A 12-year-old girl is writing to you. I will try to be as short as possible, yes. My father takes drugs, and mentally harasses my mother .. And until recently the same thing happened, my dad promised not to take drugs .. But apparently the old song again ... Now we are with my grandparents, but I can't stand it. They are constantly wrong! My father took the key to the apartment - I can't get clothes, textbooks, a backpack and things like that .. I'm at school tomorrow but obviously I won't go
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Your mother should consult a lawyer and immediately file for divorce. As for your things, you can take them by going to you with the police or a few stronger acquaintances, if you have to break down the door. Unfortunately, your father will not recover, but it will get worse. Grandma locked her uncle in a mental institution 3 years ago because he was harassing her. He was released after 3 months and when he stopped taking drugs he did the same job. There is no deal with such people, it is no coincidence that people have said that there is no such thing as a former prostitute, former drug addict, madman and alcoholic!
Darling, be strong and don't give up, you can talk about it with your mother, I hope she fixes things. Tell your grandparents about it. There may be advice from them on what to do with their son-in-law. Upstairs darling. Miro-24
Go to school and tell the teachers what you are going through, ask someone to come home with you. I fully understand you, but you should know that you are not alone, there will always be someone by your side to support you. Good luck sweet girl Miro
And then they say that creating a child, a home, a family was equivalent to maturing and settling down ... Boy, go to school and talk freely with the teachers there about the situation in your country and what your father does!
From the author: Thanks for the comments. My mother went to protect the child and the police but I was not there, but in general they did nothing .. My mother thought to go to the locksmith, but she is afraid that my father may catch us (he does not work in the city but), if you catch us, you have a poor imagination of what he will do .. In general, I do not want it to be so, but he flatly refuses to stop drugs, which makes me very sad .. If he does not get drunk, he is an amazing father .. But if he is intoxicated - he shouts without reason, my mother swears, insults her, etc .. I want so much to have a close-knit family .. But alas .. Now all my friends from school ask me why I'm not coming, and I'm just wondering what to say ..
From number 5: Honey, go to school tomorrow and just tell the truth when they ask. You are not guilty of anything and you have nothing to be ashamed of! Sorry I dropped a letter in my previous comment and made you a boy.
From numbers 2 and 3 don't worry the author won't be offended by a letter, she has to be strong and fight because her father can sink and she doesn't want that
Miro, why are you nagging, I just wrote her not to worry about going to school and not to be ashamed when asked what is going on, because she is not guilty of anything !!! I wrote about her letter, by the way.
I think you and your mother should leave him and she should divorce. Let him talk to a lawyer.
to number 9: I'm not picky, I'm just giving advice
Dear girl, if you are still following the story, write how things developed. I support you. I'm sorry for what you've been through, that your father is taking drugs, watch out for him and don't let him ruin his life and don't let him ruin the lives of the rest of the family. Regarding comment number 9 - I will not pay attention. My sister is a little older than you, but she has the same problem with her stepfather. Good luck. Miro :)