Hello, a 20-year-old boy writes to you. I first tried weed when I was 15-16, but I started smoking seriously when I was 17. By serious, I mean that I have rarely smoked for more than 2-3 days. I graduated from a language school where a lot of weed was smoked. From the morning we gathered 5-10 people and got drunk on the chat, then the big break, then after the teacher. It was fun ... when you see so many nerds around you, you start to take it for granted. During the holidays I went too far. I got up in the morning, took a shower, ate something and immediately went out to get drunk with my friends (until the evening, great tables and beers). I also often bought grass for home. I really enjoyed smoking on my own, because that's how I relaxed the best, I was left alone with my thoughts, I played good music, I watched movies, I read books intoxicated, everything looked more interesting, the food was tastier, who will understand me ... it's cool, but at one time I got tired of smoking alone and I started to do it rarely, and the feeling emptying the fridge for one night is not the most pleasant: D The grass has never bothered me so much to study. I took my graduation exams with 5 and 6, I was accepted to university at first sight, but I began to realize that I had changed a lot and became a different person ... before I was cheerful, energetic, people around me were always happy because I always I found something to entertain them with, but not now ... I became super boring, somewhat antisocial, and before I was very sociable, I was constantly meeting new people, I had boyfriends, every day was different from the previous one, and now what? I go out with the same people, we do the same thing every day - cycling on benches, cars or apartments. If I stop the grass, more or less, I will return to my old way of life, I will be fresher, I will not be such an uncommunicative move. I will start to be less lazy and more productive. I'm sure of it because I haven't smoked in a week and I immediately started to feel the change - I laugh more often, I have new ideas, I go out with friends I haven't seen in a long time. I had forgotten what it was like to just go for a coffee or a walk without getting drunk. In addition, my passion for a hobby I had years ago began to return. Everything looks very nice, but the truth is that at times I feel very depressed because I want to get very drunk. I know that the addiction to weed is only mental, but even that is enough ... I can no longer imagine going to the mountains with friends, for example, sitting on a nice meadow and just talking without squeezing a bag. The feeling of watching the mountains and admiring the beauty of our homeland when you are intoxicated is unique! I will miss this very much ... and not only that, I am used to associating every good thing with smoking weed :( I would be happy if someone who smoked for a long time and then stopped, tells me how long I will need it until the moment comes when I will stop taking the herb in this way and think about it constantly? I guess it's up to the person, but how long does this abstinence (if I may call it that) last? The grass is not just an herb and for some people it is very difficult to stop. What would you advise me? How can I survive without it? I don't want to stop for the rest of my life, but I don't want my youth to be surrounded by monotony, so I plan not to smoke, at least for the near future. I also think that I don't need to look for new friends, this is for people who are on heavier drugs ... and nowadays it is rare to find someone who doesn't smoke.
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You have started to think well, grass is an herb only in a medical setting. And how many people smoke it in one? . They smoke it for fun and escape from the gray and stressful everyday life. Do you know what weed and alcohol have in common? Both have a bad effect on the brain. He doesn't smoke at all and finds a hobby.
I don't want to stop for the rest of my life ... This desire / thought must change it, if you want to change your way of life, to stop with Maria, with the thought for a short time, it will not happen. Start from there first!
The best thing that can happen to you is to never smoke. It will get better over time. Just as you stopped for good, stop here and end, do not wait to stop for health or to solve it from the hospital. The question of how you would survive would be more adequate if it was a question of chopping wood. Forget about making the naughty drunk. At first you will be very naughty, because of the habit, but in the moments when you smoked ja before, now you have found some useful activity - sports, reading, help in the house, meeting with acquaintances. And walking in nature without ja is not a scary thing at all. You will only realize the benefits of a healthy body and a sober mind. Just give up the grass. Understand that you can't smoke because it's bad for your health and makes your mind blur. The worst thing is that he lies to you, that he gives you something. That's when you understand it, then that will be the answer to the question. Life normal, serious, not combined with drugs. Keep healthy! You will have more friends, more money. And just as you realize after a while to pull again, as a person has not smoked for a long time, so your heart will break and you will feel so disgusting, paranoia and trembling that there is no writer to describe it to you. The grass takes, the grass does not give. I tell you from my experience. Started at 15, finished at 22.
