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I Was Humiliated

By lewdtwink September 30, 2020 44 answers Last updated September 30, 2020

Hello! I love this site, I find many of the stories instructive, I spend a lot of time here! Now it's my turn to ask you for advice :) I'm a girl and I'm 23 years old. I've had serious relationships, I'm a serious girl. I do not approve of infidelity, I do not approve of sex for one night, but this is my point of view .. I find it very difficult to be attached to people, I need time to love someone, I can hardly fall in love with someone or so I thought .. I met with him, 2 years older than me .. I can not blame my soul is very beautiful, but also a great womanizer, he slept with many girls, goes out with them 3-4 times and ends up with them and throws the next , because he gets bored .. When he wrote to me at first I was very skeptical of him .. He did not stop insisting on a meeting and so I rolled up and went out with him .. principled self-confidence is not lacking and I heard on our 2nd meeting it came to sex, it was really nice, he has experience and knows how things work .. We saw each other 3-4-5 times. But with the meetings I felt where things were going, I was the next one he was bored with, but it was too late .. I said to myself I can't fall in love with such a person, he interests me, I said to myself you don't fall in love easily it's not normal .. but it was true .. I never annoyed him, I never wrote to him first .. It had been 2 weeks and he had not written. I went out with friends and we went to a disco, he was there, I danced and had fun all night, ignoring the thought that he was there. It was 5 in the morning and I got dressed to leave and he wrote to me to see you .. He was waiting for me and wanted to have sex .. I am so sorry for this moment. He was terribly rude, he wanted us to have sex on the street, I ran after him like a puppy. And so when I think and I get so sad that I humiliated myself in this horrible way, I'm sad, I'm very sad, it's not me. I had sex with him on the street, behind a car. He kept pulling me, pulling my hair .. He said I don't like it, I want oral, I'm ashamed, but I squatted for that too .. He kept repeating until you finish you won't go anywhere, I repeated a hundred times that I can't anymore, he kept pushing me. He finished, said thank you and left, begging me to go to the other side not to see us together, and in the morning he had written to me "to last". I had been warned about him, that he was such, that he was an intriguer, that he he talks about what he does. The next day I woke up and cried, I felt very humiliated .. I made up an excuse "People are obviously right for you, I thought you would be silent about the things we are talking about, but alas"

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twiqiyi answered · September 30, 2020

   Don't worry, nothing knows what happened. You don't do anything out of one desire, but it's a part of life. Whether it will be talked about is beyond your control. What depends on you, though, is whether you care.

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pizzatime69420 answered · September 30, 2020

   You are not very experienced and naive. There are also better virtuosos of this type. Recently, there has been a show of young people. What a phone. What car. How much is "liked" in the networks. From there, the women became difficult to access, because someone was a bai-hoi and liked more photos! The parents are constantly sending money from abroad and have naturally paid for a master's degree. This don Juan of yours has more than once encountered such a "walking" young lady. In order to sleep with her, his head gave birth to more than one way to get hold of her double-edged sword. I used this without sex on my first date 20 years ago.

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wild_baby_lola answered · September 30, 2020

   Sex on the 2nd date is not done. I do not know with what confidence, you will walk the streets. Horror, haven't you heard anything about morality? If you run like a puppy after every "beauty", you will itch your poop. ;)

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penguins answered · September 30, 2020

   So never do things again that you know you will be ashamed of in time. Anyway, what happened happened. Now, even if you think about it, and cry, and harass, and insult him, you will not turn back time. Don't think about things that could have happened, but didn't. You did what you did, it's pointless to bother. One shoot, you have exactly one shoot, that doesn't make you the lowest woman in the world.

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_jessie_grace_ answered · September 30, 2020

   I'm sorry for what you did just because you were captivated by the beauty of a boy, or rather a womanizer. I'm sure that in the beginning there were "signs" or statements that you can count on to be just another one. You did the right thing by blocking it. Block him EVERYWHERE and just forget him, he's not the cute boy he pretended to be and how he behaved. He behaved well because he wanted to get in your pants. Personally, I have never allowed myself to be so humiliated for a man and believe me, no one will do it for you. A man like him appreciates you for the girl who can give him oral sex on the street, because you allowed it yourself. There is no way anyone can evaluate you if you do not evaluate yourself. He doesn't deserve your attention, erase him from your life and move on. Success!

