I was on vacation in a seaside resort and witnessed a picture that is still in my head. I saw a woman with two small children on the beach being bullied by a "father" and a "husband" psychopath. The first day he was furious because the umbrellas were going to break from the wind and he was pulling them away from his wife with all his might, I had the feeling that he would hit her. The second day was furious because there was sand on the towels I quote "There is sand everywhere, look at the towels, look at the other women, look at you" after the woman went to bed he said "go to bed that you are very tired". On the third day they were leaving the beach and he told his wife '' Where did you go when you didn't collect everything, look at your monkey, then he pulled her, pushed her to the ground and threw sand in her face, the children cried, he pulled one of the children and told his mothers it was her fault she was making the scandals. Then she left with one child, the other stayed with the psychopath, he started shouting what rubbish everyone was and how they ruined his vacation, then he told his child an idiot because of you, this happened and he pushed him to the ground in the sand. The child began to cry and apologize without guilt, and he said, "No, I'm sorry, look at me, all trembling." Why do such women tolerate such treatment? I want to tell this woman, if she happens to read this, to get rid of this one as soon as possible, because the children will suffer the most. then you told your child a fool because of you this happened and pushed him to the ground in the sand. The child began to cry and apologize without guilt, and he said, "No, I'm sorry, look at me, all trembling." Why do such women tolerate such treatment? I want to tell this woman, if she happens to read this, to get rid of this one as soon as possible, because the children will suffer the most. then you told your child a fool because of you this happened and pushed him to the ground in the sand. The child began to cry and apologize without guilt, and he said, "No, I'm sorry, look at me, all trembling." Why do such women tolerate such treatment? I want to tell this woman, if she happens to read this, to get rid of this one as soon as possible, because the children will suffer the most.
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Some women tolerate this attitude because they find fault with themselves and do not have a high enough self-esteem. They no longer feel like women because there is no man standing next to them, but a man who has not been taught how to treat women and appreciate what he has. If this woman really comes across your story, I need to get rid of this man as soon as possible, I repeat AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
Ugh, I saw similar scenes last month. The first day, a five-year-old fighter, looking like an aging wrestler, started making a fuss about his wife's account of why there were big waves in the sea and the wind was blowing - what would he do on the beach if he couldn't swim, he couldn't is baked like a lizard. The woman tried to reassure him and began to gently explain to him that the weather was like that, you could not predict when it would be quiet, when it would break down and that no one was to blame. The children sat on the towel and did not dare to move or call. The mold ignited even more and she started screaming at her, hitting her luggage and throwing it on the sand. The woman was quietly collecting her belongings, trying not to object to him, and obviously she was coming to die of shame, considering that there were beachgoers everywhere around them within a radius of 2 meters. Then that psycho started shaking, how are they going to stay on the beach now, after everyone around has heard them and will discuss and watch them (again shouting out loud, as if she were guilty). The woman began to reassure him that it was normal and there was no need to move - she gave him an example of how someone scolded everyone around the beach yesterday and then went to bed and no one was impressed (what argument at all?!?) This whole dialogue takes place as if they were alone on the beach, not surrounded by towels everywhere. The guy sat down on the towel for a while, but soon after, he was hysterical again, jumped up, and began to talk about how things would work out with his revolver. He was going to show them. He accused her of what they were doing on the beach in August - the hunting season had begun, and he was sweating here instead of hunting with a rifle. Of course, his wife was to blame. And then, as a small child, he started shivering and shouting that he wanted to go hunting ... I just don't have words - and this is a mature man approaching 50 ... I was more surprised by the woman's behavior - all the time she agreed with him and calmed him down, she was obviously used to such outbursts. For the children who had to witness this thing, I felt even more sorry. The guy spent the next few days on the beach shaking and behaving like a small child - an ugly picture everywhere. I don't know what to say, how can a mother tolerate such a thing, ostensibly in the name of the children and in order to keep her family. Or rather, how do you even decide to have children with such a person? The guy spent the next few days on the beach shaking and behaving like a small child - an ugly picture everywhere. I don't know what to say, how can a mother tolerate such a thing, ostensibly in the name of the children and in order to keep her family. Or rather, how do you even decide to have children with such a person? The guy spent the next few days on the beach shaking and behaving like a small child - an ugly picture everywhere. I don't know what to say, how can a mother tolerate such a thing, ostensibly in the name of the children and to keep her family. Or rather, how do you even decide to have children with such a person?
Many men, crushed by lack of money or a difficult life, make it to their wives, as if they are to blame ... Unfortunately, these are also my observations ... So they probably kill the complexes out of their own helplessness.
Do I know why his wife tolerates him? There may be many reasons, but we are generally a people of patient idiots.
I don't know, I would never watch such a parody of a man, what's left to be in a relationship with one. Black Sabbath
There are such bastards on this earth ... Ahhh wait a minute ... Didn't women love bad boys? And in this style, you just can't stand it when someone is nice to you ... There was such a song of the time by a famous Bulgarian artist.
Instead of writing it here, you should have told the woman then. Well, you stared at Seira, and now you write on forums. There's no point.
Familiar picture. These women are brought up in this way, to accept such an attitude, to accept that they deserve it. Even if the next one leaves, he may be different in his degree of aggression, but he will still be an aggressor. It is sad and even sadder for those who will not only see but also experience what you describe. I had a period in my life where I had to feel obligated and guilty for being human, and it was a choice to stand up to those I love so as not to hate myself over time.
What do you care? Do you have a wife / husband and children? If you have, you should not look in someone else's bowl, but set an example with yourself. But you don't seem to have. And this man, no matter how "psychopath" you think, has a wife and children - even two. Do you know how few men already have 2 children? You started criticizing other people, but you didn't fix yourself. The first rule of a truly conscious person is to know that everything happens for a reason and that a person always does the best he is capable of at a given moment. This woman just doesn't know a better attitude. This man knows nothing else. But in the end, their strategies work. They have inherited subconscious patterns from their families (the man being the abuser and the woman being the victim) and although they don't look good from the outside, they actually have production - they have children. That is, the strategy is successful. Point. Could it be better? Maybe, for sure. But even so, things happen. And many Pishman critics who look into someone else's bowl don't have children. They have failed strategies and are accordingly removed from the gene pool.
7, ha, give them the bad boys!
I do not agree with the comment on number 10 The very fact that you call children a production is a manifestation of disrespect for the person as a whole and there is one of our main problems. It is impossible to develop the family as an institution while there are people like you who believe that the creation and presence of children is a sufficient reason to accept and belittle the physical and mental attack in their educational process. Isn't the quality of a production more important ....
Well, since he's such a freak, why did she give birth to his children and live with him? Why not catch up with someone normal? As much as the man is guilty, so is the woman.
God, it's as if you're describing my father to this day - these people don't change. They are not divorced yet, and I fled abroad.
Because in our country people are afraid of going to a psychiatrist for neuroses and the like, that's why there are some. If they were on sedatives or antidepressants, they wouldn't be. "The whole tremor" is indicative of nervousness and nervousness. Or there may be hyper-activity in the thyroid gland.
Number 10 is right. Congratulations,. Number 13, are you outraged when there are Human Resources departments in big companies?
Number 10 how can you say that children are just production and their creation was the most important thing, not how they are looked at. So let's create children with geeks and bully them, but they are born, that's the most important thing. And do they want to be here themselves? And you are the same b .... k
It's very easy on the side, isn't it? I have had similar cases with an ex. He was a very dumb creature, but a lot. A routine scandal and I called that ex. I beg you very much here that some cuties do not diagnose people, who was a psychopath, who was like that !!