I'm a girl of 16 (9th grade) ... when it happened I was 15 - this summer. Different students from the class went with a few ladies to the sea. Everything was so much fun the first 2 days. And here on the 3rd day, more precisely the 3rd night. There was a very cute boy, but not one of those like in the movies where they respect others and so on. ... a lot of girls passed his mouth and how many more there would be. And so the 3rd night came and I just wanted to admire the sea ... it was dark and there was no one. And then this boy appeared. It was a drink. He hugged me and we fell back, I was a little scared if I fainted what to do, but compared to what was ahead of me was a drop in the ocean. And going back to my story we fell off he grabbed my hands above my head - a lump stuck in my throat and I don't know how to continue ... he started unbuttoning my vest, the tank top I was wearing had no straps and it came down easily, how many light jeans and underwear were in the sand a few seconds later. .................................................. .. After I left I barely got dizzy and the only thing I remember is that my hair was all in the sand. I went back to the hut and took a bath. I was in such a hurry to get out and go to the pharmacy that my hair was completely wet. Thanks to a few ads, I thought of the Escapel pill, I don't know what else I could do ... probably share it with someone. The next day I was supposed to sleep until 2 pm. Everyone asked me if I was okay. I lasted the 4th day without touching food, but the next day I was much better. It was about 5 o'clock in the afternoon, I don't know where the girls from my room were, but I didn't care until he came in and sat on the next bed, I was convinced that he would start apologizing and so on. Well, it wasn't like that. He started asking me where I was, smiling and flirting. I haven't shared it with anyone but it was the most horrible moment of my life. Today I rarely see him in the school hallway, I avoid him, but I will never forget what happened. You wonder why I'm only sharing it now - did I have another choice, hardly But only now have I realized it and I think I can listen to other points of view.
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He probably really likes you. I ask you, if you like it too, why don't you take advantage? BUT! If there is a reputation as a tailor, you have to be careful. You don't have to drop it, go. But don't expect anything serious. Don't make plans for a spectacular relationship. Don't dream of long "love". Try NOT to be torn by HE, then to roar. As long as you ask, you can have it the way you want it.
Did he rape you like that? why don't you talk to someone. . ??
To like her !!!! number 1 told you if you read the story. He raped her and then acted as if nothing had happened, at least I understood what had happened. It's full of such idiots ... Poor child, I would probably go to the police.
From the author: I do not know if anyone has been in such a situation to be humiliated in such a lowly way by a person whom he liked and gave hope. I don't think I have such good friends to share my own shame with. The worst part is that I'm still somehow attracted to him. I want to turn back time and not go to this hut at all. I'm so confused how I managed to admit it. Whether I could hit him and run away or subconsciously ... I really don't know what to do. Until a few weeks ago, I had almost forgiven and forgotten.
I don't want to offend you or anything. To summarize the story. He came to you drunk on the beach, undressed you (you didn't have hands to take your clothes off the sand and get dressed), you went to the pharmacy and took contraceptives. Then this boy is nice and comes to talk to you. To ask you how you are not flirting, darling. I think you're pretty confused. Typical adolescent;]. - CW
So if I were you, I would never look at this boy again and I would make him pay for what he did and I would share with my parents how you have the strength to move forward.
And did you resist at all or did you allow yourself to do it? Because if I were you, I would either shout or somehow get away, even if it cost him his life. I don't understand how you can have such a big shame, that you don't share with someone you trust, such as your parents.