What you're talking about, in addition to being very harmful ... has cost you dearly. And now I will give you a good idea. I see that to some extent you have realized. Instead of investing money in sports, a certain food that you combine with your training, you get poisoned and for what. In time, you will have nothing left of the grass. And if you start making a body (it's quite clichéd and worn out) it will be much better, because it stays for a lifetime. YES .. for LIFE !!! Because once a muscle is developed, it never disappears. FALLS ... falls ... but does not disappear .. and in a few months with training returns again :). I give you these clichéd things as an example, because I do that and I feel very good. I am happy and I am not complexed by anything. I wish you to get rid of this evil. You don't need an author :).
"... and even nowadays it is rare to find someone who does not smoke." You are so deluded, my boy. When you run out of money that your stupid parents give you, you will see how quickly you will stop smoking.
I was the same, I smoked from 9th and 10th grade from time to time, from 11th grade hard every day, the same addictive class :). After I went to university, I started having your problems. It was a matter of unfamiliarity to my colleagues, and some of them did not look kindly at all. Not only my colleagues, but other people, even if they didn't know, seemed not to be so close and friendly with me. Somehow it seemed to me, I was maybe weirder. And so I got together and went out in all my free time with the old friends to get drunk. Like you, I wondered how I would have fun without getting drunk. This started to tire me and at the age of 21 to 23 I stopped at once and totally for 2 years. Then when I lit up after 2 years it was nice again, but it did not captivate me as before. I had found interesting and fun things in life that I didn't seem to have guessed. Now I have 3 activities / hobbies, which are my favorites and have nothing to do with a goat. And so for 6 years I have been smoking from time to time, mostly on weekends if I have any at home, it has not happened to me to break more than 2 consecutive days for these years :), and sometimes 2-3 months pass. without remembering. So I can advise you from my experience - a long break half a year or more. The grass is not bad as a spice to life, not mandatory - who does not want to not smoke. But when everything starts to revolve around her, at one point he becomes a dumb man. Good luck, you haven't fucked up forever :) PS - and it's very funny people who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than me at the moment. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work mostly on weekends, if I have one at all, it has never happened to me to break more than 2 consecutive days for these years :), and sometimes 2-3 months pass without remembering. So I can advise you from my experience - a long break half a year or more. The grass is not bad as a spice to life, not mandatory - who does not want to not smoke. But when everything starts to revolve around her, at one point he becomes a dumb man. Good luck, you haven't fucked up forever :) PS - and it's very funny people who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than me at the moment. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work mostly on weekends, if I have one at all, it has never happened to me to break more than 2 consecutive days for these years :), and sometimes 2-3 months pass without remembering. So I can advise you from my experience - a long break half a year or more. The grass is not bad as a spice to life, not mandatory - who does not want to not smoke. But when everything starts to revolve around her, at one point he becomes a dumb man. Good luck, you haven't fucked up forever :) PS - and it's very funny people who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than me at the moment. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work So I can advise you from my experience - a long break half a year or more. The grass is not bad as a spice to life, not mandatory - who does not want to not smoke. But when everything starts to revolve around her, at one point he becomes a dumb man. Good luck, you haven't fucked up forever :) PS - and it's very funny people who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than me at the moment. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work So I can advise you from my experience - a long break half a year or more. The grass is not bad as a spice to life, not mandatory - who does not want to not smoke. But when everything starts to revolve around her, at one point he becomes a dumb man. Good luck, you haven't fucked up forever :) PS - and it's very funny people who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than me at the moment. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than I do now. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work who used to smoke less than me now smoke more often than I do now. It is their obligation to take 0.5-1g every week. Fun work
you know I'm 20 soon 21 times like you .. for smoking and I missed 14-15 and since then it has always been a mess ... for stopping it all depends on you find something that will displace it from your thoughts something that you makes it REALLY happy, not the familiar way. If you succeed you will forget her.
