Hello, I have been reading what has been written on the site for a long time, but only now have I found the courage to share my story. It is as follows: a little over a month ago, while looking at a dating site, the profile of a very nice boy came to my attention. Maybe due to the fact that I have a burner or I don't know why I still didn't have the courage to write to him and did I look at his profile day after day ... until once entering once again I saw that he wrote to me. I was very happy! So we started writing on the site, later on Skype. From the beginning we didn't write often, but over time we started writing every day. That's how I found out that he is from my town at the age of 21 / I am 18 /, works near my school and has a girlfriend, unfortunately for me. Day by day, as I wrote, my interest in him grew. One day when we were talking again, he invited me out. And I, although I had longed for this moment, did not gather courage and refused him! He called me to go out twice more, but I kept refusing him, I was afraid he would reject me because I was full! One day, however, I decided that it cost me nothing to at least try, I arranged with a friend for a walk the next day and invited him! He accepted, and I was burning both with the desire to see him and with the worry of what he would think when he saw a fat woman next to him! And now the day of our first meeting has come, I will never forget the feeling I felt when I saw live the eyes and the smile I had dreamed of for so long! The moment he smiled at me, he seemed to erase all my worries with a magic wand (he knew so much about me). I introduced him to my girlfriend and we started talking, everything was wonderful he was so natural, charming and kind / at that moment I realized that I am in love with him and I want him forever /. And so our first meeting was purely friendly, but much better than I expected, so he was the prince of fairy tales that every girl dreams of! In the evening I shivered waiting to see if he would look for me on Skype and he would do it, I was in seventh heaven / so he still left with a good impression - I thought / We started talking and at one point he told me that it is very liked my girlfriend! I felt so bad that his meeting was with me! However, she does not show any interest in him, she has been engaged for a long time, he still has a girlfriend and says he loves her. And so, day after day, time passed, and I stood in front of the school every morning, waiting for him to pass to see him. We caught our eyes for a few seconds and so on until the evening when we were talking we were talking ..... I was already 100% sure that I loved him! But he has a girlfriend / she is 6 years older than him and according to her she is inferior in their relationship because she has a health problem and cannot satisfy his male needs /! I love him so much, but I still don't have the courage to admit it to him, because he looks at me like a friend, and I myself, a fat woman, would hardly replace me with her! Many times I asked him why he loves her so much, and the answer was always the same, she is a very good and earthly person, just like you. Subsequently, perhaps driven by his male needs, he began to behave differently, he admitted to me that he wanted to be with me because he really wanted to have sex with me. However, he always clarified that there will be no problem to just remain friends after that / I want to clarify it may seem funny, but I'm a virgin /! I always told him that I didn't want to have sex with him, motivated first by the fact that I was a virgin and I was afraid of disappointing him and then by the fact that he had a girlfriend and didn't take me seriously! He asked me if there was anything he didn't know, and I just told him I didn't want to! We still write to each other, and he continues with his hints, but why does he love his girlfriend! I love him and I want our relationship to move to something more rno how to act I do not shoot Help me please give me advice! I am very worried about the fact that I am plump and have no experience, I do not know how to satisfy him, but I want to make him happy to make him forget his girlfriend! How to win his heart I love him what to do? I want to make him love me the same way but how? Please also for advice what to do if it comes to sex? I will wait for your advice! Thanks in advance everyone!
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I don't think this is a real story.
Hello! If you say that you love this boy, you better tell him or hint to him about your feelings, if not personally, then on Skype. Don't have sex with him while he's still with his girlfriend. You say she didn't satisfy him, but he's still with her, so maybe he really has strong feelings for her. And are you sure this is true? If he responds to your feelings - well, and if - not better try to forget him. At 18 years old. you and you are young to become a "mistress", to satisfy him sexually, and for him to return to her. You are about to meet many other boys. And if you really want him to be your first, search the Internet for materials and more details about sexual intercourse and do it, but with the knowledge that sex between you will not be a step towards something more. (And he himself hints that after that you will remain friends) I personally would not be satisfied with this "hammer-hammer" from time to time, because his girlfriend can not. Write again what you decided.
