My friend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months. together, we live together. From the beginning everything was wonderful, I felt like a princess who discovered her prince, I felt that she loved me, but for half a year now I feel ALONE even though I am with him, I have no support from him, no tenderness and attention. He works in Romania and comes for 3 days, but being here it's like he's not here, I'm not working at the moment and he just keeps track of how much I spend and how much I smoked, when we go out for coffee he doesn't even talk to me so much my acquaintances and they couldn't understand that we were boyfriends '' that's how he treats me '' cold. He told me that he was sure I would never leave him and that I would love him forever for it and he behaved that way. I don't know what to do, I want to feel loved and I want a little tenderness. I'm very sick, my father has cancer, I have problems, nothing makes me happy. I love him very much but I feel that I am fighting for our relationship. He only says on SMS that he loves me, but he doesn't show it in any way.
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Um, sometimes men are like that - if you show them that you will always be there for them, if you prove your love to them, they take it for granted, as if you will never leave them, because they realize that you can't do without them. The advice I will give you is - why not step away from it for a while? You say you have problems, that your father is ill (which I'm sorry for and I hope he gets better!) - why don't you go back to yours for a while until things get back to normal? You will have more time with your family, you will be alone with yourself and eventually - if the person next to you really wants to be with you and loves you, he will look for you and will want to be in your company. In my opinion, this is the best option - to let him look for you for a while, to prove to him that you are not a given, but a confident woman who will not pray for the love of a man. I sincerely wish you good luck and a speedy recovery of your father. Greetings, smile :)
Make your friend wonder what's going on with you. Look happy and almost indifferent to him, meet more often with friends. When he is in Bulgaria, go out without him. Arouse his interest and arouse his jealousy. Love him, but don't let him think you're safe. Revive the hunter in him and let him have something to fight for and know what he can lose.
Show him that you are a person independent of him. Then ask him to respect you. If he can't - he's not the right person.
I agree with number 1. You have to step back a little from him, to feel that he can lose you. Love must be nurtured and shown.
Thanks for answering :)) so I thought to make myself step away from him to see that I was not as sure of him as he thinks .. I wish you success and good luck in life :))