Hello, I am a boy of 16 and I will tell you how I behaved like a spoiled jerk and accordingly caused a lot of pain to my parents, and I myself did not know what I was missing. This happened 5 years ago, but only now do I realize that I was a big fool. Hell, but I'm very ashamed. I was an only child and I was fine, I never wanted a brother or sister. I have loved being paid a lot of attention since I was a child. I was used to being pampered because I am an only child. Everyone loved me. Grandparents, uncles, aunts, etc. I didn't know what was no excuse for me to be bad with my mother, but she had some complications when she gave birth to me and now she can't have another child. When I was told that they would adopt another child and even everything was prepared, I was very angry. Didn't they have me? What is it for them to adopt something else? Am I not enough for them? And why do they have to adopt him, can't my mother just give birth to something else? I told them all this, for which I am very ashamed. But even when I said all this to them, they still didn't tell me about my mother's problem, they just asked me to think. They didn't argue with me or anything, and now, out of guilt, I wish they had. Well, it happened as it happened and our people brought home a bundle with a little man in it for a few days. I'm ashamed to admit that at first I didn't love him at all, I didn't want to go home after school, I hated my mother making me help her with the housework so she could take care of my brother. Everyone came to see him, him, not me. I was used to them coming to see me, the gifts were just for me, and now there were no gifts. It was like that for about three months, I couldn't stand my brother, I didn't accept him as such, I didn't want him. Until something happened once. It was a Saturday afternoon and my mother had put my brother to bed and I was sitting at my computer. At some point, my mother came to tell me that she was going down to the store (because we live in a block) for two minutes to look after my brother. I didn't think much, he's asleep. But it so happened that shortly after my mother came out, he woke up and started crying. I panicked, I didn't know what to do, I didn't want to go to him, but I wasn't so bad as not to go. I went and stood for a few seconds, maybe a minute in front of the cot. He kept crying, so I decided to take him. I was a hell of a fear of missing him, but I was more afraid that if he didn't stop crying, something would happen to him. And then it happened .. . I held it for a while and it stopped crying, I didn't do anything, I just held it and it just stopped crying. I felt proud, as funny as it sounded that I had taken care of my brother, I thought about how my mother would come and praise me. I really want to be a dad ... Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do. .. Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no others stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) I didn't do anything, I just held it and it just stopped crying. I felt proud, as funny as it sounded that I had taken care of my brother, I thought about how my mother would come and praise me. I really want to be a dad ... Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do. .. Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no others stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) I didn't do anything, I just held it and it just stopped crying. I felt proud, as funny as it sounded that I had taken care of my brother, I thought about how my mother would come and praise me. I really want to be a dad ... Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do. .. Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no others stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) as funny as it sounds that I took care of my brother, I thought about how mom would come and praise me. I really want to be a dad ... Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do. .. Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no others stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) as funny as it sounds that I took care of my brother, I thought about how mom would come and praise me. I really want to be a dad ... Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do. .. Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no others stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do ... Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no other stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) Now my brother is 5 years old and I love him very much, he is the funniest paw I know, it's a big laugh. Well, it gets on my nerves sometimes, but what can he do ... Brotherly love: D I just wanted to tell, because today I was playing with him and my mother asked me if I remember how I didn't want him ... I got very sick and I apologized to her for everything ... I hope there are no other stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) I hope there are no other stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :) I hope there are no other stupid children like me who don't want a brother or sister, be it biological or adopted. Believe me, being a dad / poop is one of the best things that can happen to you :)
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Great story! That is why I am of the opinion that only one child should not be raised, because he becomes selfish. I am glad that you accepted it and that a child was saved from the orphanage.
A very touching story. Really!