Hello, believe me and I wish I hadn't fallen in love and the story I share with you was made up, but alas it is not !!! With each passing day I fall in love more and more .... Yesterday I decided to be more found with the boy I love during our next conversation on Skype and after another hint of sex on his part, I asked him if he really has a girlfriend, because his behavior towards me is not the behavior of a circumcised and in his words a man in love . His answer was as follows, and he told me, "Look, given that she (his girlfriend) tells me that I wasn't for her, that she was crazy, that I was looking for another girl, that she wasn't jealous of me, that she was used to her." they cheat and I won't upset her if I find another one for you, how would you react if you don't bet on someone else's. After his speech I had only one question for him, namely, is he sure that she loves him because in my opinion this is not the behavior of a woman in love! And he told me that, according to him, she had not yet realized that she loved him! I felt so naughty, I love him so much and I'm ready for anything for him, and he clung to his girlfriend and does not notice my love! I don't know how to show him my love, I'm afraid he'll push me away because I'm plump, and who needed a fat boyfriend! I told him that I would be very happy if there was someone who loved me even half as much as he loves his girlfriend, and he replied that I am a wonderful person and he is sure that I will be much more loved than his girlfriend but for the goal must lose weight! This once again showed me that I mean nothing more than a girlfriend to him and hurt me badly, I know and I do my best to change but it takes time! I don't know what to do, I already love him the way I love him, and he behaves so strangely. Sometimes I feel like he loves me other times he is so cold! Please give me advice what to do to win it? And if he continues with his hints about sex, what should I do to be with him, and how exactly should I give him pleasure because I have no experience and I don't know how to satisfy him? I will wait for your advice, please help me because I LOVE it more than anything! and how exactly to give him pleasure because I have no experience and do not know how to satisfy him? I will wait for your advice, please help me because I LOVE it more than anything! and how exactly to give him pleasure because I have no experience and do not know how to satisfy him? I will wait for your advice, please help me because I LOVE it more than anything!
Please, if anyone has experienced something like this, give me advice! I no longer know what to do and how to behave with a long day, I suffer and suffer more and more, I am already starting to think that there is no point in doing anything! Although I love him and want to be with him, I don't know if he's worth it?
I don't think it's worth loving someone who only wants sex from you.
Go to the gym and evalarka ....
Hello! It is perfectly normal at the age of 18 to be under the influence of such strong emotions. Reading your letters, I am left with the impression that this love is really one-sided. Darling, don't let your first time depersonalize with a person driven by your libido! I fully understand how you feel - almost everyone has been this way. Give yourself some time - do not rush, you can always have sex as friends, but you do not need it. A person as sensitive and vulnerable as you deserves to be at least respected, and in your words I don't think so. Take a step back and if they hold on to you, they will look for you - don't run after him, at the cost of losing him. It is more important for you to get what you need - love. I wish you success with "Mr. Sex Friend".
I am 29 years old. and I have experienced one, two loves and if you ask me I will advise you: if you are sexually attracted, there is a thrill, but have sex with him, regardless of your worries about your lack of experience, that's exactly how experience is gained, do not share with girlfriends for their intentions, and only you and him. This way you will avoid embarrassing situations if something did not work out properly. And then brag, it's not bad. And for your feelings ... maybe then he will become more attached to you, I had a similar relationship with a colleague, only for sex and 7 years. later / now / we have a one and a half year old baby. So nothing is known !!! And maybe you will understand that you don't really love him as much as you thought :), in any case - do it, otherwise there is a danger of regretting your whole life and wondering "What if ..... what would you do? be? ".
Stop calling him for a while, start avoiding him by writing him answer him in one or two words, step back a little. The more you run after him and pay attention to him, the more he pretends to be interesting. Make it a little harder to access. You have already won a number for him. He tells you that you need to lose weight and then you will be loved as much as his girlfriend !!! Don't you have self-esteem? There aren't that many other boys. It is true that first love is important and you will not be able to forget him for a long time, but if he does not change his attitude towards you in a positive direction, why should you torment him? Start dating another boy and watch the reaction of your loved one, how he will react - whether he will be jealous or he will not care.