From the author: 1., and I am of the opinion that in a medical setting is an herb that has very good healing properties and could replace many drugs that have bad side effects or are harmful to health :) 2., saying this , I do not mean that I want to stop for 1-2 months and start again. Rather, years later, when I'm a big person, I may have nerve problems, anything happens ... then I'd rather smoke weed than stuff myself with sedatives, which are much more dangerous and addictive. 3. Thank you, a lot of useful advice :) 4. This is exactly what I will do - good food and great workouts! 5., I don't know if I'm deluded, but in my city it's true ... in almost every park there are young people who smoke, if you run out of paper and have nothing to shrink with, it may not be the second, but the third person whom you ask will have and will give you. And my "stupid" parents stopped giving me money and I smoked again. Many people already look after their own grass, including my acquaintances, who will always give it to me for free if I ask them. 6., it really is that people who smoke are more or less visible and different. Thanks for the advice :) 7., I've already started to do different things, I'm more or less happy and I'm slowly forgetting :) For now everything is fine, I hope it will be the same in the future. Thanks again to everyone who got involved in the topic! I have already started to do different things, I am more or less happy and I am slowly forgetting :) For now everything is fine, I hope it will be the same in the future. Thanks again to everyone who got involved in the topic! I have already started to do different things, I am more or less happy and I am slowly forgetting :) For now everything is fine, I hope it will be the same in the future. Thanks again to everyone who got involved in the topic!
which is your city according to the description I learn that it is somewhere around the mountain most likely the Rhodopes and I learn that you are a person underweight for example 175 and 60 kilos are you right to answer future readers
Alcohol and weed are harmful to human health. The first leads to fatal consequences, and the second confuses your whole worldview, even paranoia can develop. It is sad that there are so many weak-willed people in Bulgaria.
I smoked for 7 years, every day! Stopping is difficult, I honestly admit I did it with alcohol. But now I can't stop drinking, I don't want to be misunderstood, I don't drink all day, I just drink 100 grams of hard alcohol in the evening to relieve the tension. Before, the weed used to be alcohol, but I haven't smoked weed for 5 years.
From the author: 10., I guessed about the city ... it is close to the Rhodopes, but it is not in the mountains - Plovdiv is my city. And for my weight and height it is very strange how you have such assumptions haha 1. I am 85 and I am 78-80 kg ... I am big and I do not have a vision of a person who uses something, if that is why you are interested in my structure. To everyone: I'm really weak because I didn't last long without weed, but I smoke a lot less, I hardly drink, I train and eat healthy, which doesn't change the fact that I have a problem and that's why my advice to teenagers is not to be draw conclusions about marijuana from the articles where it says that it helps sick people, that it had so many useful properties, also do not rest assured that there are more harmful things, because you have nothing! There is no reason to smoke ... nor do you lead a busy life, nor are you sick (for which you should be very grateful) and the fact that you are somewhere in the neighborhood and there is nothing to do is not an excuse that you are drunk ... because I also believed that I am not doing something who knows how bad and I wasn't worried about the consequences, but I had already grown up and started thinking about a lot of things, and honestly, if I hadn't become an addict, I would be a much more developed person right now. Think!
I will not give final advice. Marijuana is not harmless, and if you overdo it with smoking for years, you will regret it. But there is a way to live fully with her and I stand behind the opinion that life with her is more colorful. Yes, it is important to have a hobby, but a hobby is not a substitute. Grass can help your hobby, especially if it is related to art. In terms of price, cigarettes are also very expensive for smokers, but that doesn't stop them from paying for them. There are also cheap ways to get weed. It's not that hard to control yourself. Weed is the perfect thing to train your will, because it's not easy to stop (especially if you've smoked a lot), but it's easier than cigarettes. The people who give the final answers are fanatics. From weed to heroin there is a distance from here to America. It's perfectly normal to stop her for a while, if there is no reason to stop it forever. Honestly, I don't find such a reason.
From 16 I, for example, take a two-month break for each month I smoke. A person who is addicted could not do it. Up to 11 The grass can only temporarily make you think differently. This could be very useful, especially if you are involved in art or innovation and need a different perspective. But if your very perception of the world changes based on its influence, it probably wasn't very valuable. When your worldview is based on knowledge and science and there is something to support it, it will not be destroyed so easily. But if it is based on personal and emotional decisions, it would be normal to see your stupidity through your new perspective. The grass is not for everyone. And I admit that many people use it without caution, but you should not draw general and fanatical conclusions in this way.