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lady__a answered · October 01, 2020

   Darling, my eyes filled as I read ... What he did was awful, I'm sorry you let him do that to you. Everyone makes mistakes, the beauty outside makes us weak. I experienced something similar, but in a milder version. I have a friend for 3 years, I was only with him. Lately our relationship has been limping, he used to tell me to find another one if you don't like this and that, and in a moment of anger I accepted an invitation from a boy. He was nice and they wrote to me immediately. He wrote to see me every day for a week, I explained to him that I had a boyfriend, but in the end I went out with him because I was tired of him begging me and cutting him. And the moment I saw him inanimate, I regretted my rude behavior. His gaze on a typical stripper, the naughty smile, the timbre of his voice ... I liked him. I didn't do anything with him, of course we just talked. But after that meeting I wanted to see him again. We saw each other again and I didn't understand his intentions, he looked at me as if he would grab me and kiss me but he didn't. And I didn't have the courage to do it. After the second meeting, he stopped writing, apparently tired of not sleeping with him as he had hoped. Another who complains about light women and that they only look at his car and money, and he was constantly showing off his car and his money. I fell for it, I wanted it, but in the end it all ended ugly. A third meeting did not follow, he became cold and said that it was better for me not to write. Then he started bothering my friend, complimenting her, inviting her on a date. And he said that he deliberately stopped writing to me because some people paid attention to them and imagined that something serious could come out. I am 19 and I despair of the debauchery and the way people are used in society. Women want money, men just sex. And then. everyone cries that there were no serious ones. Serious ones are not appreciated. Honey, I'm very sad for you. No one deserves such treatment. I hope one day someone will hurt him twice as much as he has all the girls so far. Everyone sooner or later finds a master, so to speak. Now for a while, you will feel bad, you will think about what happened. I know. And I still am, even though I lacked physical contact. But I advise you not to be left alone. Be with your family and friends all the time, go to a disco, and make sure you're busy. Over time, what happened will fade. malkatarozichka 19 y. Serious ones are not appreciated. Honey, I'm very sad for you. No one deserves such treatment. I hope one day someone will hurt him twice as much as he has all the girls so far. Everyone sooner or later finds a master, so to speak. Now for a while, you will feel bad, you will think about what happened. I know. And I still am, even though I lacked physical contact. But I advise you not to be left alone. Be with your family and friends all the time, go to a disco, and make sure you're busy. Over time, what happened will fade. malkatarozichka 19 y. Serious ones are not appreciated. Honey, I'm very sad for you. No one deserves such treatment. I hope one day someone will hurt him twice as much as he has all the girls so far. Everyone sooner or later finds a master, so to speak. Now for a while, you will feel bad, you will think about what happened. I know. And I still am, even though I lacked physical contact. But I advise you not to be left alone. Be with your family and friends all the time, go to a disco, and make sure you're busy. Over time, what happened will fade. malkatarozichka 19 y. you will think about what happened. I know. And I still am, even though I lacked physical contact. But I advise you not to be left alone. Be with your family and friends all the time, go to a disco, and make sure you're busy. Over time, what happened will fade. malkatarozichka 19 y. you will think about what happened. I know. And I still am, even though I lacked physical contact. But I advise you not to be left alone. Be with your family and friends all the time, go to a disco, and make sure you're busy. Over time, what happened will fade. malkatarozichka 19 y.

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bongo64 answered · October 01, 2020

   Yes, you are humiliated, but you will know in the future. He was interesting to you, you were glad that he took an interest in you and wrote to you, and he was so wanted by all the other girls ... and that's how things happen. I do not advise you to communicate with him on any occasion from now on.

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matthewlasko answered · October 01, 2020

   And how did you think you were going to change it, and you? Most men aren't surprised, are you? At least you let him on the second night. The bad thing is that when you come across a decent boy, you will start spinning his numbers and dreaming about that one. Women are basically big liars, but how you bite (figuratively and literally) is unbelievable. You are the only one, unique and you must reward him with sex. Well, there's some hope you noticed that you were humiliated.

