Hello, I am 26 years old and I have been having sex with a boy for several months. He is a very good lover and gives me supreme pleasure, and I would like sex with me to be supreme pleasure for him as well. The problem is that I'm still ashamed of him and I can't relax completely. I know he'd like me to talk dirty or other things like that to him, but I'm ashamed and I don't know exactly what to tell him. Some man tell me what words arouse or what they would like to hear during sex - I do not know any such things tell me. What else can an edge woman do to satisfy her partner 100 percent - I exclude anal sex, because this thing repulses me personally, although I know that it is a great pleasure for men. Thanks, I'm waiting for advice :)
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Not the words but the actions are important in this case - the only thing you need to do is to realize his fantasies, but before that you need to understand them specifically what they are by making him share them with you! You will have to change your mind about anal sex because it is part of the fantasies of millions of men and if you really want your partner to be 100 percent satisfied you should not turn off this sexual technique - I assure you that after doing it you will rediscover something new and exciting for yourself! The most important thing is to be active in sex and to offer variety in your behavior by changing techniques and postures!
Wake him with a whistle.
But what is this simplicity with the filth. It sounds hellishly stupid to me personally, out of place, etc. Tell me now where did you mention that you don't give him the necessary pleasure ......? For anal sex is a matter of culture ...................... take some care of the issue if you know what I'm talking about and then try it. Nobody tells you to start after you've been hired like pigs on a whim.
I have the same problem as you, girl, I can't help you. I think only men or women who are more experienced can do that.
Just ask him what filth to tell him. And don't be ashamed, tell him. All men like different things. Watch a porn movie in private and surprise him with what you see and hear. He will like it one hundred percent. And anal sex is supreme for both, read more on the subject. And it's not a shame if you love each other. Men also love oral sex - they would do it for hours if they could. But here the woman works, and they just grunt contentedly / excluding the shameful posture 69 /, which is the top. Have you tried it? If you don't try, there is as much information on the Internet as you want. And find out what underwear he likes. Get dressed. I had a friend - horror, he seemed crazy - he loved me with thongs for 2 leva and to break them. And I hate thongs and buy just in case. It drove him crazy. Success! I am a woman with experience. Middle aged. And men like me a lot. When will I stop going crazy? I guess never!
Give him a deep, wet whistle until your tears.
Tell him you're ashamed or just tell him something sexy like this: come on, I want more.
I'm a girl with a lot of experience and I don't think there's a good way to drive your boyfriend crazy with a whistle, but it's well done. Swallow it whole, don't leave it dry, be very careful with your teeth and don't stop until it's over. Good luck;)
Make him French love.
Dear girl, just relax and be yourself ..... I know that we women carry inside us ..... passion ..... love ..... just show it to him ... be free ... and it will work;)
I have almost the same problem, but I can't swallow it all: D my mouth is small for his big one ... If you want to drive him crazy to find out if he has feelings for you, first give him the maximum pleasure to feel obliged to give it back to you, hover around it with a lot of passion love prove it to him ... and so on!
Liberation, openness in communication and sex :) the more the better, this is my recipe
Dear girl, A family "daddy" writes to you. First learn to talk to your friend then everything will fall into place! I can share life experiences with each of you, but know that the most important thing is the trust between the partners, if there is trust and communication, you will not ask people how to satisfy him and you will ask him, this is a sign of respect and devotion! Good luck to both of you!
Almost everything they have written so far is true and I agree with most things ... anal sex can be extremely enjoyable if your partner knows how to do it, but in many cases does not know how. I have just such a problem or he doesn't know or he doesn't want to do it right, I can't figure out exactly where the problem is, but I try to show him how nice it is for it to happen so that I can enjoy it too. For the whistles - the fact that it was too big for her mouth is present in almost everyone, yet your mouth is a certain size, approximately the same for everyone, while there the differences are serious sometimes ... but you can always use your tongue and lick everywhere his penis so that it moistens, arouses and yet you can use your hand to help it be like an extension of the mouth ...
It is best for the author to write what she has learned in these 4 years, but she is unlikely to return here. Let me give a hint to the last curious author: make pelvic movements while you are inside, when you feel good, moan loudly, shout / quietly / - "yes - yes ..." Step back discreetly when you are uncomfortable and adjust it when you want it. Ride him gently, push him and go ... now is the time to do it exactly as you like the most ... And now if he doesn't understand - it's just a hopeless case!
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I can give you an example of what to tell him during sex. It may sound very banal and unreal, but men subconsciously get even more aroused and start wanting to return the gesture. If you compose sentences like "Oh yes, I like it", "I want to feel you inside me", "I like how wooden you are", "Deeper .." (and if some dirty phrase is said very quiet in his ear in a place with a lot of people ...) ... and when you reach the big and expected orgasm just warn him that you are cumming to try a little more. So you and he will be happy
Men give their lives for anal sex, find out. And those of them who have already tried it are dying even more. If they do it with their girlfriend / wife - they become very attached to her. This is a strange consequence, perhaps, but many men have told me, even one convinced me that as if he had fallen in love with his wife again, the feeling was incredible. I'm just saying an opinion, you judge. Don't do anything by force, it won't be worth it. But at least think about it.
Until №20 - well to tell you the truth I wouldn't give my life for anal sex. I didn't just fuck my wife anal, and I can't say she's the tip of the ice cream. Yes, it's cool, it's different, but that's all. While a long, slow, arousal, talking dirty, touching, licking, and then fucking until they are done at the same time I like it much more. But, as they say, all kinds of people, all kinds of tastes :)