Honey :)
Haha, yes, the little, roaring "bundle" that "steals" our attention in the beginning can be the enemy of the only children so far. Until he steals our heart too. For me, the opposite is true, I am adopted. They waited for 9 years and finally took me :). And they so pleased me, so much they repeated to me that I am their only and most special princess, specially awaited and chosen. I had a number when something refused me, I pursed my lips angrily, stamped my foot and asked "me, am I not a princess"? And it always passed. And suddenly my mother starts to gain weight. I saw my father glued to his bigger and bigger belly more and more often. I just decided how to tell my mother that she is already very fat and they told me that I would have a sister ... another princess :( Ooh, grief. I immediately thought about how she would touch my toys, I will probably want from my beautiful, specially sewn by my mother princess dresses. And then ... ha, they will no longer please only me, they will not be all the attention for me. And when they told me that it was inside my stomach and, oh horror, how these people put it there. I was a little reassured by the thought that I had been chosen specifically, and that she was now being hidden there in her mother's womb. Probably not yet decided categorically and that's why. Yes, but no. The mother entered the hospital and they returned with a squeaking bundle. And in the same way, relatives and friends admired the little, wrinkled and roaring doll. I wasn't very sure what was supposed to be done to her and why all the fuss around her. Let's get up and play at least as she came. The grandmothers also came and stayed for about a month, both of them to "help" the baby. YES, YES, but I saw, that they would break their legs and run towards her until she snorted. A week after the "naughty girl" came home, my mother, father and grandmothers started to give her to me to hold her, to swing in my arms, to sing, some of them. I sang, but she fell asleep. I don't know when exactly I realized that I love her more than my toys, more than all my friends, all the children of family friends and even more than my beloved cousin. On the streets I always made sure that she was well wrapped in the stroller, so that they wouldn't "curse" her, the grandmothers had said that we should protect her from lessons :). I was like! I already wanted to protect her from everyone and everything, she was so tiny that I even experienced something like a mother. Now I am the parent of two boys. When I gave birth and went home with the second, the big one kidnapped and kept his blanket until he accepted the conditions - "the little one should not enter his room and should not touch his things". Then he was already looking forward to when he would go and show him his thesis "things" and how to play with them :). Don't feel guilty, everyone, biological and adopted, is going through this. However, keep in mind that they become very annoying and jealous when we already have boyfriends and want to spend more time with the "beloved". My sister followed me to the corner of the block and in the evening she said in front of our parents "how she kisses the men on the street". He was a classmate, my first love and the "girl" knocked me out before I was ready to let them know that I already have a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! Then he was already looking forward to when he would go and show him his thesis "things" and how to play with them :). Don't feel guilty, everyone, biological and adopted, is going through this. However, keep in mind that they become very annoying and jealous when we already have boyfriends and want to spend more time with the "beloved". My sister followed me to the corner of the block and in the evening she said in front of our parents "how she kisses the men on the street". He was a classmate, my first love and the "girl" knocked me out before I was ready to let them know that I already have a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! Then he was already looking forward to when he would go and show him his thesis "things" and how to play with them :). Don't feel guilty, everyone, biological and adopted, is going through this. However, keep in mind that they become very annoying and jealous when we already have boyfriends and want to spend more time with the "beloved". My sister followed me to the corner of the block and in the evening she said in front of our parents "how she kisses the men on the street". He was a classmate, my first love and the "girl" knocked me out before I was ready to let them know that I already have a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! However, keep in mind that they become very annoying and jealous when we already have boyfriends and want to spend more time with the "beloved". My sister followed me to the corner of the block and in the evening she said in front of our parents "how she kisses the men on the street". He was a classmate, my first love and the "girl" knocked me out before I was ready to let them know that I already have a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! However, keep in mind that they become very annoying and jealous when we already have boyfriends and want to spend more time with the "beloved". My sister followed me to the corner of the block and in the evening she said in front of our parents "how she kisses the men on the street". He was a classmate, my first love and the "girl" knocked me out before I was ready to let them know that I already have a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! he knocked me out before I was ready to tell them I already had a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother! he knocked me out before I was ready to tell them I already had a boyfriend. I want to say that then these moments of jealousy bring them back to us :). Congratulations brother!