"If I hadn't become an addict, I would be a much more developed person right now." You can't be sure. All these "What if" thoughts are meaningless, because you can't be sure what it would be, no matter how much you speculate. Anything could. You could become a drunkard, for example. Or get depressed. Do not know. You have decided to blame the grass for your poor performance in life, ok. But in my personal experience, every time I blame something for my failures, it's just a way to justify myself and the people around me. The trick is not to hate something without a rational reason, but to really follow your goal and not lose sight of it. If the grass bothers you, stop it. However, it helps many people. Once you stop it for a few months, monitor your motivation and determination. If all these were excuses, then you will remain unmotivated. Then, perhaps, you will be convinced that marijuana has done you lasting harm. Excuses ... If so, just get on with what you're doing, observe what's helping and what's bothering you, and sift through. If you are already convinced that the grass is hurting you, then most likely it will be so. Everything is on a mental basis. But he draws his own conclusions. Don't let people's beliefs guide you.
P.S. In fact, it is quite possible that marijuana has caused you some lasting harm if you have not taken a break. In that case, drink magnesium that the grass wastes; keep playing sports; do breathing exercises if you are driven by stress; yoga; do not be idle and communicate. Don't blame the grass, though. It's your fault you're overdoing it. I personally find it useful, so I set boundaries so that I don't have to suffer. Dancing with marijuana is dangerous. Using it is like a contract with the devil, so it's good to read your contract well.
How can you smoke this nonsense .. The grass stinks of sweat and dried urine at the same time. No wonder people avoid you.
# 20 Quite an extreme statement. The grass stinks of grass. Literally. What he described sounds more like valerian. You don't have to stink of weed if you smoke. This only happens if you smoke indoors. But I prefer the smell of weed to cigarettes, and people smoke and stink of cigarettes en masse. Disgust!
You're wrong about this for friends - that's what you have to do. You need to find new friends. To stop the weed, you have to stop moving with people who smoke. Otherwise you will not succeed. Stop for a long time, a very long time, replace it with something else like a sport, for example, by long I mean at least a year or two. If you don't want that much, try it for at least half a year. Then decide for yourself how and how much to smoke.
I have also been smoking weed for a long time, probably at least 10 years or more! I usually try to stop it for years but I still fail, and it exhausts me. I took breaks myself, but again the harmful and maybe just habit deceives you that when you pull things will be a little more interesting and it will lead to overeating and laziness! you just always get caught up in "pulling" and feeling the effect of the other point of view to think and be interesting. but that's the good part. then you become slow and careless from overeating and so on until the next time. You say to yourself, I don't want to feel like that anymore, this feeling prevents me from being productive and TV is lazy about everything, but the next day you are so cheerful and fresh and again some TV asks if we smoke and you go again. as if you are always impressed by this number and in fact it is not worth that much, the habit prevails this is a learned behavior. If you stop smoking, your energy will be restored, you will forget how fresh it is to feel normal and healthy. but you keep yelling at yourself like a draped maya is going to get better. if a person can smoke from time to time he will be fine but it's hard not to miss the feeling of being intoxicated. it's like I don't always know how to deceive this magic. I think you really should be among people who don't smoke. if it didn't have the effect of hunger and marzell, maybe it wouldn't bother me, it would be bass anchored, but these side effects spoil the character and development of the user. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest many things. is ultimately the grass gives a magical cleanse but leaves you without energy. you become a passive addict but you keep yelling at yourself like a draped maya is going to get better. if a person can smoke from time to time he will be fine but it's hard not to miss the feeling of being intoxicated. it's like I don't always know how to deceive this magic. I think you really should be among people who don't smoke. if it didn't have the effect of hunger and marzell, maybe it wouldn't bother me, it would be bass anchored, but these side effects spoil the character and development of the user. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest many things. After all, the grass gives a magical cleanse but leaves you without energy. you become a passive addict but you keep yelling at yourself like a draped maya is going to get better. if you can smoke from time to time you will be fine but it's hard not to miss the feeling of being drunk. it's like I don't always know how to deceive this magic. I think you really should be among people who don't smoke. if it didn't have the effect of hunger and marzell, maybe it wouldn't bother me, it would be bass anchored, but these side effects spoil the character and development of the user. