I am a 34 year old man and all my friends make fun of me for having only girls. So far I have four daughters - yes, there are many, but my wife and I thought and at least so we hoped that the next one would be a boy and so far nothing. Everyone tells me I'm not a man and they call me a woman. Now my wife is pregnant again, and if that doesn't happen, boy, I'm going to sink to the ground in shame. In this baby is my hope, because it will be the last we have no opportunity to support this large family. Tell me, do you think I have a problem that I only do girls. Please write.
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Don't pay attention to your friends. You are a happy father of four girls. Take it on the good side after a year, they will move out and you and your wife will have great and passionate years. For a boy, I could give you advice before you do. :) I will keep my fingers crossed that in a month's time you will say what you saw on the video zone and I hope there will be a churka. Love your wife and daughters, respect them no matter what happens. And remember that you are a 100% man and do not pay attention to complex selanduri, who think that having 1 boy and are number 1.
Yes, you have a problem, and a serious one - in your head. How can you have so many children for the sole purpose of having a son? And I don't understand what this woman is, who gets on your mind ... If it weren't for your chocolate eggs - "Give her one more, let's see what will happen this time" ... I have no words ... While you do not accept and love your daughters even though they are girls, you will not be a real man and father.
Ha ha ha my husband and I have 3 boys. We want a girl, but no. Who doesn't want that. Love them and whatever :)
To number 2 sorry, but I was offended. I love and appreciate my daughters very much. When each of them appeared, I felt very happy and I would never regret having them. And for the boy to want to have a son, every man wants to have a descendant after him, to continue the family, but whatever God gave. Please, let's see that even if she is a girl again, I will not regret it and I will love her as much as the others. And for my friends, I don't pay attention to them, as number 1 said.
Ha, fiction ...
Number 2 said it most accurately! You have a problem, but it's not in your pants - you can be sure of that! To people like you - castration! Poor children ...
Everyone made fun of him for having four daughters ... what does gender matter? And the fact that they make fun of you and call you a woman is absolute stupidity ... If your children are alive and well, the rest is irrelevant!
Wow, where do you live? How will you be ridiculed for having girls? I can't imagine my father being ashamed of me and my sister because we are girls, he is proud of us. In my environment I have not heard a man mocked for such a thing. You sound like you live in a Muslim village where people have a very low intellectual level. You have the right babies and it depends on the chromosomes. Everyone has a path in life and it has fallen to you to have girls, love them and be proud of them and most importantly, raise them well.
Sorry author, but procreation does not depend on the sex of the child. You really live with archaic thoughts! Tell yourself that one day you want your last name to continue. This is completely different, and a complete obsolescence!
Having children is great and their gender doesn't matter at all. Man, think about it, how many people can't have any children? !! Watch your family and your friends joke as much as they want!
Author, your friends are complete idiots! And why do you bond with them and think that only a boy would continue the family ?? Aren't girls your blood and don't they carry your genes? Complete simplicity! My father at the time had 1 friend like you who had 4 daughters hoping for a boy but stayed with the daughters. Then he died and left his wife to fend for herself. I don't know how she looked at them. But that was 40 years ago, and I have no words for you to think so now.
In a house where there is a real man - God does not send second !!!
If the story is true and you think that way, and your friends really make fun of you like that, then the only possibility is to live in a remote Pomak village .. Otherwise I don't know ...: ///
Why are you attacking the man? You must have been from somewhere, etc ... stop talking nonsense. The man has never said that he is ashamed or does not love his daughters, on the contrary he certainly loves them. He simply says that he is annoyed by his friends, who have nothing else to joke about, and call him a woman because fate has given him 4 daughters. It doesn't matter what age we are, nor are we talking about archaic thoughts. Every man wants to have a boy. This is how the male psyche is structured. It's not about someone continuing a family or a name. In general, men want boys to have someone to go fishing with, someone to kick a ball with, and so on. The fact that fate has given you 4 girls does not mean that you, the author, have a health or some problem. Rejoice in them and love them. And tell your friends that they are females. Chances are you'll have an author girl again, after 4 girls .. But do you know what fate has decided? The important thing is to be happy together and to have all your children alive and well. Everything else is irrelevant. If not you, one day, life and health, your daughters will give you grandchildren, boys, you will take them for fish, etc. So live your life and enjoy your children. All the best. Greetings Sam21.
Author, each of your children will be your heir .. each of your daughters will carry a piece of you and your wife .. this is the real meaning, not whether it is a boy or a girl.
I would advise you to think about what your friends and your environment really are when they make fun of you for such a thing. Maybe you should just target people who are more modern-minded and more open to the world?
Number 1 how do you make a boy? Give advice ..
Hello Friend!!! I will call you that! Enjoy your children and pay no attention to anyone at all! God has destined you to have such a wonderful thing next to you, the woman and 4 gorgeous girls !!! This is a female kingdom in which you are the king! May they be alive and healthy. I wish you the next boy, but even if he is not, be proud of them! You are the happiest dad to know this! You are a real man Good luck and share what happened! From Rado !!!
Hello, I want to thank everyone who paid attention to my story. It has been 5 months since her publication. I want to share my joy with you because we are expecting boys. Yes twins, even I couldn't believe it when I learned. Our family will grow with two more children. My daughters are also looking forward to their brothers. There are two months left, but it seems like two years to me. I'm going crazy with joy. from the author
You see, it was worth the wait ... I don't know how you will cope with 6 children, but to be alive and healthy.
It seems very fictional to me! I don't believe this story :)
Dude, fuck the opinion of others! You have 4 daughters that you love and take care of. That's enough pay for you. The happiness that the family brings is unique, so a boy or a girl does not matter. Good luck :) ProcK
Hahaha, I am very happy for you, it is difficult to raise so many children in this crisis, but to be alive and healthy, let everything be fine. Macaw
watch the movie Henry VIII;)
Wow, how to look after four children (girls or boys), you have to be a big businessman to help them with money.
And it seems more fictional to me ...
When you are born to write: R
I don't know why, but I would be very happy if I had a boy when he grew up, of course. Since I was little, I wanted to have two twin boys. To be alive and healthy as they fall. The important thing is to grow it properly. On the one hand, I understand you, but on the other hand, I don't understand why you want this boy, do you? Is it because of your "friends"? I don't know ... not to say that when a man has more girls, he should be mocked. My grandmother used to tell me when she was little how many children they had in a family. There were some who had 12 children and only 4 of them were boys. Then what did their father have to say. What I personally still don't believe was that they had 24 children in a family, like 13 boys and 11 girls. :))
Well, Matt Damon, look at him - he has 4 girls, and he's neither angry nor trying to "revenge", he's just living his life like a normal person.
I want my first child to be a girl and I will be the proudest and happiest father in the world, I envy you, you don't understand what wealth you have that many other people don't have, give me the girls you don't want, are you curled up? I will love them and enjoy them much more than you!
This is not a concert of your choice, whatever comes out, when you have decided to become a parent, you must assume that it is possible to give birth to only girls or only boys.
I always wanted to have a boy and God helped me! Now I want to have a second child and it will also be a boy ...
I only have boys. I am ready to help as much as I can ;-)