I'm 29, but now I feel like I'm entering life. I'm a "late bloomer", from "English" people in their 20s or 30s who start to feel good for one reason or another, work / social status/money/expression/body to sleep with or gain popularity/attraction from the opposite sex. Sometimes categorized as scholarly when they were in school. "
My problem is that I haven't started looking at chicks now, but now I seem to have lost my fear. I had 2 boyfriends, only having sex with only one, it was a long time ago and I didn't even use my potential because I was afraid to express myself and lead, which made me congested.
Self-pity doesn't come out of my head, I don't want to feel sorry for myself, why didn't I go through certain things as a younger, younger, how can I do it now as girls now women expect something different from me, and not to behave like an inexperienced teenager. And when I see a 20-year-old girl, my heart breaks and I always feel like I've wasted my last years without doing anything in that direction that even just sex is just for fun and to try to know what to do when I'm attracted. to a woman, or provided that I accept her as a potential spouse. When I like a girl not someone close to my age, but 21 years old, for example, I just repeat to myself how my time has passed and that I have to look at someone 7 years older / older.
This is my problem left over the years, now as I said it's different, I'm sure, they can't just invade my personal space, I'm cocky, I know what I want, I'm alpha by definition :), but when it comes to women, boyfriends, experience in this thing, I overwhelm myself with thoughts like "now if I was 20, but I'm already 29" it seems to weigh on me that I have to admit to someone that I am a teenager on this topic but I am 29.
Sometimes I like someone 21 years old and I want to have fun, or just sex or a relationship, no one knows, but I say to myself "am I old for her already, am I not", I go back to her age to remember how I am felt when one of my peers was dating a 29-year-old.
You can write whatever you want as a comment, I tried to be honest and share the most hidden thoughts on the topic, to be clean in front of myself, only then can I get adequate help. I don't have bad thoughts about women or thinking about how to use them.
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roughandkinly801 answered · July 21, 2020
Act boldly, the past is past, today is today.
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mybeanayy answered · July 21, 2020
You are not old, I have acquaintances of 19-20 girls who go with men 10 years older than them and they have no problem.
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redy_red answered · July 21, 2020
This is very stupid what you wrote, first you can be 21 years old, do you fall from Mars, 8 years is not a big difference, second you want to say that women your age are old which is again complete nonsense, I am outraged by I will not comment on your way of thinking anymore, but I can
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tori__vega answered · July 21, 2020
I don't see anything wrong with liking younger girls.
And you haven't missed anything, in 10 years you will think the same and you will be left with only your dreams, so act until it is too late. And some girls like it when older bakers are interested in them.
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naiadi9_8 answered · July 21, 2020
If you were Alpha, such thoughts would not stop you at all. As he said himself, you are late in many ways. You had to feel like a young man - arrogant, confident, not letting them fuck you, chasing the coolest cuties and the like. So far I have not seen Alpha men not have something sexy for sex, not to cheat on one babe with another, in the end they will go with some gorodolka or just fuck her from time to time, no matter how not at all. My observations are all on sets and lasting at least 15 years, or in other words from the very beginning of our teenage years, as the sweet ones say 13.
Those thoughts that you think make you Alpha, and behaviors, had to be inseparable from you from kindergarten. Who knows, you must have behaved and felt like others at the age of 14 after coming of age. The important thing, however, is with whom, with what% of people you managed to share this new worldview. Who knows what thoughts stopped you then? Now something is stopping you again, you say it yourself. Then, at 40, don't shout, but if I were like that at 30, I'm by definition Alpha. 30-year-old men fuck 20-year-old girls without caring. Even when I was 14-15, the sexiest sets went with boys 5-10 years older, no, I didn't have them then, I admit. But even their then-treadmills were B's who didn't settle for beauties their age, they weren't Alpha.
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hydra_rus answered · July 22, 2020
It took a long time, my goal was not to get annoyed.
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fat__cock__dad answered · July 22, 2020
Don't worry, he was a man! You are 29, not 89! Life is in front of you, what are you sour about? Yes, it's true, things aren't what they were when we were 19 or 20, but that doesn't mean we have to cut our veins because our lives are over. As for the girls at 21, on the contrary, right now you are more interesting to them than their peers, because you are a little more mature, a little more independent and you have an idea more of what you want from a woman. Yes, I do not deny that there are boys in their 20s with a lot of experience, but most of them are not and are exactly like you were in your 20s, ie. insecure. So, don't be fooled that you are a few years older, but when you see a suitable girl, act! What can be so scary? To cut you off. Is very important.
Stop thinking about it, but enjoy life. You still have a lot of new things and challenges ahead of you both in your personal life and in your career, so don't dig into the past as if there will be no tomorrow, but look ahead.
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princess_lunaa answered · July 22, 2020
My mother is 8 years younger than my father. At school in 7th or 8th grade the girls went out with twelfth graders. Don't worry, there's nothing to lose. If you want to write comments, your choice. But I'll tell you one thing, yes, two things. First: In theory it is easy but in practice it is quite different
Second: Action is needed!