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest many things. is ultimately the grass gives a magical cleanse but leaves you without energy. you become a passive addict if it didn't have the effect of hunger and marzell, maybe it wouldn't bother me, it would be bass anchored, but these side effects spoil the character and development of the user. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest many things. is ultimately the grass gives a magical cleanse but leaves you without energy. you become a passive addict if it didn't have the effect of hunger and marzell, maybe it wouldn't bother me, it would be bass anchored, but these side effects spoil the character and development of the user. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest many things. is ultimately the grass gives a magical cleanse but leaves you without energy. you become a passive addict
23, That's why you smoke once a day at 4:20- After work. Because it's time to rest. There are 3 types of grass. Sativa, indica and hybrids. The turkey leaves you without energy. Apparently you smoked that. Sativa does not take away your energy, but if you smoke the grass where the dealers scatter it, it may be from it. Play sports. Even if you smoke indica, if you exercise, you will not lose so much energy. "The effect spoils the character and development of the consumer. Personally, I think that if I have more energy I will digest a lot of things." You can not draw such a broad conclusion. For example, I am lazy much more while I am sober. As a child, I was bullied at school. I was beaten and I was one of those outsiders who didn't have a friend. Well, at least I had one. That's why I was depressed. Extremely unmotivated and full of dreams at the same time. Quite a strange and unpleasant feeling. I smoked for the first time when I was 20 years old. Since then I have lost weight, found a job and now I am starting my own business. I don't stop smoking. I bought an evaporator, because the Saxons are both very harmful to the lungs and waste the grass. I work non-stop and I feel great. My conclusion is that it depends on the person. How long can you stop her? How long have your vacations been? Try to refuse them if you really think you don't want to. I have stopped it twice in my life. For one year. I also ended a lot of friendships because of that. After all, I don't think it made sense to stop her now. I just wanted to see if I could live without it. Yes I can. I can also become vegan. But why do it? as Saxons are both very harmful to the lungs and a waste of grass. I work non-stop and I feel great. My conclusion is that it depends on the person. How long can you stop her? How long have your vacations been? Try to refuse them if you really think you don't want to. I have stopped it twice in my life. For one year. I also ended a lot of friendships because of that. After all, I don't think it made sense to stop her now. I just wanted to see if I could live without it. Yes I can. I can also become vegan. But why do it? as Saxons are both very harmful to the lungs and a waste of grass. I work non-stop and I feel great. My conclusion is that it depends on the person. How long can you stop her? How long have your vacations been? Try to refuse them if you really think you don't want to. I have stopped it twice in my life. For one year. I also ended a lot of friendships because of that. After all, I don't think it made sense to stop her now. I just wanted to see if I could live without it. Yes I can. I can also become vegan. But why do it? I also ended a lot of friendships because of that. After all, I don't think it made sense to stop her now. I just wanted to see if I could live without it. Yes I can. I can also become vegan. But why do it? I also ended a lot of friendships because of that. After all, I don't think it made sense to stop her now. I just wanted to see if I could live without it. Yes I can. I can also become vegan. But why do it?
Author, did you stop her? I wonder after so much time how things are going with you? !!
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I advise you to stop her forever. Here, if your life is better without her, then stop her. Of course, at first you will feel sick and maybe difficult, but then you will return to the previous way of life and you will feel much better. Personally, I am not an expert on the subject, but I think it is true that it is difficult to meet a non-smoker. I am only 14 years old, I study in an elite high school (with chemistry and biology), however, everyone offers me to try weed or cigarettes, or a hookah (with or without nicotine). I wonder if I should try: /. I'm confused and I don't know if it's harmful, as many people say, or if it's a good thing ... I don't know ...
To the author: In which language did you study? I ask because from next year I will study in the Lovech language school and I heard that there are drug dealers there. I'm very worried.
Hard work .... I think it will take years to shake off this empty habit. But you should not smoke at all. If you have to change the environment somehow ... Abe, in general, everyday life becomes quite boring after stopping all substances, but the most difficult way is to become a person, right :) Good luck!
Brother, I bet you're from Stara Zagora: e