Hello! I am writing to you because I am already very desperate. I will try to tell you my story briefly and ask you to give me advice. I had a relationship with an amazing person. We lived together and everything was like a fairy tale. We hardly fought, and our friends kept telling us how they wanted to be like us. And so everything was perfect until one day he said he wanted us to break up. He refused to explain why. He told me he loved me, he said he missed me, but he wanted to be alone. After 3 months he had become a drug addict, and I had collapsed from grief over him. I had done a lot of things in defiance of him, so that he and I would suffer, and he slept with all sorts of things ... but he didn't commit to them. And one night I went out for coffee with a close friend of his, and he told me everything: what his other friends had said about me and why he had actually ended it. I couldn't believe it - someone had told him that I had cheated on him. Something I would never do - he treated me like a princess. Tell me what to do. Should I talk to him, explain the truth to him and on the other hand ... isn't it better to keep quiet? And will he listen to me at all ...? Help! P. P- is going abroad soon and I don't have much time to think!
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Run, run, run !!!!
Look ahead. What do you expect from a person who leaves without a drop of explanation.
It's best to get away. Even if things get better, he's a drug addict and who knows what he can do to you. I think it's best not to bother.
If you want to go to the moon, you CANNOT escape from yourself and your problems! Tomorrow, when your child falls ill, God forbid from some incurable disease, what - "Run!"? Another to take his car ... that's the easiest way ... Girl, don't listen to them - of course you'll talk to the boy a few times if he has to until he understands you (correctly), because the truth is on your side, and your feelings are still alive ...
I don't think it's worth going to him.
You must talk and clarify things before it is too late. If you don't do it now, then you will suffer even more. If I had ever spoken, things would be very different now. Wherever you go, you can't run away from problems and yourself. Do what needs to happen, what will happen.
Don't run, darling, don't! The one who heard about you must have been some huge complex that envied you a lot. There are always such people, unfortunately, they do everything possible to ruin the happiness of others :( If you do nothing, he will think that you are afraid, ie that you really cheated on him and you can not look him in the eye. And you You're innocent, so prove it to him! Talk to him nicely, explain everything to him, tell him how you feel - how you would cheat on him after he was nice to you. Still, he can't read minds, a little you have to help him. Try not to miss him - the soulmate is rare! I'm sure you will overcome this. SUCCESS DEAR, I KNOW THAT YOU CAN !! :))
talk to him, it can't get any worse, at most he won't believe you. you lose nothing if you explain it to him, so at least try. another question is how much he trusted you, that he directly trusted other people and broke up without even talking to you and checking the information. this does not speak well of him or the relationship between you. you don't write how old you are, but once you've lived together, you're obviously old enough to be mature enough. anyway, try to talk to him, you lose nothing. Success! F42
I don't think you need to nurture your feelings for this boy, but it's nice to talk, at least to know the truth.
He did you a favor. With such a bad start to the relationship, who would push into it at all to continue it !? Pass by, wave and don't care. What is a drug addict or a person who dumps you without giving you an explanation and even less a person who is influenced by the words of others. Don't put it on too much and look around - there are a lot of cooler men around by chance.
You don't need someone who doesn't even explain why you're leaving. Who knows what his friends will tell him tomorrow? Obviously, they mean a lot more to him than you do. What else do you need to make a decision? Run!
It's not worth bothering with. After believing unreservedly at the first sulo who told him you were cheating on him, then this man is not for you. He doesn't trust you and doesn't have the courage to stand up to you, tell you "I was told that ... Is it true?" And then hear an explanation. Keep going. you will meet another. F27
Talk to him, try it! Because you will never forgive yourself if you at least don't try ... Yes, it's really not good that he easily believed other people, instead of talking to you first and trusting you more. On the other hand - who would not react sharply even to hearing. I am distrustful and would react in a similar way. Sometimes we think that things are the same and we sink ourselves, dramatizing. You can always try, I hope he understands you and it's not too late! Success!
Talk and clarify things. Help him stop the drugs.
I don't think you should look back. If he believed the stories of various people without even trying to talk to you, then there is no point in regretting what happened. And the fact that a drug addict is super repulsive left him to break his head in the company of the people for whom he cut you off. He seeks happiness, not sorrow and problems with such an individual.