Hello cuties! Me and my madness are on the line; e! I start from the beginning. In the summer I liked a colleague from work and since he was constantly teasing me I decided to ask him to go out sometime. The man refused me because you had a girlfriend..blablalla; e We remained very good friends and the other day we met in the gym, and he introduced me to the instructor because they are very good friends. He joked that both of us couldn't listen to our heads, the three of us laughed a lot, and the boy was super cute, and he had impressed me before. It turned out that he was also super polite, the next day he was at work again and talked to me. In general, I am not particularly bothered by such things, but I obviously liked it more than normal for such a short time because I got hot and hurried to leave, because I was not sure if I was not blushing; e. I want to ask men how they react, if a woman invites you out, will I not go out with some overly arrogant and domineering crazy woman; I don't want to intimidate him if he speaks to me out of kindness. It will be a kind of casual de, for example: "How many hours do you work on the weekend, how many breaks do you have?"
He will say 12 hours (as if I don't know HD) ; e I don't even know what my question is. Is my approach appropriate or should I let it work if it wants to? Would you like a woman to be proactive or trample on your manhood? He will say 12 o'clock (as if I don't know HD) "we have 4 breaks, now I'm going out for lunch" and I will offer him to drink coffee; e I don't even know what my question is. Is my approach appropriate or should I let it work if it wants to? Would you like a woman to be proactive or trample on your manhood? He will say 12 o'clock (as if I don't know HD) "we have 4 breaks, now I'm going out for lunch" and I will offer him to drink coffee; e I don't even know what my question is. Is my approach appropriate or should I let it work if it wants to? Would you like a woman to be proactive or trample on your manhood?
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He told you he had a girlfriend! How would you feel if someone ... stocked up on your boyfriend? Leave it. This is a purely whore act for me, I'm sorry. If he is a decent person, he will continue to cut you whatever you do, and if he is like you and you come to your senses with the fact that he is not who knows what, "blabla", take yourself - you are a bit of a cornflower.
Well, then he had a boyfriend, and now he has or they have already broken up? If you don't ask yourself this question, it doesn't speak well for you.
And in my office they are all like you: cocky, impudent, mouthy. Nothing interesting. If you invite me for coffee, I won't refuse you and I'll watch you. I can be impressed by a well-mannered, sophisticated girl, whose class is obvious and not a word to say. Such sato can catch some carp. There are them, try them.
Your approach is very simple. And a child from kindergarten will know that you are falling for him. You do not look arrogant, imperious, but impudent and easy. If he wanted to be with you, he would invite you. He told you he had a girlfriend, why are you dating someone else? It is not provocative, but the behavior of a light woman.
1, in love and in war there are no illicit means. It is very funny to me if a man in love stops him if the woman has a friend (except when she is engaged, with a child, children, married). But there are many examples of people crossing borders. Here is Ivan from "Ivan and Andrey". His Irina leaves with him when his ex-wife is her best friend, who brought her to his show. That's a whore, yes! But the woman took an interest, fell in love and now have a child together. Apparently they love each other a lot. So life is full of "whore numbers." And my advice to men, especially the young 20-22, should not be stopped by the fact that the woman has a boyfriend. If they want to be with her, love her and don't care about the number, let them win it. True love has no limits. So act if you like the boy. Maybe he likes you more than his girlfriend, who knows? We don't stay with 1 person forever.
Here the population obviously has serious difficulties with understanding a text in a free form. I would advise you to wait a while before inviting him for coffee, do not serve him ready.
Did I just understand that it was the instructor and not the colleague with a friend? :) Maybe I'm wrong too. I think act boldly, you have nothing to lose. Just so he doesn't turn out to be tied down, because the nice and the educated are usually not alone. Good luck! :)
You express yourself very vaguely and there is a mess in your head. I did not understand your colleague will invite or the instructor? Otherwise, in essence. No matter what man you're talking about - no, don't. There are biological rules in this life and you will break them.
What is a man with a girlfriend for? Do you want to be part of a love triangle?
From the author: Male, how many evil people
Are you saying you want a date with a fitness instructor? You are on the right track with this approach - it is not obscene at all and you will not come out arrogant and easy, as long as you are careful how you behave. No problem talking and inviting men over for coffee. It's even cool for us! ... Just don't spread your legs under the table .... Bye Sun;)
I did not understand which of the two you want to invite to a meeting? Fitness instructor or colleague? If the colleague is NOT. The instructor could, why not? At most to deny you. :)
He cut you off once, if he is already alone and he likes you, he will invite you. Otherwise, I would ask him why he hangs out with women when he has a girlfriend.
Abre, 1 and 2, she's talking about the gym instructor, not the colleague. And to the author, act. Or ask to exchange numbers, just in case you need to. Then it should be felt and he should write, if not, you will have his number and you can write to him. Even confident men sometimes need a certain level of security that they will not be cut off. Success!