Congratulations to your whole family!
You are a sweet soul! :) You don't have to feel guilty about it. Your reaction was perfectly normal and I'm sure your parents aren't angry. Obviously you have a great family! Love and support each other with your brother.
Don't blame yourself. It is completely normal for an older child to feel bad and jealous of the appearance of a small one. Some admit it, others don't.
The author makes me feel, as a child I had a little cousin who I didn't want to see for anything in the world, and when he saw me he laughed and was happy. After a while he started looking for me and I still didn't pay attention to him, then I hated them all, they always wanted to see him, they were always happy for him and they forgot me, they just scolded me for everything. I always ran away from him like a ghost and he only wanted a little attention, after a while I grew up and I became more aware. Once I was made to take it in me for a photo wow when I hugged it and it smiled at me only now I was quite excited when I remembered. Well, after that I regularly dealt with everything around him, he is already a student, time flies and to this day he is always looking for me, sometimes he makes me angry, but those sweet eyes, and this smile immediately melt me. When he says how indescribable the feeling is, he takes an example from me, he wants to be with me all the time, to study with me, to play with me, to share, etc. There is simply no greater joy than children. To be alive and healthy and to listen to you more sometimes small children are a terrible boredom, but if you love them you see what wonderful creatures they are and how time flies with them :) Be an example for him and let him always make you happy, it's great that you realized everything this bravo takes care of him a man in life always needs a family of brothers, and sisters they are the closest people even a non-biological brother he is part of your family You are his family do not share.
Hello, don't worry, I know that even real brothers are jealous. I will give you an example. My brother had a boy when their second child was born. The eldest was also jealous. This is normal, but I think it's the parents' fault. to enjoy only the new I also want to share something if you can answer me please I have a girl of 2 years I want to have a second and God forbid a third but I want the children to be adopted because I'm sick and my disease is genetic fear I don't want to inherit it, my question is do you think that children will love each other and be happy
Hehe. And I didn't want my brother when I was little. But now I can't imagine life without a brother.
a good story, if true. in fact, there is some degree of jealousy between the biological children of the same parents, and it is somewhat normal. unfortunately I know a similar example that did not end in a happy ending. a family with one son at 14 decides to adopt a child from home, a gypsy at 4. in fact only the father wanted him, without taking into account the opinion of others. the child was almost unmanageable, ill-mannered, he could not be dealt with in the garden, the mother, too, only the father acknowledged authority. the eldest son did not want to see him, they passed without looking at each other. I hope things have improved over time, although I'm not very optimistic. in the author's family it is good that at least the parents had a consensus and he gradually got used to the brother.
very interesting story. Proving it's better late than never. It's good that you realized how bad you were. But on the other hand, your behavior was completely normal then. The important thing is that you now have a good attitude, which I hope you always have.
You are a decent boy if you know how to change and develop your point of view. Thanks for telling us this story.
Bravo to you! It is very nice that this child will get a chance in life! I'm glad you love each other! One day you and your brother will be your support! The feeling of having a brother / sister is amazing and it is! :) I am very happy with your story and made my day smile! Although I don't know you, I'm proud of you!
I think your parents are very, very cool people !!!
This is so nice! Unfortunately, I am an only child and I dare to admit that I really become selfish. For a while, let me become poop, but alas ... Therefore, rejoice that there is someone to irritate you, to take your toys, etc. Rejoice in the little bundle of joy !!!
I can say that those who are alone, like me, can be happy khakis and batkovtsi again! I am a very happy poop! My friend has a little sister and the little one constantly asks about me when I'm not with them. When we talk and she's with him, she picks up his phone and tells me, "How are you? Come on? Come on!" to stay and sleep with her. At noon she always falls asleep when I'm next to her. She loves her uncle and me too, even though I'm not a real poop, just her brother's boyfriend. (We are very distant cousins)