hate going out alone unless it's evening, because then there are almost no people outside and even if there are, they can't see me and I feel calmer when I say invisible to them. I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so here you are very right, everyone will tell you so (or more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ Another thing is that we are obviously more sensitive and good-natured and more easily sick of such phobias, but it is not our fault, but the people around us, who are more or less to blame for our current state and so I make sense of things. And I hate to go out alone unless it's evening, because then there are almost no people outside and even if there are, they can't see me and I feel calmer when I say invisible to them. I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so you're very right here, everyone will tell you (or do more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ who are more or less to blame for our current state, and that's how I make sense of them. And I hate going out alone unless it's evening, because then there are almost no people outside and even if there are, they can't see me and I feel calmer when I say invisible to them. I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so here you are very right, everyone will tell you so (or more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ who are more or less to blame for our current state, and that's how I make sense of them. And I hate going out alone unless it's evening, because then there are almost no people outside and even if there are, they can't see me and I feel calmer when I say invisible to them. I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so you're very right here, everyone will tell you (or do more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so here you are very right, everyone will tell you so (or more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _ I've been out many times alone and nothing happens, it doesn't help, so here you are very right, everyone will tell you that (or do more) and such, but nothing happens, it's still the same simplicity. I want to wish you to get out of this state and not to deepen as it happened to me and upside down !! _ (ThE L W0lF) _
Do you have any friends? Or at least one or two ...? If you have, just agree to gather somewhere (in you or for coffee or a friend, etc.) and get some alcohol! Necessarily a little alcohol. Let everyone call someone extra to gather more people, and when everyone is, start drinking. This helped me - alcohol! I was terribly worried, but I took a glass and just drank a little punch vodka ... I smoked about a dozen cigarettes and relaxed. I had a lot of fun! We all laughed and had fun. And so I already collapsed the walls I had erected .... I climbed the top step! And I like it there. ;))) Listen to me. Good luck. ;)) :)