1 and 2, do you read with understanding?
Obviously, the story is very vague, since almost no one has understood. You yourself wrote that even you do not know exactly what your question is, but we were accused of being evil. In fact, I didn't understand exactly what your question was. Ok, good health.
From the author: Yes, yes, I am absolutely entangled, I understand your confusion! I'm sorry, I was in a kind of euphoria, but yes, it's about the instructor. And I inserted the other story to point out that my colleague was obviously trying to match me with another boy because he cut me off in the summer. : d Of course I would never invite him if I knew he had a girlfriend or I suspected. Just then everyone in the office told me that he had to like me to behave like that, he was constantly glued to me.
I am 1. I apologize for the confusion! When it comes to the instructor - act boldly, I take my words back :) I understood the whole story in a completely different way.
As soon as it becomes clear that you will invite the instructor - act boldly!
It is the same for any man. A valuable woman, with class, self-respect, who knows her price, does not attack men alone. Today she liked this one, tomorrow another, third, fourth and what, will she invite them all to a meeting? Then she will wonder why no one wants her for a serious relationship, but only for sex. Author, if you want an opinion, you must be ready to endure something different from yours. And in life it is so, not everyone likes you and agrees with you, get used to it! Just because we don't think like you doesn't make us evil.
You read wrong. She wants to invite the fitness instructor!
I think that the author drank at least 2 glasses of wine and had a dizzy head before writing her story. If you are sober as you read these comments, tell us if you met the boy.
My advice is to choose an indirect approach. Don't invite him to a meeting, make him invite you. Looks, jokes, light flirtation - two steps forward, one step back. And don't rush, you shouldn't look too aggressive or, God forbid, desperate. The man is a hunter by nature, play a little, let him hunt you. Be a weak, fragile, cunning Woman.
Up to 24 - what kind of hunting are you talking about b * ... Usually our hunting in bg turns into witch hunting ... but come on! ....
Abe today, young people can not say two words crosswise. We spent 20 comments just to find out who it is and we need at least 20 more to clarify the issue, because I still do not see a specific one, but only some general talk, accompanied by unnecessary Americanism such as "casual". What did we think - what does what I think matter and what is the guarantee that he is like me? You do not mention what specific approach you will have, nor anything. Let me know one thing - never invite a man on a date, because there is a high probability that he misunderstands the message or at least misuses it, but just show him that you like him, and if he is interested, he will show it.
To all who say that if the girl invites him, she has no class, self-esteem, value: wake up a little, the year is 2020, not 1820! -Bratan's right testicle
From the author: 21, on the contrary, the comment did not end there, but it was not published in its entirety. I laughed a lot because everyone was wrong because of my inadequate explanation and yes, 23, I absolutely turned over 2 glasses of wine
From 11 and 25 AUTHORS - as soon as you went to put on your fitness instructor, I understand - you are a CANDY !!! And believe me, whatever crack you make, things will work out for you! I don't know why you even think that? And you don't have to take the coffee! He will surely spare 10 leva to win you over! Nice dump And then write to say if he is gifted !?
Oh my God. Come on, the other one says, "If you invite him, he can take it the wrong way." What are these mouths for you? Communication is amazing
From 24 to 25 Ha on a bet that you haven't been anything for a long time * ....
28 - if she had started with wine, not to waste time reading a confused scriptures, taking you seriously and answering you. Come on, invite him, first for coffee, by hitting two or three cups and staying overnight.
28, is when you turned 2 glasses of wine (half a bottle), what was this "Male, how many evil people"? It was supposed to be "Male, how snorted I was as I wrote this." Or was it still snorted during "how many evil people"?
Do 28 Two glasses of wine are not "SO MUCH" :) Mine drinks from the three-liter box and has dried it for one weather.
Up to 5 What's funny to you? That someone is dumb and assertive, even if they tell him no? this is not funny - it's a pity!
Yes, it is crazy to make plans for self-humiliation.
From the author: Hello, thanks for the comments of all, cork and untidy to be some of them. Today we met and talked, he asks me what I eat after training in general and if I have already had lunch, so it happened that we went out to lunch together during his vacation. We talked about sports, we will run together soon, maybe, maybe; e
Your expression shows that you are a one-dayer. If he has a girlfriend, he won't be attached to your stupid plans, but he would fuck you if he paid attention to you at least a little. Too bad for his girlfriend!
More than half of the commenters do not know how to read a text like humans, but they can give reason and criticism. The author writes that she used to like a man, but he had a girlfriend and she gave up on him. He then introduced her to another man, an instructor who was probably free. And now she will invite the instructor to a meeting. How you did high school is a mystery. On the topic: Come on, author. What could be so bad. If he cuts you off, it won't be because you were active. Men are not afraid of such things.