Hi, I'm the girl who wrote the story. I want to thank everyone for giving me advice. №9 I tried your advice and started dating another boy, and his reaction (to the boy I love) was: ,, find out what exactly he wants from you only sex or something more serious and be very careful because there are all kinds, ,. Then I stopped going out with the other boy just because I didn't like him. I distanced myself from the boy I love for a while, but my feelings for him are still the same. Lately we've been writing to each other again every day and everything was normal until he started giving me sex hints again. I wouldn't even say hints, but in plain text he told me he wanted to have sex. I told him that I was not one of those people who slept with everyone and did it only for sports (especially considering that I am a virgin). He replied: "It will not be for sports, nor are we friends and we will stay that way because you are a good girl and I respect such people." And I'm so confused now that I don't know what to do. Should I be with him or not (even after I am a virgin and I have no experience in how to give him the pleasure he expects, and I am very worried about the fact that I am plump and ashamed)? For God's sake, I love him more than anything, but he's with his girlfriend! What to do? PLEASE HELP ME? that I am plump and ashamed)? For God's sake, I love him more than anything, but he's with his girlfriend! What to do? PLEASE HELP ME? that I am plump and ashamed)? For God's sake, I love him more than anything, but he's with his girlfriend! What to do? PLEASE HELP ME?
Hello darling, if you decide, you can give me your Skype and write to me because I have problems similar to yours, my name is bobby_1000, if you decide, write to me.
Number 11 I found you on Skype and I wrote to you, but obviously we are not online at the same time to catch up! I hope we meet sometime, I will be very happy! Thanks to everyone who commented!
Abe dear kfo you are tied to him ?! If you want to do it with him, however, think very well ... He will be your first and he is not easily forgotten ... Believe me ... However, if you want ... if you are sure that you want him to be the first you just do it, be very careful not to fuck you very badly ... Otherwise, at first all of you write for friends and then fuck you ... So, you decide, however, think carefully about whether he is one of the few different men wanting not only sex but also at least a few feelings ... But in the end the choice is yours, but still think about my words ...
Honey, he doesn't deserve you. If you feel ready enough for sex and just staying that suits you, do it, but don't expect more. It's nice to experience the first time with someone you love, but if it's mutual it's even better. It is clear that he ONLY wants to use you, you can later find someone who will appreciate much more what you will give him and you will be the ONLY one for him. My advice is not to do it, this man is not the last man on earth, and what kind of man is he after being able to tell a girl that she needs to lose weight ?? It is true that love is blind, but this is too obvious !!! Don't deal with such fools!
If the boy is really attracted to you, he will not worry about you being plump. As I read what you have written, I am left with the impression that this boy wants to have sex in general, with which his wife is attached. Because you write to each other, he is emotionally closer to you and you shake his hand when he wants to have sex. no matter how much you're in love, I don't think you should have sex with him. Do it with a man who likes you very much and is in love with you. Then the experience will be really nice, just like the first time.
Honey, I don't think it makes sense to think that much of him. Unfortunately, the person is not honest with you. He treats you well because you do. The facts that he has a girlfriend and is with her, he only wants sex from you and THAT TO LOSE WEIGHT (that is, to change because of him), I think are enough to make you think ... that it's not worth it. Do not deal with him, but find a person who will appreciate you for what you are, will be with you, no matter what and will do everything for you, will you like a plump or not and will be faithful to you and will love you . There is such a person for you, but it is hardly this one. Good luck. ;)
I won't explain myself much. My story is that at my mother's at work, I liked a boy, but I don't know how to take his phone or skype because I'm very shy, and I don't know if he has a girlfriend ... I will feel very embarrassed if I gather courage and ask him for his phone and he didn't cut it when he said he had a girlfriend, how should I do it ...? Give me some advice.