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_shewolf_ answered · October 02, 2020

   At every moment, from the beginning - from when you fell for his beautiful face, knowing perfectly well that you are the next, to the last - when you "squatted" on the street like the last "highway", you had a choice. During all these moments. In the end, you did exactly what you wanted, and you got what you deserved. I don't see anything unusual that deserves any extra attention or emotion.

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cutie5793 answered · October 02, 2020

   So ... Why do you all say how serious you are and they don't approve of this and that and how you want a serious relationship with a serious person and in the end what ... Everyone ends like that - your bad boy ... And he dumps and then you remember why you are enchanted and how different you were for him, etc. And so on. And guys like me (I'm modest, aren't you) who are really serious always have a finger in their mouth and if any of you look at us, after a while it's enough until the incident behind the car with the bad boy because she was bored with us .... Come on, you're left to happen to you

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demi_vikky answered · October 03, 2020

   Girl, don't you have a gram of self-esteem? Did you have sex on the street? With a person who called you after a disco as if you were on call? Not only did he humiliate you, but he treated you like the last piece of garbage. Why did you sleep with him on the second date? Did you think it would be different with you? But go there, come, you are young, you are naive ... But to respond to sex on the street and kneel for a whistle ... is forgiven, but you are stupid and immature. My words are not intended to offend you, slap you twice and consider the situation. Analyze your behavior. And he never, ever lets any man treat you like that. Demand the respect and attitude of men. He who cannot behave respectfully, give him a way through the door. And remember the words of Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt - "No one can humiliate you without your permission"!

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makeoverid answered · October 03, 2020

   Honey, you're very naive. I hope that you will learn from this experience and that you will no longer be tied to the minds of such people.

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officialmwave answered · October 04, 2020

   Me, these people don't talk for no reason, but you have no idea. The bad thing is that there is so much vacuum between your ears that they were used by a player who is KNOWN to be a player. I'm shocked at how stupid you can be. One thing I do not understand only - why do you complain later ?! As long as there is a sensual thought in your hollow gourds, to tame the bad boy and make him meek and obedient will be so. The good ones are boring for you, aren't they :) That's why they will kneel on the street. :) Just don't complain about sites and forums, you crush them yourself.

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joannakrupa answered · October 04, 2020

   No one can humiliate you if you don't let him. I don't see anything wrong with having sex, you're young and single. But I wonder why you take him for a humiliation - he still didn't rape you. You forget the incident and move on. Take it as a useful lesson.

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green2828 answered · October 04, 2020

   "He felt that I was not like the others" - you are worse than the others. You have sex and oral sex on the street and you claim that you are of higher quality. It is absolutely natural that he dumped you, and the biggest humiliation is that He doesn't want to be seen with you. Next time, think more before you take off your pants on a second date.

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8andahalfinchnerd answered · October 04, 2020

   And don't pay attention to individuals like # 4. Sexually frustrated, without a drop of empathy, as if they have been sinless all their lives and have the right to judge.

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alexaxwhite answered · October 05, 2020

   You have made a great "effort" to humiliate yourself - you have not listened to the advice of others, you have not listened to your own fears ... I do not know if you realize if you continue with this blind love how many more such humiliations you will experience, but your life is yours after all - you decide.

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tucknuipooh answered · October 05, 2020

   It happens to everyone! Take it as a lesson, you are very young, but a person makes mistakes at 23, 33 and 43, he is deceived, sometimes he humiliates himself. As for this handsome man who goes up and down, takes down women and pretends to be the big player, he doesn't think so. Sooner or later he will find his coach and play so well that he will be dizzy. Someone will always reach into his soul and then he will remember you and every other humiliated girl. And some time ago I came across such a "Don Juan" I was married, I did not cheat, I just wrote to myself and I, like you, allowed feelings to appear in me. When he saw that I would not be tied to him, he withdrew and moved on to the next one. Five years later I divorced, he got married, but he did not stop changing women in extramarital affairs. He is looking for me now, now he shares his family problems, he wants something more, but he will not receive it from me. You did well to block it, try to forget what happened, life has a great sense of humor, after another year the gentleman in question will get what he deserves.

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ashley_wildcat answered · October 05, 2020

   And why?

