Hello. I wanted your opinion on one issue. I've already talked about this with my friends, but I don't think they give me the right advice ... Let me tell you briefly. Years ago I met a boy, I wanted to meet him for a long time and so over time we started to like each other and so on, but we were relatively small. We supposedly went, but it didn't work out and we parted every time because I was stupid and I didn't appreciate him enough and as we fought once and I expected him to come back to me, but it didn't happen that way. He continued. I agreed then, I accepted it easily. After a while, I realized how much I miss him and until now .. There was a time when we wrote to each other, we talked ... I miss everything in it. He found serious girlfriends, they changed him. And I'm like the same. It is even more perfect now. I want him to look at me again in his own way. I want to write to him, to talk to him. At least I ask him how he is and what he does, but I'm afraid. We haven't talked for so long, I don't know how he will react, what he will think. I want at least to answer me, to tell me something .... I miss his name on the phone, Facebook and ... everything else .. What can I do? Please, mainly the boys, how would you react ...
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I would react normally. I will even be pleased to know that among the girls there was one who cared about me and is not like the others "BSN - Indifferent Cold Nepukistki" - silenter -
Write to him and call him for a conversation, but only the two of them.
Well, find a reason to write to him, for example, send him a nice email or a birthday card. I guess he'll answer you, and with more luck he might even invite you to the party. The important thing is to remind him of yourself, and then whatever happens. At worst, at least you'll be friends.
Just write to him without napping about how he will react, because in the end you lose nothing .. ask him what you want to know (how it is, what he does, etc.) and I guess you will strike up a conversation, you can start jokingly how it goes with the girls or something like that or if you are going to a party soon, to insert it into the conversation and quite by chance tell him 'there will be a lot of people if you want to come' and you will see each other and from there it remains for you to you download it :)
Yes, but I don't know how to talk to him, ie what can I say to a person I haven't talked to in a year ... I don't see him wanting to talk to me or anything like that ... but I would give anything to give me a little reason to even tell him how I feel ..
You can tell him anything, as long as you really want to. You women are very hesitant and indecisive. This is your big problem. Think about it, how does he know how you feel? You don't rely telepathically to read your mind. You don't die from sharing.
I know, but I don't want him to look at me differently or anything, I want to say that he has a life of his own already, he soon broke up with his girlfriend and somehow .. I have no place there .. I don't know
You have a place. Try it. From experience the head does not hurt. He was just scared. Do you prefer to be left alone and then regret it?
I'm sorry now, because the mistake was mine before ... I'm just disappointed now, I don't want to imagine what it will be like if he doesn't pay attention to me ...
I have the same problem. We broke up and came back many times. I finally told him no. Now about 8 months have passed. He has or had a new girlfriend, we have a conversation, he writes to me, but I don't know what to write to him just ... I feel that he wants to be with me too. It really hurts, everyone says you should look ahead, but when something is unexperienced it always pulls you back. Even now I have the feeling that this separation has changed me, I don't laugh so often anymore, I guess it's the same with you. Try to be with him, fight, strange as it may be in the beginning, even if he cuts you off, don't give up, sooner or later it will be appreciated. Good night! ESMERALDA
but I have nothing to fight for .... he doesn't want anything from me, because I'm past him, it's not quite like that for me ...