Well, let me just tell you that you have to be scared and tell him what you have to say. Although I did it, it still had no effect on me because it turned out that the boy I like doesn't want a relationship I suffer a lot and what to do
Give me some advice. for 5 months I have been giving birth to a man. (officially married since 31.01.2010). and two days before his wedding he came to tell me in his eyes that he would sign. I knew much earlier than his friend who goes with the sisters ... when he came he gave me one of his pardons until the next time he came, and that was a month later (March) (his friend told me that before he came one or two times a year and since we started talking he has come three times). three days after the wedding he didn't call me ... nor did I call him ... he started calling somewhere on the fourth day and continued, but I didn't answer his text messages and calls for nine days, but in the end I couldn't stand it. And when we heard each other, I told him that it was best for everything between us to end, but he told me that even if everything between us ended, he would not stop tarsing me ... I DON'T WANT THIS TO END BETWEEN US, IT SEEMS TO ME SO REALLY ... SO HE'S 26 YEARS OLD. AND HE WRITES TO ME AND CALLS ALMOST EVERY DAY TO ME WHERE I AM 16 YEARS OLD. PICKLA ... AND DURING THESE FIVE MONTHS HE HAS INVENTED ME ONLY THREE TIMES FOR SEX ... HE WRITES ME GREAT SMS (HE SENDS ME NAMES OF SONGS (WITH WHICH HE SAYS THAT HE IS SENDING ME). ... I THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH HIM ... I WANT TO BE ALONE WITH HIM, BUT I'M AFRAID OF THE MOMENT WHEN I WILL HAVE TO SLEEP WITH HIM (BECAUSE I KNOW 4E SEX IS IMPORTANT FOR ME). IT'S A LOT OF BURNER ... BUT HE NEVER TOLD ME ANYTHING ABOUT THIS, NOR HIM, EVEN AGAINST THE COUNTED TIMES IN WHICH WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER, I HAVE BEEN MADE TO ME. THERE IS A GIRL WHEN HE CAME HERE ... ON THE OTHER SIDE, IT SEEMS SO HONEST THAT HE EVEN EVEN IN LOVE ... ON VALENTINE'S DAY HE WROTE AN SMS WHICH STARTED WITH I MISS YOU! I WANT TO SEE YOU SOON! ETC .... AND AS MUCH AS TO HAVE SEX, I WANT TO DO IT WITH HIM (OTHERWISE I AM A VIRGIN), BUT I AM ASHAMED OF MY BODY, AND AS MUCH AS I EXPERIENCE, I READ IT TO ME ... I have placed before a big question 'TO BE THERE (16D.) LUBOVNITSA OF MAZH that is so far away from me, and which in fact you can not give me nothing but secondly and small moments .. "Otherwise, he STILL SEARCH mE ... IF HE DIDN'T PICK UP HIS BODY, HE WRITES HIMSELF ... HE WALKED IN EXPECTATION TO SHOCK ME AGAIN AND AGAIN, HE FEELS CALM WHEN I HEAR HIS VOICE AND SECURITY WHEN
My problem is much bigger than yours, I'm really so confused. I'm 20 and I met a guy from the internet that was a year ago. we wrote to each other on skype, we exchanged phones, then we decided to see each other, I hadn't dated strangers like that, but I decided there was something we had in common, he was from a mixed marriage, his mother is a foreigner. I was recently in Bulgaria, I didn't have many friends. I remember the first meeting he wore a white rose after a while and painted me and so I felt nothing for him. we rarely saw each other just when I started to feel something he said that in a few months a soldier would go we started seeing each other quite often we started to fall in love but we remained just friends. but I don't know exactly what he wants we hug him all the time, I know he wants to kiss me ... but looking at some pictures I see how he hugs and others how to find out exactly what he wants there is nothing clear between us whether we will remain just friends but I love him very please give me advice. darling I will advise you do not agree if you have a girlfriend you do not deserve to talk to him and tell him that you are not ready to become a mistress of anyone see what he will tell you and write.