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diego_lainez answered · October 05, 2020

   Everyone makes mistakes. The important thing in your case is: you are not your fault! Don't be sorry, we all learn all our lives and everyone is weak in some area. And the second important thing is not to repeat your mistakes, but never. Nor humiliation - that you are chasing another man like a dog. Sex too, but this is a separate topic when after how long, etc. for sex. And about falling in love: it has been scientifically proven that when there is sexual contact, feelings always appear in a woman (hormones, brain, blah blah, his scientific work) and in men there is withdrawal and irritability. Block this person and don't let him into your life anymore. And keep in mind about such cannons. I know a show that talks about relationships, write pooitai dani tanev. Good luck.

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champmasturbater answered · October 05, 2020

   As number 4 says, sex on a second date is not done! : Either immediately or with another ....

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cockdrop20 answered · October 06, 2020

   It sounds like a porn novel to me. The girl meets a sexy womanizer, about whom people do not have a good opinion. However, he explains that he is honest in his intentions and always tells the next one that he only wants her for sex, but still women fall in love with him and hate him. Then the girl appears and they live happily. The difference with you is that you are one of many. And I don't see how you can claim to be "serious," provided you fucked on a second date with a man you know doesn't have a high opinion of women.

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joemanda123 answered · October 06, 2020

   There is nothing wrong with sex on a second date. There is nothing wrong with sex on a first date. There is nothing wrong with street sex. It's even exciting. It is foolish to imagine that you are something different from others. It is foolish to believe that you can influence another person who obviously likes himself and is happy with his life. It is bad to teach anonymously. It is even worse to rejoice, dear disrespectful gentlemen. If I had sex with the one I wanted, I wouldn't take it as a humiliation. I would think I got what I wanted. Alpha, w. 30 years

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straightsilky answered · October 06, 2020

   Bravo Alpha!

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kim3611 answered · October 06, 2020

   He did not force you, he did not lie to you. You wanted it yourself. Then why do you feel humiliated? He treated you on the street like garbage. Well normal. How do you expect him to respect you after you slept with him on the second date?

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figure1 answered · October 07, 2020

   You have nothing to regret, who did what, no one else can do it to him. This 80% of women have either been or will be a bitch or you are, sooner or later you realize. And my ex had sex for one night a month before we met a few times, the current one had sex on the 3rd date 2 years ago and this jerk held it for a year and watched me. It is humiliating for us guys who try to be nice to you, kiss you, hug you, give me love, and you slept with someone on a third date and humiliated and teased you without giving you anything. We and you are humiliated in this situation. The opinion of the person in question, who took advantage of you, is that you are a bitch, and the boy next to her knows this, and all his relatives and friends and acquaintances know that he made fun of you because the boys brag about it. Social networks, Facebook, ostentation and the fact that you keep watching other girls and want to be liked, things will get worse. Even if you catch a decent friend, after a while you will subconsciously go to bed in the evening slightly aroused and you will remember how you were teased and teased in cars and on the streets and subconsciously without wanting it you will get aroused by it, you will remember, and supposedly you do not like it. If you don't like it, you won't do it. My friend humiliated me. She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! that you are looking at other girls and you want to be liked, things will get worse. Even if you catch a decent friend, after a while you will subconsciously go to bed in the evening slightly aroused and you will remember how you were teased and teased in cars and on the streets and subconsciously without wanting it you will get aroused by it, you will remember, and supposedly you do not like it. If you don't like it, you won't do it. My friend humiliated me. She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! that you are looking at other girls and you want to be liked, things will get worse. Even if you catch a decent friend, after a while you will subconsciously go to bed in the evening slightly aroused and you will remember how you were teased and teased in cars and on the streets and subconsciously without wanting it you will get aroused by it, you will remember, and supposedly you do not like it. If you don't like it, you won't do it. My friend humiliated me. She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! after a while you will subconsciously go to bed in the evening slightly aroused and you will remember how you were teased and teased in cars and on the streets and subconsciously without wanting it you will get aroused by it, you will remember, but you don't like it. If you don't like it, you won't do it. My friend humiliated me. She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! after a while you will subconsciously go to bed in the evening slightly aroused and you will remember how you were teased and bullied in cars and on the streets and subconsciously without wanting it you will get aroused by it, you will remember, but you don't like it. If you don't like it, you won't do it. My friend humiliated me. She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating! She was with another 7 to 22 now, but here in Sofia she came at 19 and blew 3 fast. One on a second date and he was looking at me 11 months after my relationship with her, and I had to ask him if he had ever slept with her, because he lied to me specifically about him, that he didn't even know him .... it's OFFENSIVE and disgusting, humiliating!

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shadeicelia_ answered · October 07, 2020

   You are still immature for this type of relationship. As number 25 wrote to you, instead of feeling humiliated, live with the thought that you just had sex for your own pleasure. Oh, the way I put them in their place, then they can't come to their senses. He pulled you, not bad, but there are two for this game. Pluck it too, grab it, skin it, if you're going to play like that, get involved. You squatted nicely, why didn't you stand up and wish for you. You let them have sex with you, not have sex together! If you did the latter, you wouldn't get bored. Raise your head and with confidence. If he talks, talk too. Don't hide as if you're ashamed. A single young woman has sex with an attractive man, there is no shame here.

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mysticalfreehands answered · October 07, 2020

   28, where is the logic for someone to behave disgustingly with you because you slept with him on a second date. Rare are such idiotic comments as yours.

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croatia answered · October 08, 2020

   I can't understand why Bulgarian men still live in the Middle Ages. It is clear from my story that they both wanted it - the girl is just worried about not coming out "easy" and that's why she is afraid that he will not talk. Welcome to the 21st century. Sex is a physical pleasure, and while they both volunteered, I don't understand why she was humiliated and he wasn't. There is no question of any humiliation. 30 - if you weren't so offensive about "numbers" women wouldn't lie to you. Your friend didn't tell you because she knew that with your Balkan mentality you would dump her when you heard the truth. If you want to be honest with yourself, accept that women are not your property and it doesn't matter how many people they have slept with, just as your numbers don't matter.

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coyotelovesyou answered · October 08, 2020

   35. Haha think, think. But you know that the ones you fuck with, sitting at a table and flipping through Facebook and they see somewhere they comment on what you are (if the numbers really don't matter to you), men have for us. It is humiliating that the penis, like a penis, has entered where it licks and there has been a frivolous relationship. It doesn't matter if a woman has experienced love, feelings, etc., to have any numbers, but to have slept with someone on a second or third date and to send her naked photos is NOT OK and will never be. Be a bitch ... your problem, if I find out you're like that, I'll throw you in the trash and go back to where you were. It is humiliating for us men to treat you like princesses, to worship you, and for someone else to say two kind words to you and sleep with you and then comment on the table how he fucked you. POINT

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frankie_raz answered · October 08, 2020

   So what about you. I don't know how it will sound to you, but while reading what was described I got excited. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like it aint for me either. But if you still wanted it and agreed, accept it as a more extraordinary sexual experience that you did not like and accordingly you will not repeat. As for whether he will say, what do you care? I have never been ashamed of the things I did with a man in bed. I even enjoyed what filth I gave him to do to me. It would be humiliating for me to do it with someone I don't want or for money and other such reasons. So, head up. If someone says something, he answers, yes, I gladly swallowed it, but he obviously doesn't know how to give pleasure and I won't repeat it.

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juliericci_officiel answered · October 08, 2020

   To number 35: I have long wanted to write this here: Dear young lady, numbers matter and sex is NOT just physical pleasure. I know you are left with these impressions, thanks to the many luxuries that today's time offers (condoms, contraceptives, the ability to be financially independent, the endless choice of sexual and love partners, etc.), but understand that these luxuries have a price. The Internet is flooded with topics, videos and articles such as "What do women want?", And how many articles such as "What do men want?". Probably not much, because no one cares. Please understand that just as for you a woman, 1 and 60 tall, weighing 90 kilos and unemployed is unattractive, so for men whores are unattractive (for a long-term relationship). This is simply the psychology of human beings. It has nothing to do with eguism, outdated understandings and the like. That's how it comes to us from within. A man loves challenges, loves to prove himself, and what is the challenge in taking down a woman who has been taken down by 25-30 men before? And why if these 25-30 men got sex without giving anything, the 31st has to buy a ring and have a wedding? The author has the right to feel humiliated because what she has done is not worthy of respect. This is animal behavior. I know that it is encouraged among today's women and it is not difficult because it is easy for a woman to get sex. The idea is not to make sex as easy for women as it is for handsome men (I emphasize handsome men because it's hard for others). The idea is to make it as serious for men as it is for women to make them more responsible and hardworking. The idea is to keep the bar high for everyone (not just the beautiful ones). How would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend made expensive presents to his ex, took her to nice places, and fucked her hard, and made you cheap presents, didn't take you anywhere, and fucked you for 10 minutes once every 3 days, or that he was just kinder and better to her than to you. And all because his ex was more beautiful than you. I know what you're going to say: "Ha, I'm just throwing it away and finding another one !!!" And now imagine that the other is doing the same, and the one after him, and the one after him. Would you love these men? Would you compromise on any of them if they sifted as if they were a commodity that was either quality or not? This is how the average man feels today. You must be thinking now. "

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gttk0000 answered · October 08, 2020

   It's normal to feel sick. After all, he treated you horribly. But you can't go back in time. Even if he did not tell what happened, this does not justify his bad attitude, which is close to violence. You did the right thing by blocking it. It is best to erase it from your life and move on. Just pray he doesn't start harassing you, because there are men like that.

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iplatv answered · October 09, 2020

   Number 39: your man, he loves challenges, he loves to prove himself, and what is the challenge in taking down a woman who was taken down by 25-30 men before? DT: That's right, one man loves challenges, and what greater challenge than to be preferred to 20 others? It is very easy to be the best when you have no one to compete with. Number 39: And why if these 25-30 men got sex without giving anything, the 31st has to buy a ring and have a wedding? DT: You accept sex as a bargaining chip. Do you buy sex with a ring? And how do you know that these 25-30 didn't give anything? Maybe they gave what you can't. And, yes, sex can be a purely physical pleasure. And those who point out that they are a nice guy, usually can not boast of anything else. Grandpa Torbalan

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jadebanksz answered · October 09, 2020

   39 - this only proves my thesis that you live in the Middle Ages and obviously there is no hope to get out of there soon. The only one who spoke logically was Grandpa Torbalan, and he does not live in Bulgaria. Since I also live abroad, I am extremely grateful that there are normal men, far from the sexist Balkan behavior. Believe me - the last thing a Scandinavian, Dutch or Slovak will think of you after sex is that you are light because you let him on the second date. By that logic, he is also light. And you're wrong - if I'm with someone I will not care at all what he gave his ex. I don't ask about my ex and I don't talk about my own - the past is over. 36 - you can't dump me, because I wouldn't approach a guy like you voluntarily. And where I live, men don't gossip or discuss their numbers on Facebook. Pity,

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namakoe_ answered · October 09, 2020

   42, you are right, the Bulgarian men are far behind, I am Macedonian and when my wife lets me go on a second date I say "well done, that's how I want you". I do not see which normal man would be against a woman letting him on the first or second date, probably retirees write these comments. For the Scandinavians and the Dutch, you forgot to say that after sex with a woman they want sex with a man, but these are cultural features.

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larissamanoela answered · October 09, 2020

   At least in the way he took you down, it looks humiliating. I even wonder how you agreed? And he told you to "last." It's so brutal that I wonder if this topic is true.

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littileminnie answered · October 09, 2020

   Look now, to many girls and women who for some reason are immature or in an unstable emotional state, this can happen ... I think it should be a good lesson in life for the following things - it is not logical to think that for the "big downloader" who is mainly looking for sex, you will be something special. It is more logical for him to seek only sex from you again, and if you are ready to communicate in this way with men and with him in particular, then you simply decide that you are such a woman, and act accordingly. Without fuss ... There is something very important - you are still very young, life is ahead of you, you probably live with your parents or they support you - these things are not forever, youth, beauty, support from parents are up to date. Be careful not to wake up at 36 and not know where you are and wonder how to sell your sex then for shelter / food / normal work, etc. In addition, for most women, the biological clock is ticking. at some point you will want to realize yourself as a mother ... These questions are serious and should be considered along with the thrill of whether to get good sex from the busiest boy / man around. One more thing - you say '' I went out with friends and we went to a disco, he was there, I danced and had fun all night, ignoring the thought that he was there. '' - it's good to know that you can't squat all night in front of a man who likes you physically and wants sex from you, and you pretend to ignore him. That sounds absurd. Nowhere in the world can this go unnoticed. You provoked the predator in him and he "punished" you sexually. You obeyed him and fulfilled his wishes. Nothing more or less. And I say again - you are young, this will pass and go, the important thing is for a person to get up after a mistake, to stand up, to change his clothes and to move forward, taking the necessary lessons and trying not to repeat the mistakes. There was a saying: The fool learns from his own mistakes, the clever from others, and the perfect from both ... Health and good luck!

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taralipinski answered · October 09, 2020

   From number 39: Every time, every topic, when there is talk of debauchery, the same women pop up and start proclaiming: "This is the new time !!!", "Women are now free !!!", "Who is against debauchery" lives in the Middle Ages !!! "," Bulgarian men are to blame !!! "," You are Neanderthals !!! ", etc. etc. And have any of you ever wondered what the consequences are when this thinking has been imposed on millions of people for decades? I doubt. The only thing you have to offer as an argument is: "debauchery is good, I am a free independent woman, only God can judge me, to see in the west what kind of men there are", in short NPC meme BG edition. I bet Grandpa Torbalan will be proud if he finds out that his daughter is like a homeless bitch behind the discos. But what to do, we have already opened the Pandora's box, whether we are (or those before me have given) freedom to women (not freedom), and now we will have to wait for them to cover their legs a little. I'm just curious, those who do not allow their wives to show their faces, displacing demographically your favorite Swedes and Dutch, and those who marry their daughters at 13 displace us demographically, then where will you go and who will spit? Well, I forgot, then you will be old and shrunken and it will not be your problem, it will be a problem for your children and grandchildren, who will either be few or there will be none, because thanks to your current progressive thinking the birth rate is practically 0. But these are deep topics in the field of geopolitics, evolutionary psychology and philosophy, which are hardly suitable for the Bulgarian version of 4chan. For now, remember one ladies: Live, be progressive and modern, throw away those panties and wave them nicely in those vaginas, with whomever and wherever you come. And don't think about condoms, diseases are a myth, there are abortions. Show the whole world, and especially us Neanderthals, how progressive and modern-minded you are.

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brandonrowland answered · October 10, 2020

   46 - we are not progressive thinking and modern - we are just thinking. Your problem is not that you have old-fashioned understandings, but that you do not accept that there are people with different thinking from you and different direction in life. Who shows his vagina where, who shows him the biological clock for how many hours and who will give birth to children is not your job. And yes - I really don't care where humanity will be in 3000, whether we will exist at all and who will displace us demographically. The author simply shared an incident from her life and people like you attacked her without mercy. Now that you think about it, your father is probably the same as you. No wonder the girl feels used and humiliated. I'm ashamed of you.

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makerswomen answered · October 10, 2020

   to the author - the way you feel ... will pass, just remember that there is no way to take out from someone what you do not wear ... sometimes the ego makes us think that we can change someone, to get feelings out of him and emotions that others before us have failed at, but that doesn't happen, and even if it does, the garbage remains garbage and sooner or later it comes back to itself. N.

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nissanusa answered · October 10, 2020

   46 - since you touch on "deep topics" in your comment, I recommend that you take "politics" out of geopolitics and think about the unfortunate planet earth, which is extremely overpopulated and brutally exploited, and 2-3 billion fewer pests like us. will reflect on her very well.

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eunjung.hahm answered · October 10, 2020

   People who have sex with many other people are mentally ill. Normal human relationships have nothing to do with indiscriminate sex. And he's upset because he's probably been hurt by another woman in the past. It is possible that she was also his mother when he was a child

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hot_ammym answered · October 10, 2020

   46 to 49: The planet and nature suffer the most damage from so-called developing nations (China, India, etc.) because they have the highest population and their technology and legislation have not yet reached the point of protecting nature. It is true that there are technologies there, but they are not widespread. As for the overpopulation, again, these countries, together with Muslims and Africans, contribute the most to it. In sub-Saharan Africa, the population is close to a billion and is expected to reach 4 billion by the end of the century. Do you really think that you will help the overpopulation by dying childless? Moreover, the planet needs more people who care about it. And they are the smallest and are decreasing. This argument "I am concerned about nature and I will not have children for that" only serves to disguise the eguism of those who use it.